Chapter 1230 I’ll talk to you about whatever I want to talk about
"Things between my girlfriend and I are relatively simple. She and I are from the same hometown. Once, the car she was driving broke down on the road and her mobile phone was out of battery. I happened to drive by and helped her, and then we got to know each other. Slow down.
Slowly, we developed feelings and then we were together."
Chen Feng briefly explained how he met Wu Mengting. Of course, he did not want to reveal too much of his privacy.
He didn't mind sharing the matter between him and Han Xiaoxiao with Liu Meijun. After all, it happened ten years ago, and Chen Feng and Han Xiaoxiao were just playing around and not serious.
But what happened between him and Wu Mengting was different. The two of them were really in love, and they were still in a good relationship, with no separation.
But Liu Meijun was not happy and frowned and said: "What you said is too simple. Haven't you experienced any twists and turns or other interesting things between you? Or, how can she tolerate you at home?
There is another woman? And you are so romantic, doesn’t she even know about it? "
Liu Meijun doesn't mention any of the pots, and the main one is to embarrass Chen Feng.
Chen Feng said angrily: "There were no twists and turns between me and her, and nothing interesting happened. As for why she is so tolerant to me, it is entirely because she loves me so much."
Liu Meijun stared at him and said, "I don't believe it. Did you give her a lot of money? Otherwise, how could a normal woman tolerate her boyfriend dating other women?"
"No." Chen Feng immediately denied, "She is not one of those women who are vain and greedy for money. She is very capable of making money herself."
Liu Meijun didn't believe it: "Then what is she planning?"
Chen Feng frowned and said, "Didn't I just say it? She loves me very much. It's that simple. Because you love someone too much, your tolerance will be very high."
Liu Meijun didn't believe this, but she didn't want to argue with Chen Feng, so she said instead: "Okay, I'll just let you pass. Next, can you tell me about you and your ex-wife?"
?Why did you get divorced?"
Chen Feng said: "Then first tell me about you and your ex-husband, how you met, fell in love, got married and then divorced."
Chen Feng originally thought that Liu Meijun would stop asking after he said this.
But what he didn't expect was that Liu Meijun suddenly nodded and said: "Okay, I'll say it first. My ex-husband and I met on a blind date. You should also know that he has good academic performance and went to Tunghai University.
, when I went on a blind date with him, he had just graduated from Tunghai University and was twenty-five years old. He had not yet found a job at the time, so he was forced by his family to go out on a blind date with me. In fact, I was the same, both.
My family forced me to go.
Unexpectedly, when we met each other, we felt very good about each other and chatted very enthusiastically. After that, we officially started dating, and six months later we got engaged and got married.
As for how we got divorced, I admit that the main responsibility lies with me. I am a bit strong and like things to be under my control. Another important reason is that my economic conditions are much better than his. When I got married
When I was a child, my family prepared a wedding house for me worth several million, which is now worth more than 20 million. After I got married, I couldn’t sit around at home so I went into business.
It was out of control, the business grew bigger and bigger, and the money became more and more.
My ex-husband later went to work in a research institute. In the first two years, we were busy with each other and everything was fine. But then we finally had a child. To be honest, neither of us were competent parents. My ex-husband only focused on
I wanted to do research, but I only wanted to do business and make money. No one wanted to sacrifice their career for the sake of their children. After the child was born, he wanted me to take care of the child at home peacefully. As for the business, he would either sell it out or hand it over.
Take care of others.
Of course I didn't agree, so I said it would be better for you to resign and come back to take care of the children at home. I would be responsible for making money and could give him 10,000 pocket dollars every month. After all, his salary and bonuses at that time combined, and his annual income was only about
A little over 100,000, which is really not high.
Unexpectedly, my suggestion touched his sensitive nerves, saying that I was not a good wife or mother, and that I did not respect him, did not understand, and did not support his research work. Anyway, he was very angry at the time, so he started talking to me.
of the Cold War.
Of course I felt that I was right, so I didn’t admit my mistakes to him. And he was full of resentment towards me, and he didn’t admit his mistakes and make peace with me. In this way, we spent another three years together with mutual respect, until our daughter
After entering kindergarten, we both knew that our marriage was no longer necessary.
