Looking at Ruoxi, Tan Yuming continued: "One of the most important psychological rules is that no matter how painful something is, you can't escape it. You can only face it bravely, resolve it, transcend it, and finally be with you.
It achieves reconciliation. If you yourself are temporarily lacking in strength, you can seek help, seek help from relatives and friends, or seek professional help, and let someone you trust accompany you to face these painful things."
Standing up, Tan Yuming continued: "American psychologist Rogers was once the loneliest man, but when he faced this fact and resolved it, he became a real master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank had a violent and alcoholic man.
He had a stepfather and a terrible mother, but when he challenged this fact and finally forgave his parents from his heart, he became an expert in treating this problem; Japanese psychologist Masama Morita was once a severe neurotic patient, but he
By challenging this fact and ultimately inventing the Morita Therapy...the most painful fact in their lives turned out to be their most important asset. You can do the same."
"Ms. Ye, please understand that although it is painful to face the pain, you will get many unexpected gains from the pain, which will eventually become the wealth of the person's life. Shadows, like light, are the wealth of life."
Ruoxi didn't know what she was feeling when she came out of that room. Her heart felt heavy, as if she had accumulated too many worries and oppressions, making it impossible for her to cope with herself.
"How are you? Ruoxi, why do you still look so tired?" Shiqin came over and stroked Ruoxi's long hair with a gentle tone.
"Nothing." Ruoxi smiled bitterly and pulled Shiqin out of the Tan Consulting Office.
While sitting in the car, Ruoxi felt that Shi Qin had been looking at her, his ice-blue eyes filled with distress. Inexplicably, something in his heart moved.
It squeezed into her heart like a sweet spring. I'm sorry, Shiqin, for making you worry about me.
I'm sorry, Shiqin, for irritating you!
She thought she was the most miserable person in the whole story, but she didn't realize that there were actually many people who cared about her.
Just like those around him, Shi Qin always pampered himself with an inclusive attitude.
"Shiqin?" Ruoxi took Shiqin's hand and looked into the ice-blue eyes that fascinated her: "Did I make you tired? Did I make you very tired?"
"Silly woman, what are you talking about?" Shiqin hugged Ruoxi, rested his head on Ruoxi's hair, and said dotingly: "You are my woman, don't forget that we are getting married soon, Ruoxi, we will be married soon."
Just got married."
Ruoxi smiled sweetly and shed unknown tears in her eyes: "So, Shiqin, I have decided!"
"Decide what?"
I decided to dig out all the rotten flesh, no matter how painful it was.
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Everything in this world is accomplished by hope. A farmer will not peel a kernel of corn if he does not hope that it will grow into a seed. A bachelor will not marry a wife if he does not hope to have children. A businessman will not go to work if he does not hope that it will grow into a seed.
He never expected to gain from this. Defeating yourself is the most tragic failure, defeating yourself is the most precious victory.
For Shiqin's sake, and for their tomorrow, Ruoxi is willing to try.
After returning home, Shi Qin was called away by the company's phone call again. Ruoxi was lying alone, looking at the ceiling above her head, in a daze.