Marriage rewrites the poem of love into prose.——Bouyard
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"I don't know if anyone really believes that love can last forever. It is easy to falsify this proposition, but difficult to prove, unless you are willing to pay an unusual price.
Generally speaking, love that can be eternal and last forever either exists in literary works or fairy tales, or this love ends abruptly due to various hardships and unforeseen circumstances, leaving the two people in love with eternal sighs and sorrow.
Memories, so this love that has a beginning and an end can last forever in the memories, because what you can’t get is always the best and will not deteriorate.
It is unimaginable that if Jack did not die but gave birth to a lot of children with Ruth, and they were busy all day long for daily necessities and having children, would their love still make us moved, and would the "Heart of the Ocean" still be there?
Will it be priceless because it carries the love that can never be reached, or will it just become an ordinary ore?
My heart is eternal. This is just a reminder and spur to myself. If true love can last forever, why do I need a reminder?
If we materialize love, we will find that it should be the most unstable form of matter, and it should be marriage that makes love undergo chemical changes.
Through long and lasting oxidation, marriage transforms love into another substance. Whether you believe it or not, it may be family affection, or it may be a habitual dependence on each other, but this is definitely not a bad thing, because love
You cannot maintain your marriage. Among all emotions, love is the most delicate and fragile. It must be transformed into something stronger and more stable through marriage, otherwise your marriage will never be perfect and strong."
This was Qin Nan's reply to a post on the Tianya community discussing marriage and love relationships during the lunch break. Today was not a special day, and she just posted what she felt without any logic.
In the eyes of many people, she and Qin Bei have the most perfect love and marriage. Whenever someone says this, Qin Nan always laughs it off. She does not deny that Qin Bei gave her the most perfect thing a woman can get in this world.
But in the matter of marriage, people know whether drinking water is warm or cold.
Over the years, bumps and bumps are inevitable. Like many other couples, they have encountered many problems of one kind or another, but they have relied on their love and tolerance for each other to get to where they are today. Thinking of Qin Bei's time in Bernard
Qin Nan couldn't help but smile as he proposed in front of his daughter.
Looking back on what happened between me and Qin Bei, I found that most of the things that impressed me were before marriage. Life after marriage was stable, but it seemed much duller, so dull that people couldn't even catch any clues when looking back.
Qin Nan didn't know if this was a blessing or misfortune for his marriage. He scrolled down the post and found that a netizen said something very reasonable: We should continue to add things to keep the marriage fresh, and surprise the other party with small programs from time to time.
Qin Nan's heart moved. She remembered that when she was studying, she used to attend Qin Bei's class, and then the two of them went to the cafeteria to queue up to grab food. Those days were the happiest time she would never forget. She really hadn't heard of it for a long time.
It was Qin Bei's class. I couldn't remember the last time. On a whim, I logged into the School of Liberal Arts at Y University to check, and found that there was a Qin Bei class in the afternoon, and it was my favorite European literary history.
Qin Nan's heart began to stir, and he suddenly had the urge to listen to the class again, to find out how he felt back then, or to see if there was any difference between what Qin Bei was talking about now and what he had told him before, and whether he still had the same style as before.
, this impulse became stronger and stronger, so strong that Qin Nan had to stand up from his seat and pace back and forth to make a decision. His current concern is that at his age, he is embarrassed to be among the students. He is always low-key. Qin Nan
Still lack the courage to bear everyone's attention.
In the end, between going and not going, the impulse still prevailed, and Qin Nan found a good way to disguise himself.
Because there is a small suite in the office for you to rest. The small suite has a wardrobe and some of your commonly used clothes. For example, sometimes you need to go directly to socialize after get off work, and this wardrobe is equipped with dresses, or you want to go to the gym during your break from work. In the sports area, there are sportswear and some casual clothes here, because Qin Nan is sometimes dragged by Zheng Fang to go shopping and it is not easy to wear suits. It can be said that the equipment here is quite complete, taking into account all aspects of needs.
After choosing and choosing, he chose a set of sportswear, because apart from this, Qin Nan really didn't know what students wore. It would be great if there were Ruochu's clothes here. He has a similar figure to Ruochu, but the conditions don't allow it.
The long hair she wore was opened and changed into a ponytail. Qin Nan looked at himself in the mirror. He could barely pretend to be a doctoral student, but his eyes couldn't go back. He added a sports cap and that's it.
, I guarantee that even Qin Bei won’t find it.
Qin Nan quickly found the classroom where Qin Bei was going to teach. There were only a few fixed classrooms in the School of Liberal Arts. This ladder classroom was the one he had been to before. The time was just right, and people were entering one after another. Qin Nan
What I was happy about was that the special corner where I used to take classes was still there, so I hurriedly sat there and lowered the brim of my hat, making an ostrich shape.