I proposed divorce to him first, and he agreed without much hesitation. Okay, it's your turn."
Chen Feng was feeling emotional when he heard this, but Liu Meijun suddenly made such a turn.
Chen Feng asked curiously: "Then why did he go abroad and remarry a foreign woman?"
Liu Meijun said: "He originally worked as a researcher in a research institute here, but you should also know that he is dedicated to research. He has a high IQ, but not a high EQ, and he easily offends people. After working in the research institute for several years,
He didn't have much background, but his work performance was very outstanding. Naturally, he was envied by his colleagues. Later, he was targeted by the leaders of the work unit. He wore small shoes everywhere and suffered from the insults. Later, one of his research results was completely occupied by the work unit. He is a very serious person.
In anger, he took his employer to court and the lawsuit lasted for more than a year, but in the end there was no good result.
After this incident, of course he couldn't survive in China for such a prickly person, so he went to America in anger. Because he was a high-level talent, he got a green card and settled there directly. Later, he followed a
A foreign colleague got together and got married. For someone like him who is passionate about research, finding a colleague as his wife is the best choice."
"I see." Chen Feng suddenly nodded, "No wonder, Xiaorou's personality should be more like her father's, and her emotional intelligence is indeed not very good."
When Liu Meijun saw that he actually said that her daughter's emotional intelligence was not high, she was a little unhappy: "She is not like her father in terms of personality, and her emotional intelligence is not low, okay? If her emotional intelligence was not high, how could she have made friends with you in the first place?
of?"
Chen Fengxin said that your daughter forcibly made friends with me, making her a social gangster.
"She was able to make friends with me in the first place mainly because I have a good temper."
Hearing this, Liu Meijun couldn't help but roll her eyes at him: "Okay, tell me about you and your ex-wife, from the time you met and fell in love to the time you got married and divorced."
Chen Feng then calmly said: "Okay, let me tell you. My ex-wife and I met because of a document bag. She was a staff member of a public institution, and one day she drove an eMule to deliver a document bag to her brother's unit.
I accidentally dropped the document bag on the road, and I happened to pick it up. I waited for the owner for more than half an hour before I finally found her. After this happened, she was very grateful.
After that, we started dating and got married."
Liu Meijun expressed her dissatisfaction and said: "You are too simple. No, please say more."
"Okay, okay. Let me tell you a little more. From the time we fell in love to before we got married, we were quite in love. During that time, I also relied on my excellent abilities to be valued by the company boss, and I was promoted and raised salary.
.The result was that after I got married, the boss who valued me for promoting me got sick, and then I had a lot of troubles at work and made very little money.
Gradually, my ex-wife began to have objections to me, and over time I also had objections to her, and then the two of us started to have a cold war. Finally, I took the initiative to file for divorce, but she said she could give me two more months, if
I could correct her and not divorce her, but I refused, so we divorced the next day."
"Why did you take the initiative to divorce her?" Liu Meijun asked curiously.
Of course Chen Feng couldn't tell the truth, so he said: "The main thing is that it's boring. In the three years before our divorce, we were in the cold war almost all the time. Our relationship faded, so what's the point? Anyway, we didn't have children at the time, so we were divorced."
Liu Meijun asked: "Is your ex-wife having a cold war with you mainly because you make less money?"
After thinking for a while, Chen Feng said: "Making less money is one aspect, but it shouldn't be the main aspect."
Liu Meijun quickly asked: "What is the main aspect?"
Chen Feng said: "The main aspect is probably that I lost my fighting spirit and enterprising spirit at that time. She was angry with me for not fighting, and hated me for not working hard and being unmotivated."
Liu Meijun nodded and said: "Okay, listening to what you said, if it were me, I would be very dissatisfied with you. Besides, she was willing to give you a chance when you took the initiative to propose a divorce. Just for this reason, the divorce
Her responsibilities are much lighter than yours."
Chen Feng also nodded and admitted: "It is true that the main responsibility for the divorce lies with me, but how can I put it, she must also have some responsibility. When I needed comfort and encouragement most, she chose to keep a cold war with me. Can you say that she didn't
Not wrong at all?"
