"That's really a pity. He came to you later, so why didn't you see him? Is it just because he broke up with you in the first place?"
Chen Feng now gets along very naturally with Liu Meijun. If he has anything to say, he will ask directly.
Liu Meijun expressed her reasons: "I have been betrayed once by him, and I don't want to do it a second time."
Hearing this, Chen Feng couldn't help but defend her first love: "He broke up with you because of the pressure of his parents. You can't blame him entirely."
Liu Meijun said lightly: "He was nineteen years old at the time and was considered an adult. She broke up with me as soon as her parents forced her to. This shows that he doesn't really like me in his heart. If he really likes me, he can definitely persist.
After all, since he was the only son of his parents, would they still break his legs? In addition, he could have promised to break up with me, but secretly he could have continued to contact me secretly. But he really wanted to break up with me at that time.
We broke up. Tell me, did he really love me at that time?"
Chen Feng was speechless when asked.
There is no doubt that what Liu Meijun said is very reasonable. If her first love really loved her, there was really no need to break up with her.
Even if you can't withstand the pressure from his parents, you can pretend to break up and continue to communicate secretly in private.
It can only be said that he really made up his mind to break up with Liu Meijun at that time.
It was only after he repeated his studies for a year and finally got admitted to Shuimu University that he suddenly regretted it and thought of turning back.
If Liu Meijun had reconciled with him at that time, he and Liu Meijun might not have made it to the end.
Because most people don’t cherish things that are easily obtained. Especially if a woman comes and goes as soon as she is called by a man, then it is strange for this man to cherish this woman.
As for the fact that he later got together with the study committee member, and is now married and has children, and his family is happy, I can only say that it is a matter of personal fate.
Maybe it was Liu Meijun's refusal to get back together with him that made him learn to reflect and cherish, and later he fell in love with the study committee member until now.
"Then now he and the study committee member of your class live together and have a happy family. Aren't you envious?"
Chen Feng's words felt like rubbing salt into the wound.
Liu Meijun didn't care, she smiled and said, "To be honest, I'm not envious."
Chen Feng asked in surprise: "Why?"
Liu Meijun smiled and asked, "Do you know why my female classmate wanted to have a third child? You know, she was already forty years old when she gave birth to her third child."
Chen Feng guessed: "Want to have a son?"
Liu Meijun laughed, nodded and said, "Yes. They have shared the joys and sorrows for more than ten years, and they do have a good relationship, and they love each other very much. But my male classmate's parents are very patriarchal, especially him.
Mom heard that people in my hometown have been praying to God and praying for a grandson. As a result, my female classmate gave birth to two daughters in a row, which greatly disappointed her parents-in-law. She herself had not wanted to have children for a long time, but her parents-in-law
She has been forcing her to give birth to a third child all these years, and she must give them a grandson. After several years of carrying it, she finally failed and gave birth to a third child. Think about it, isn't this very sad?"
Chen Feng asked curiously: "Did she give birth to a son in her third pregnancy?"
Liu Meijun nodded and said: "The test tube they should do for the third child will be a boy directly. You should know this technology."
Chen Feng nodded: "Of course, why don't you know about IVF?"
Liu Meijun said: "When doing in vitro fertilization in China, it is generally difficult to choose the gender. But overseas, there are not so many scruples. Whether it is a boy or a girl is decided by the client."
Chen Feng said with a smile: "But in America, it is not easy to have an abortion. Hospitals generally do not accept abortions. In China, hospitals used to rely on this business to generate income, and TV stations broadcast abortion advertisements every day."
Liu Meijun rolled her eyes at him: "That was before. It's gone now."
"That's right." Chen Feng responded casually and then asked, "Then she has a son and a daughter now, which is pretty good. Why don't you envy her? Is it just because her parents-in-law forced her to have three children?
?”
Liu Meijun said: "After giving birth to her third child, she suffered a lot of physical damage. In addition, she had to raise three children. Even if she hired a nanny, she still had to work hard. I heard that she had suffered from severe postpartum depression and anxiety.
She suffers from insomnia all night, and also suffers from anemia, gastroenteritis and other diseases. I heard that she is no longer able to live a normal life. She was hospitalized for more than two months some time ago. Tell me, what do I envy about her current end?
?”
