Schiller crossed his hands and fingers on the table and analyzed Reed's social confidence.
This thing is actually simple to say. It is just like ordinary self-confidence. It is a positive incentive. The more successful you are, the more confident you will be. The more benefits you get through success, the more stable your self-confidence will be.
For example, if you go to find someone to negotiate with someone to make the matter less difficult, or simply get it done directly, then this is considered a social success.
Not only that, maintaining a relatively harmonious relationship with your roommates for a long time, having the right to speak in small online interest groups, and achieving good results in communicating with strangers in emergencies will all help build social self-confidence.
Generally speaking, the earlier the better, the better. A child can be a group leader in kindergarten, the king of children in the community, receive praise after speaking in public, and successfully go shopping independently, all of which are building up social self-confidence.
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In Northeastern dialect, children should be generous.
Studies have proven that many introverts are not really introverts, but have low social self-confidence. During their growth process, their social success rate was too low, leading them to think that social interaction is completely useless, or that social interaction in a certain field is useless.
I was frequently frustrated, leading to my refusal to socialize in this area.
An obvious example is that some people are very lively and cheerful online, but they can't open their mouths in real life. They obviously get along well with their classmates in college, but when they go home and meet their relatives, they look like a wooden person. Most of these are
Because they have suffered social setbacks in this area and lack social self-confidence.
Reed's social setbacks are all-round, which makes it extremely difficult to build his social confidence. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, his talent will not lead to the current situation in the social circle.
After informing Reed of the specific theoretical methods for building social self-confidence, he also felt that it was unlikely to succeed. He was already so good that others were not willing to give him more looks. It would take until the year of the monkey to build up his confidence. By then?
Don’t Susan’s babies have to run all over the place?
Since he could only choose a quick fix, Schiller didn't hide it anymore. He said directly: "Now let's change the situation. Your date is not Susan, but a mystery of the truth of the universe that you have not solved.
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"ah?"
"Literally, now you are going on a date with a mystery that you have always been very interested in and has not solved yet, but as long as it is solved, you can grasp the truth of the universe. What will you do?"
Reed's eyes suddenly lit up, and he said: "Is there really such a thing as the truth of the universe?"
"Just assume it is true. Now that you two are discussing the date, what would you say?"
Reed took out his mobile phone and started typing notes while asking: "How are you doing now? Can you complete a series of actions to move to the date and successfully complete the date? Have you ever dated before? How did you move to the date?
What about the date location? What kind of environment is the date location like, temperature, oxygen, and light?"
"Who is your date? What kind of reaction did you have with him? Is there any catalyst in the process? How is the reaction process? Are there any dangers in the reaction? Are there any reaction products? Are there any follow-up investigation results on the reaction products?
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"Stop!" Schiller shouted directly, and then said: "Can you ask one question at a time? How about speedrunning here?"
"Scientific research is all about efficiency. Since this truth of the universe can speak for itself, of course I have to ask clearly. Otherwise, should I leave it to Tony Stark to ask?"
Schiller rubbed his forehead helplessly and said: "It's not true that there is such a truth. No one can compete with you...Okay, first question."
"Uh, how are you doing now?"
"How would you ask this question if your date was Susan again?"
"Became Susan again?" Reed still didn't react. He thought for a while and said, "If I suddenly asked that, she would be very surprised, right?"
"Then don't be so sudden, be more tactful."
"Um...are you okay?"
"I'm not bad, what's wrong?"
Reed knew it right. He thought about the second question he just asked, transformed it in his mind and said.
"We mentioned before that we would have a date, what do you think? Can you handle it?"
"Of course, I'm looking forward to it."
"Well...actually I don't have much experience, what about you?"
"My last date was at a mall in Manhattan."
"Oh, how did you get there? Did he drive to pick you up?"
"Yes, there was a bit of a traffic jam that day."
"What do you think of it there? Is the air conditioner in the mall a bit cold? How is the taste of the decoration? Is the restaurant delicious?"
Reed seemed to suddenly have an epiphany, his speaking speed became faster and faster, and his eyes became brighter and brighter.
"Actually, it's pretty good."
"So...then the date...uh..."
At this time, Reed suddenly stuttered again, but seeing Schiller's encouraging eyes, he still said bravely: "So it seems that the date is not bad?"
"Then it depends on your performance. Where do you want to go?"
At this time, Reed remembered the truth of the universe again, and he subconsciously replied: "Of course it's the machine in my laboratory... Well, I mean, there is a very good restaurant near my laboratory. After eating,
Maybe we can even visit the laboratory.”
At this point, Reed suddenly clapped his hands and said: "Yes, I should invite Susan to visit my laboratory. She hasn't been there yet. If she goes, she will definitely be shocked by my experimental results.
, she is also a scientist, she can definitely understand..."
"Then how do you two change the topic from experimental results to romance?"
"Uh..." This was obviously a bit beyond Reed's cognitive scope. He said, "Isn't discussing experimental results just like talking about love?"
Very good, Schiller thought to himself. Peter and Gwen are still a little too anxious to hold the wedding. They should hold it together with you two and hold an unprecedented romantic...industrial expo.