"Oh, oh, classmate, you took my seat." Qin Nan was lowering her head to think about something when she suddenly felt someone speaking to her and touching her shoulder. She subconsciously raised her head and met the cold eyes of a girl.
Qin Nan didn't react for a moment, because it was a lecture theater where anyone could sit. She didn't know how this seat became hers, so she just looked at her blankly and didn't move.
"Forget it, Sun Miao, isn't there a seat next to here? Let's sit next to it. Look, look, is this your Qin Bei?" the girl next to this girl said, tugging at the corner of her clothes.
The girl named Sun Miao immediately looked forward and ignored Qin Nan. Her expression softened and even blushed. Qin Nan also followed her gaze and looked forward, but not her husband Qin Bei.
He appeared on the podium in a dusty state.
Qin Nan hurriedly lowered his head again. What the girl just said made her feel a little uncomfortable. What do you call Qin Bei from her family? Qin Bei is obviously from her own family, okay?
"Didn't you say you asked him to have dinner? Have you made the date yet?" The two girls also sat down on the seats next to them, and the other one asked the girl named Sun Miao.
"I've been busy lately, okay? Who is as free as you? I plan to make an appointment again in a while, and I'm not in a hurry right now." The girl next to her named Sun Miao said sweetly.
"You have really good taste. No wonder you have been telling us how handsome you are in the dormitory all day long. You have seen it today. How is the progress now?" Another girl also deliberately chose this Sun Miao to like.
"That's it. Anyway, you are very good to me. If you don't believe it, you will know it soon." Sun Miao said proudly.
Qin Nan didn't want to eavesdrop on what others were saying, but these two people didn't seem to mind being overheard, and even seemed to deliberately show off that they knew the professor. Qin Nan didn't know how to describe her current mood. She just regretted it.
Shouldn't be here, shouldn't be here at all.
She didn't want to interfere with Qin Bei's private life, nor did she want to pry. She had always believed that they should give each other full freedom and wide space, but what happened? Accidentally knowing her husband's secret is a test for every wife. You must first have
You have enough discernment ability to distinguish the authenticity or severity of the current situation, but the premise is that you can still control your emotions and not collapse, and at the same time be able to use reason to judge the situation. And for a moment, Qin Nan felt that he
It's about to collapse.
But now that we are here, Daoshan Oil Pot must persist here, Qin Nan told himself.
Qin Bei began to lecture.
Qin Nan can hardly listen anymore. Although he is not paying attention, he can still hear that Qin Bei has changed a lot compared to when he was in class. Although it is the same class, the content has kept pace with the times.
Qin Bei has learned a lot. He has incorporated many new theories in academia. Different from the past, he is more relaxed and open-minded. He often talks about current affairs or humorous digressions in the classroom.
There was laughter from time to time.
During the discussion, Sun Miao was very active and stood up to speak several times. Qin Nan listened carefully and felt relieved about Qin Bei. Because Sun Miao's speech was completely inconsistent with the content of the speech.
She prepared it in advance, as if she was reciting a speech, which was not very relevant, and the content of her speech was very empty and superficial. Judging from Qin Bei's comments on her speech, Qin Bei did not appreciate her point of view. Qin Nan
Slowly, my heart returned to my stomach.
It seems that this is just a little girl who is too open about her secret love for her teacher. Her husband may be completely kept in the dark. If they really know each other as Sun Miao said, then this little girl doesn't need to.
She worked so hard to attract her husband's attention in class. Qin Nan laughed at himself for being so neurotic, although he still had some grudges in his heart.
Sun Miao stood up for the third time to deliver her long speech. There was already some discussion below. It was obvious that everyone was no longer patient with her. Qin Nan peeked at Qin Bei and found that although Qin Bei was listening carefully on the surface,
, the helplessness in her eyes cannot escape the eyes of her wife, and the girl next to her still seems to think that everyone agrees with her, and it doesn't look like it's over for a while.
Fortunately, the bell rang at the right time. Qin Bei politely interrupted Sun Miao's speech in the middle of the speech and announced that get out of class was over. Qin Nan wanted to give Qin Bei a surprise, but before he could get up, he heard Sun Miao and another The girl said: "You should go back first, I have something else to do."
"It can't be related to Professor Qin, right?" the girl joked.
"Oh, I won't talk to you anymore." Sun Miao saw Qin Bei picking up the lesson plan and preparing to leave. He packed up his things and hurried to the podium.
Qin Nan watched from a distance and sighed, thinking that he would surprise Qin Bei after she left him.