Chen Feng really didn't expect such a result. He was stunned for a while before he realized: "How do you understand it so clearly?"
Liu Meijun said: "They are all my high school classmates. I also have several high school classmates in New York. Of course, I know their situation better. In addition, the study committee member of our class is an expert in the circle of friends. He often talks to friends
It’s hard to avoid letting others know about her current situation by posting pictures and sharing her mood.”
Chen Feng shook his head and said: "I really didn't expect such a result. It's a pity. I thought they were living a happy life now. It turns out that fairy tales are all lies."
Liu Meijun said lightly: "She is like this mainly because she was harmed by her parents-in-law. It can be seen that she really doesn't want to have a third child, but she can't resist her parents-in-law, and her husband is obviously not on her side. So.
, after she reluctantly gave birth to the child, coupled with her poor health, she always exploded. So, it’s okay not to have such a husband and such in-laws."
Chen Feng felt emotional after hearing this story. He picked up the teapot and poured himself another cup, then took a big sip.
"Okay, I've finished telling my story, it's your turn. Tell me about your experience with that person, or you can simply tell me all your relationship experiences, including how you got married and divorced. Anyway, idle time is idle.
Do you think so?" Liu Meijun raised her eyebrows at Chen Feng.
Chen Feng also raised his eyebrows and said with a smile: "My emotional experience is so rich that I can't finish it in three days and three nights. I'll just pick two paragraphs to tell you."
After all, after hearing other people's emotional experiences, Chen Feng certainly had to talk about his own accordingly. In this regard, his character is quite strong.
"Just two paragraphs, it's too little." Liu Meijun said with some dissatisfaction.
Chen Feng said speechlessly: "You just told me one paragraph, and I told you two paragraphs. Are you still not satisfied?"
Liu Meijun was a little embarrassed when she heard this, so she said, "Okay, just tell me two paragraphs about your relationship experience with your ex-wife, and about you and that woman."
Chen Feng immediately shook his head and said, "I can't tell you about my relationship experience with my ex-wife, unless you can also tell me about your relationship experience with your ex-husband."
After Liu Meijun thought for a moment, she nodded and said, "Okay, I'll just change it to your current girlfriend, okay?"
When Chen Feng heard her talk about Wu Mengting, he didn't object, so he agreed: "Okay."
"Then tell me quickly. I'm really curious. Let's start with your university alumni."
"Okay, let me first talk about the relationship history between Han Xiaoxiao and I. We officially established our relationship when I was a sophomore and she was a junior..."
"Wait a minute." Liu Meijun interrupted, "Tell me how you met her first. There is also some background information, which needs to be more detailed."
Chen Feng said angrily: "You have quite a lot to ask for."
Liu Meijun raised her eyebrows and said, "When I just talked about it, it was also very detailed, and there were questions and answers."
"Okay, okay, let me start again. She and I were studying at Tunghai University of Science and Technology at the time. She and I met at an event organized by the student union. At that time, she and I were both volunteers of the student union, doing odd jobs and so on.
She is not a formal cadre of the student union. She has a good personality and looks okay. At first, she took the initiative to talk to me, and then we gradually got to know each other.
Not to brag, when I was in college, I was much more handsome than I am now. Therefore, when I dated girls in college, it basically started when the girls took the initiative to seduce me. I basically didn’t spend much money on dating them.
.In addition to the fact that I didn’t have much money at the time, it was also because I never had a serious relationship when I was in college. We just had fun with each other, each got what we needed, and lived together..."
"Wait a minute." Huang Meijun interrupted him again, "I don't understand, what does it mean to live together? Do you mean renting a house with them outside the school and living together?"
"That's not what it means." Chen Feng explained, "It's just that those girls need a boyfriend, especially a handsome boyfriend like me. Bringing him out will make them look bad.
What's more, I can also take care of people. Basically every morning, I buy them breakfast and send it to them downstairs in their dormitory. I also line up for them at noon and evening. When they are sick, I buy and deliver medicine to them, or accompany them to the hospital for treatment.
You can sit with them, study or chat with them during evening self-study. During holidays, you can also go shopping with them.
Of course, these are just life and mental problems. There are also physical problems. Even though they are just college students, many girls have eaten forbidden fruits as early as high school or even junior high school. When they get to college, they also have certain physical needs.