"I think I understand a little bit," Reed said, "You're saying I should treat Susan as a research subject, right?"
"Yes, and it's the kind of mystery that you can master the truth of the universe as long as you solve it." Schiller said, and then he added in his heart, "If you two succeed and give birth to Franklin, you will really master it."
The truth of the universe.”
Reed suddenly became excited. He clenched his hands into fists and pounded the table gently and said, "Yes, why didn't I think of it earlier? I have never been in love, but I have been doing research. This is
What I'm good at, I think there's not much difference between the two."
"But you must be careful." Schiller reminded: "Be sure to remember to transform, and don't speak out what's on your mind, otherwise she may think you want to arrest her for research."
"No, Susan is also a scientist, she knows this stuff." Reed had already started rubbing his hands. He said, "She drank a lot yesterday. Do you think I should make her a love breakfast?"
"It's up to you. I'm just a psychiatrist, not an emotional counselor. Chasing girls is your own business."
After saying that, Schiller took his dinner plate and left from the island. As soon as he went to the sink to wash the dishes, he saw Stark in pajamas running down the stairs in a hurry.
Schiller turned around and looked at him in surprise. Stark definitely didn't wear a nightcap when he went to bed last night, and his hair looked like it had been blown apart by a cannon.
"I said yesterday that I would make a loving breakfast for Pepper. Hurry up, Schiller, help me prepare the ingredients!"
Schiller rolled his eyes slightly. At this time, Reed also came over to get ingredients from the refrigerator. Stark rushed into the kitchen, knocked Reed aside, and took out the egg rack from the refrigerator.
"What are you doing! I want to get eggs too, give me the egg holder!"
"What do you want eggs for? Get out of the way. Pepper has a hard time taking care of little Morgan. I have to give her a hearty breakfast!"
"Of course I want to make breakfast for Susan. You, an industrious rich guy, can't fry an egg and need the help of a mecha, right? Get out of the way and don't delay my cooking!"
The two of them were squeezing each other in the restaurant. Stark held the egg rack and refused to give it to Reed. Reed reached out to grab it, but Stark raised his hand, turning around and bumping into the chandelier in the kitchen.
, with a snap, the egg holder flew out.
Schiller took a breath of cold air. Fortunately, a burst of mist appeared under the egg rack and held it firmly. The three of them breathed a sigh of relief.
Schiller didn't want to waste food, and Reed was afraid that Susan would laugh at him if word got out that he and Stark had snatched a few eggs.
Stark was different. He knew very well that if this egg was smashed on the carpet of Schiller's house, then it would not be an ordinary row of eggs. Schiller would definitely make this row of eggs top his consumption list of the year.
It ranks first on the list of the most expensive luxury goods, and the unhatched chicks in it may be worth more than little Morgan.
Fortunately, the gray mist saved the Stark Group's year-end financial report, firmly supported the row of eggs and sent them back to the island.
But the bad news is that the gray mist swallowed the egg directly.
Stark and Reed looked at each other, then looked back at Schiller. Schiller shook his head and said, "No more. These are the last eggs for today. The purchasing department will not send new ingredients until tomorrow."
Stark sighed, leaned over and looked at Reed and said, "Why are you crazy? Pepper is my fiancée and the mother of my child. What is the relationship between Susan and you? You have to cook breakfast for others."
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"What does this have to do with you? You don't really think that you can catch your secretary by your own ability, do you? If the president of Stark Group were not you, you wouldn't even have a chance to see your fiancée.
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Schiller felt that Reed was also a good candidate to study psychology. His bad mouth was as good as his arrogance.
Stark has always been a very troubled person. Among the questions he has struggled with most, the question "Do others love my money or my people?" is at the top of the list. The essence of this question is "put aside my current situation."
Everything, am I worthy of love?" and "Which one is me, between everything I have now and me?"
All of the above problems are paraquat for anxiety disorders.
Reed has no compunction about hurting others through words. This is the so-called humble man who is invincible. Schiller has long seen it. Stark can't quarrel with Reed at all, for the sake of Stark's medical fee.
, he decided to take a different stance.
"If you continue to make such noise, the ladies will get up soon, and the love breakfast will naturally be ruined..."
The two of them looked at Schiller again, and Schiller said: "There are not many other ingredients in the refrigerator. Why don't you let your mecha fly to Los Angeles and buy more?"
Stark immediately realized that he was the only one who could show up in Los Angeles within a few minutes to complete the purchase and take a few more minutes to come back. Reed couldn't do it. Reed didn't bring any professional equipment this time, and he himself was an ordinary person.
People are helpless when the ingredients are gone.
Stark immediately grinned and called the mecha in front of Reed, but otherwise he was so shameless and invincible. As soon as the door of the mecha opened, Reed got in directly.
At this time, Stark had already set the program and the mechas had taken off. He hurriedly chased Reed out of the hall, but failed to catch Reed back.
Stark could only shake his head and return to the hall, cursing and adjusting the life support data of the mecha. After all, he couldn't really kill Reed.