What we really see with our naked eyes is sporadic. Opening your eyes suddenly is like throwing a dice. - Valery
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We say that in a successful marriage, giving the other party a certain amount of freedom and space is not only for the sake of the other party or the overall situation of the marriage, but the most important thing is for yourself.
Because everyone is an independent individual, everyone has their own life trajectory and private space that they do not want others to interfere with. Sometimes this forbidden zone is just for your partner. Don’t imagine that marriage can break through any restrictions.
Both parties in a marriage can enter the restricted area of the other half at will. As a result of rushing in, sometimes the only person hurt is yourself.
Qin Nan didn't want to pry into Qin Bei's private life. She just wanted to give him a surprise, and she saw an unexpected scene. Maybe this scene didn't mean anything to Qin Bei, because in
During his teaching career, he had countless grandsons. There was absolutely no need for Qin Bei to report these grandsons to Qin Nan one by one. This did not mean deception, but a sign of maintaining independence in personality and at the same time showing respect to Qin Nan.
Nan's love.
And Qin Nan discovered this incident accidentally. She had to work hard to calm her heart instead of criticizing Qin Bei, because no one was wrong. What was wrong was that she was in the wrong place at the wrong time.
This wrong whim.
Watching Sun Miao walk up to the podium to talk to Qin Bei, Qin Nan sat there without moving. Now she wanted to leave immediately and leave time to this student who fanatically adored her husband, but she was unwilling to do so. She admitted that in
At this moment, she was conflicted, not calm, and was struggling in her heart, because she was once one of the students who had a crush on him. Didn't she secretly come to his class back then? Didn't she also secretly secretly fall in love with him in her heart?
She really hopes that he can notice her? In this case, what right does she have to complain about this girl named Sun Miao? Compared with herself, she is just too outgoing, but the essence is not the same?
But why are you still feeling uneasy? Even though you have just figured it out, when you accidentally notice Bei Zai's expression when he smiles at that girl, you still feel a sharp pain in your heart. She believes in him, and this belief is established as unconditional.
Basically, even if he once fell in love with his students, even if they fell in love because of this class, even if this old plot is repeated again, she will still believe in him, but how can she persuade herself to do this?
Ignore everything and continue to be that carefree and happy housewife?
When Qin Bei goes to class again in the future, will she still be so calm and not have any shadow about today's scene? Qin Nan suddenly became unsure of all this.
Because there is another class to be taught below this classroom, and there is a twenty-minute break between classes. Students from the next class have already begun to enter one after another, and Sun Miao seems to have not finished explaining his thoughts. Qin Nan saw that Qin Bei just continued
He nodded and looked at the time occasionally. Finally, the bell rang for the second class. Another teacher had entered the classroom. Qin Bei said hello to the teacher and walked out of the classroom with Sun Miao. Qin Nan also hurriedly
Went out through the back door.
After thinking about it briefly, Qin Nan decided not to go back like this. He originally wanted Qin Bei to treat her to dinner. Let’s not talk about whether he is still in the mood. Why should he change his life just because of a student? This is not
Qin Nan's style and her stubborn temper are difficult for others to change.
So he walked forward and caught up with Qin Bei and Sun Miao, keeping only a short distance. Qin Nan wanted to summon Qin Bei, but then he heard Sun Miao's words: "Teacher Qin, besides what you said today, I have a lot more
I want to discuss the issue with you, and I didn’t have a chance to discuss it with you last time I saw the show. I don’t have anything to do next, so I wonder if you have time?”
Qin Bei didn't answer immediately because he had time, but he didn't want to get entangled with Sun Miao yet, and he couldn't tell lies, so while he was pondering like this, Qin Nan called him from behind.
"Teacher Qin, please stay." Qin Nan said this clearly, and the two people in front immediately turned around.
Qin Bei was obviously surprised when he saw Qin Nan. Not to mention why she appeared here, the outfit, the fitted sportswear, the high ponytail and the peaked cap made him suddenly
The illusion went back to 20 years ago. Many people were envious and said how young and beautiful his wife was. He looked at her for a long time and didn't think anything about it. Looking at it now, Qin Bei didn't know what good things he had done in his previous life. What could he find in this life?
Such a wife.
Qin Bei looked at Qin Nan blankly, unable to find words for a moment.
"Teacher Qin, I have something to ask you. Are you free?" Qin Nan's acting skills are really impressive. She deliberately ignored Qin Bei's surprised expression and continued acting in her own way. After all, she also wanted to
Help Qin Bei rescue the siege.
"Ah, yes, yes." Qin Bei thought of cooperating with Qin Nan and hurriedly agreed. Then he looked at Sun Miao with a slightly embarrassed look and said, "Classmate Sun, right? You see, I have something to do now. Let's discuss it when we have a chance."