Yes, I happen to be able to satisfy them in this regard.
When I interact with them, I always make a point. I can take care of them and care for them like those full-time boyfriends, but I will not lose heart with them, nor will I fall in love with them. When one day one of them feels that it is boring, I will
You can announce your breakup.
To put it simply, taking care of the kidneys does not take away the heart. However, I am not just taking care of the kidneys with them. I also care about and take care of them in daily life, and accompany them to go shopping and provide them with sufficient emotional and spiritual value."
After Chen Feng said these words, Liu Meijun actually did not call him a scumbag like most women. Instead, she smiled and said: "I have to say, your method of play is quite advanced, and it is worthy of your conscience."
Those scumbags who cheat on feelings or even money and sex are much better."
When Chen Feng heard what he said, he couldn't help but smile.
Chen Feng had never told anyone about his experience in college before, especially women.
Today coincided with the meeting, coupled with the interesting chat with Liu Meijun, and her probing, I finally told him about his past in college.
"Thank you for your affirmation. I thought you would scold me if I said this."
Liu Meijun shook her head and said: "Why are you scolding you for this thing that you and I agree on? Besides, you said it yourself and made an agreement with them in advance from the beginning. So this Han Xiaoxiao was one of the people you lived with in the beginning?
"
"Yeah." Chen Feng nodded, "It was when I was a sophomore and she was a junior. Didn't we meet at the student union? At first, I had no intention of dating her. After all, I was dating another classmate at that time.
Dating with girls. About two months after we met, I broke up with the girl of the same grade. We met again at a student union event, and she took the initiative to chat with me again, and we had a great time chatting.
After the event, I invited her to drink milk tea, and she agreed. We went to the hotel that night and confirmed our relationship. Of course, I also agreed with her in advance that we would live together, not fall in love. She needed
I, I need him too, we each get what we need, that’s all.”
"Then how did you break up later?" Liu Meijun urged.
Chen Feng thought for a moment and chose to tell the truth: "After I got along with her for more than two months, she actually fell in love with me and wanted to be my real girlfriend and fall in love with me. Of course I didn't want to.
Then, at that time, there happened to be a rich second generation who was chasing her. When she was angry, she kicked me and ran away with the rich second generation."
Liu Meijun couldn't help pouting after hearing this: "She's too stupid. For someone like her, doesn't she know that the rich second generation is chasing her just for fun? Needless to say, she was dumped by the rich second generation later.
right?"
Chen Feng nodded and said: "Yes, she was dumped by the rich second generation. After graduation, she returned to her hometown to work and live. It has been ten years since we lost contact. But not long ago, she came to Xiuzhou from her hometown to work.
She got in touch with me. As a result, as you can see, she really wanted to revisit her old dream with me, but I had no interest in it."
Liu Meijun asked with a little disdain: "Does she still want to be your girlfriend, or even your wife?"
"How is this possible?" Chen Feng immediately shook his head, "I have made it very clear to her a long time ago that I now have an official girlfriend and am also dating several other women, but she doesn't mind and said she wants to continue to be with her.
I live together. I didn't agree and refused in person."
Liu Meijun smiled and said, "I think she still hasn't given up on you."
Chen Feng spread his hands and pretended to be helpless and said: "I can't help it, I'm too good now. Not only am I handsome and handsome, but I also have money. If it were you in her place, would you be willing to give up?"
Liu Meijun glared at him and said, "I'm not a superficial woman like her."
"You call others superficial again, as if you yourself are very profound." Chen Feng said angrily.
She said Chen Feng was superficial before, and now she said Han Xiaoxiao was superficial. Of course Chen Feng would not continue to pamper her.
"Isn't she superficial? The fact that she was admitted to Tunghai University of Science and Technology means that her IQ is not low. But because you refused to let her be your official girlfriend, she immediately turned to the rich second generation. Her knowledge and
Social experience is so superficial."
"What about you? If you are so sophisticated, why have you failed in love and marriage?"
Chen Feng was rubbing salt into her wounds again.
But Liu Meijun was still not angry, and just said calmly: "I didn't say that I am profound, but I am definitely much more profound than a woman like her. Okay, I don't want to listen to such a superficial woman. You follow me next