"I agree with you on this point. When you were not going well at work, your ex-wife accused you of not working hard and making progress. It really shouldn't be done. It's too hurtful."
"Okay, let's stop the topic of love and marriage. I don't want to talk to you anymore."
Although Chen Feng and his ex-wife are now "reunited", Chen Feng still doesn't want to bring up the past of that failed marriage.
"Then what topic should we talk about?" Liu Meijun asked.
Chen Feng said: "Can't you just sit quietly and drink tea?"
Liu Meijun rolled her eyes at him and said: "It's rare for me to find a chat partner like you who can talk freely. Of course I want to chat with you enough. Do you think everyone comes to these places just to drink tea and eat something? Definitely not. Rather.
I’m here to discuss things or just chat. Besides, it’s rare for us to get together like this, so can’t you satisfy my request to chat with you enough?”
"Okay, okay. I'll talk to you about whatever you want to talk about." Chen Feng didn't have much to do with her as a business partner.
After Liu Meijun thought for a moment, she asked, "Is Sun Yanhong still harassing you now?"
Chen Feng shook his head: "No. She hasn't harassed me since I moved to the new place."
Liu Meijun said with some satisfaction: "That's good. I'm really worried that you won't be able to control yourself and make a big mistake when she chases you."
Chen Feng said angrily: "As I said just now, I'm not interested in women like her because I'm afraid of getting sick."
Liu Meijun curled her lips and said: "You men say you are righteous, but in reality, few of you are good people in private, and few of them can withstand the test of women."
This is true, but Chen Feng feels that he is an exception. He can really withstand the test of women, especially women like Sun Yanhong. What can't he withstand?
However, Chen Feng didn't bother to argue with her and said directly: "Thank you for the reminder, I will pay attention to it."
"It's good that you know. If she asks you out next time, don't agree."
"Okay, I know."
After ending the topic, Liu Meijun asked again with a gossipy and curious look: "When do you plan to get married again?"
After Chen Feng was stunned for a moment, he immediately shook his head and said, "I will not consider remarrying within the next two years."
Liu Meijun asked: "What if one or two years later, if you want to remarry, will it be the girlfriend you mentioned?"
Regarding this point, Chen Feng did not hide it and nodded: "If I really want to remarry, she will definitely be my first choice."
"Then what will happen to your other women after you remarry?" Liu Meijun looked at Chen Feng with a half-smile.
Chen Feng frowned slightly and said unhappily: "You don't need to know this, right?"
Liu Meijun asked back: "You don't want to secretly associate with those other women after you remarry, do you?"
Chen Feng rolled his eyes at her and did not answer her question.
Liu Meijun accepted the request and did not continue to ask. Instead, she asked: "If you get married, will you sign a marital property agreement with the other party?"
This was indeed a detailed question. Chen Feng did not answer any questions this time. He stared at her and asked, "Why are you suddenly interested in my affairs?"
Liu Meijun pursed her lips and smiled and said: "The main reason is that you are so good. Your company has only been established for a long time, and now it has a market value of 2 billion. And I have worked hard for so many years, and I have not even reached the threshold of 100 million. You
Are you saying it’s irritating or not?”
Chen Feng said angrily: "What's so annoying about this? You and I can be considered friends after all."
Liu Meijun said with a bitter face: "It is precisely because you are my friend that I am even more irritated. You don't work hard at all, and you usually don't bother to go to the company, but now the company is booming and making money. As for me,
I do everything myself, but the result is still far inferior to you."
Chen Feng said: "You should compare with your peers, not with me. Don't you think this is boring?"
Liu Meijun shook her head and said, "Why is this boring? I want to learn more about you, so I can learn from you."
Liu Meijun looked at him with a smile.
Chen Feng was already a little depressed, but now that he heard what she said, he couldn't help but ask: "Are you like Sun Yanhong, who suddenly became interested in me?"
Liu Meijun was stunned at first, then her face turned red, and she smiled and said, "If I were like her, would you accept me?"
Chen Feng shook his head speechlessly: "Of course I won't...accept it."
Liu Meijun was not happy when she heard this, and she looked down: "Why?"
Chen Feng smiled faintly and delivered a fatal blow: "Because you are Xiaorou's biological mother!" ()