Human beings have invented countless ways to avoid pain. Freud called these ways psychological defense mechanisms. When the pain is too painful, these defense mechanisms are necessary, but what is worse is that if the psychological defense mechanism distorts the facts so much,
If it is too severe, it will bring about more psychological problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, multiple personality, and even schizophrenia.
Tan Yuming's words kept coming to his ears. He said that if his condition was not treated, it would turn into obsessive-compulsive disorder, multiple personalities, or even schizophrenia. He said that if he didn't want to go there, he would have to get better on his own.
Ruoxi folded her arms and curled up in her vagina. It would hurt, it would hurt a lot.
One of the most important psychological rules is that no matter how painful something is, you cannot escape it. You can only face it bravely, resolve it, transcend it, and finally reach reconciliation with it. If you temporarily lack the strength
, you can seek help, seek help from relatives and friends, or seek professional help, and let someone you trust accompany you to face these painful things."
Who should I look for? Poppy? Xu Yao? My two dear friends, you have both gone to heaven, how are you living in heaven?
"Ah, it hurts!" Her stomach began to twitch again, Ruoxi frowned, and suddenly sat up, breathing heavily.
American psychologist Rogers was once the loneliest man, but when he faced this fact and resolved it, he became a true master of interpersonal relationships; American psychologist Frank had a violent and alcoholic stepfather and a terrible mother.
But when he challenged this fact and finally forgave his parents from his heart, he became an expert in treating this problem; Japanese psychologist Morita Masuma was once a severe neurotic patient, but he challenged this fact and finally invented
With Morita therapy...the most painful facts in their lives eventually became their most important wealth. You can do the same."
"Ms. Ye, please understand that although it is painful to face pain, you will get many unexpected gains from the pain, which will eventually become the wealth of the person's life. Shadows, like light, are the wealth of life."
Face the pain?
Ugh! Ruoxi's heart surged, and she quickly stood up and ran to the bathroom.
For some reason, she always felt nauseous these days. Ruoxi wiped the sweat from her head and looked at herself in the mirror. Her face was pale, her lips were also pale, and her whole person looked weak. What's going on?
Why are you sweating so much?
Could it be that she is pregnant?
impossible!
Ugh! Ruoxi lay down in front of the toilet and vomited loudly.
Blood? What's going on? Why is there so much blood?
Ruoxi touched her nose and mouth, and there was blood all over it. Oh, it turned out to be a bleeding nose.
Haha, I used to be sick in my heart, but now my body is also sick?
Haha, with a pale smile, Ruoxi felt dizzy and fell down directly.
When she woke up again, it was already dark, and the dense night made everything look mysterious and dim. Ruoxi sat up and found that she was still in the bathroom. Ruoxi looked around, Shiqin must not have come back yet. He propped himself up,
Ruoxi stood up and walked out.
Shiqin, I'm sorry
My willfulness once made you suffer, and my stubbornness once hurt you.
So be strong from now on, Shiqin, I will definitely work very hard to overcome the psychological barriers and walk into the wedding hall with you.