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From the moment Qin Nan appeared in front of Qin Bei, Sun Miao also looked at Qin Nan carefully. She saw that she was the person sitting next to her in class, but she didn't pay attention to her at all. She just felt that she occupied her usual seat.
She was a little unhappy in her seat. She didn't expect that she also knew Qin Bei, and Qin Bei was so kind to her. He immediately said that he had time. She obviously asked first. She couldn't swallow this tone again.
"Ah, Teacher Qin, since you have time, let's continue discussing the topic just now. I still have a few questions to ask. Do you think it was me who asked questions first?" Sun Miao now regarded Qin Nan as
She has a student like herself. You must know that Teacher Qin only has a few doctoral spots every year. You can imagine how fierce the competition is. What’s more, what she wants is not just a simple opportunity to study for a Ph.D. If she just ignored Qin
Nan, from now on, she has begun to regard her as her biggest rival in both studies and life.
Qin Bei was speechless and glanced at his wife helplessly. Qin Nan also knew that he was in a dilemma, "Well then, you ask first, and I will talk to Teacher Qin after you finish asking." Qin Nan said openly.
Sun Miao immediately became angry. She had originally thought about using this evening to discuss the problem with Qin Bei. If not, she could still have a meal. If not, she could ask him to send her back to school. Maybe something romantic would happen. Now,
Well, with her as a light bulb here, what progress can be made, but now that the words have been spoken, we can't back down.
Sun Miao stopped looking at Qin Nan and faced Qin Bei again, asking a prepared question. Before Qin Bei could answer, Qin Nan said slowly: "This question is in Teacher Qin's "History of European Literature"
The third section of Chapter 4 is very clear. There are three points in total, which are elaborated from three aspects: the socio-economic environment at that time, the cultural background and the writer’s experience. If I remember correctly, I am a sophomore undergraduate student.
Course, if you are unclear about something, I can explain it. I think there is no need for Teacher Qin to repeat this question again and again."
Qin Nan's meaning is very obvious. This shouldn't be a problem at all. It's written clearly in the book and taught clearly in class. If she comes to ask questions after class, she's obviously not a qualified student. When she was a teacher before, she didn't care about students at all.
It's not like this. No matter how simple the question is, she will answer it patiently as long as the student doesn't understand it. Today is the first time she has used this attitude towards a student. Maybe it's because her female instinctive defense mechanism has come into play.
However, despite being sharp, Qin Nan was still polite and polite when he said this, making it hard for people to find fault with him.
Qin Bei looked at Qin Nan with admiration. When this textbook was written, Qin Nan was studying for a Ph.D. abroad. He didn't expect that she would still pay attention to it and still remember it so clearly after so many years. He knew that she had an excellent memory, but for someone who faced business all day long,
He was surprised that someone who competed and cooked food could be so familiar with it. Qin Bei suddenly thought of another thing, that is, Qin Nan might still have not given up on literature and teaching. Is it in her heart?
She still yearns to come back to teach, but she hides this wish just for herself and Mrs. Qin. If this is the case, hasn't she been wronged for so many years?
Thinking of this, Qin Bei suddenly felt a little sorry for Qin Nan, and looked at her playfully again, thinking that maybe he should have a good talk with her.
Sun Miao's face turned pale at Qin Nan's words, "I asked Teacher Qin, not you." Because she couldn't refute Qin Nan's words, she had to say this, which sounded childish and unreasonable.
"Oh, I'm really sorry. I'm too talkative. I just want to remind you that if you didn't understand in class, you can read carefully after class. The teacher's time is precious. If it were you, I would try my best to mention some valuable information.
Question, besides, you are also an undergraduate. I think since others can understand some of the questions, you don’t need the professor’s individual guidance to understand them, right?” Qin Nan still patiently said to Sun Miao that she was doing this for Sun Miao’s own good.
, she couldn’t even solve such a simple question, and she was worried that she would not be able to pass the final exam and get credits.
Sun Miao's face turned red this time. She was a master's student preparing to take the Ph.D. examination, but according to Qin Nan, she couldn't even keep up with an ordinary undergraduate. What they said was well-founded.
There is no way to argue, so I can only suffer the loss of being dumb.
As for Qin Bei, he turned his face away. On the one hand, Qin Nan's serious look made him hold back his laughter, and he couldn't bear to see Sun Miao embarrassed.
Seeing that Sun Miao no longer had any advantage, she could only humiliate herself if she continued like this. And the woman in front of her did not know who she was. At first, she regarded her as a student who was just like him, but now looking at her conversation,
Maybe it's not that simple, but I'm really not willing to leave like this and leave my time to that woman.
"Teacher Qin, I would like to ask you a question alone, is that okay?" Sun Miao made another request to Qin Bei at this time. It was obvious that she wanted Qin Nan to avoid it.
Qin Bei lowered his head and coughed twice, "I think there is no need for her to avoid it, because she is my wife..."