"Brother Huang, the first thing you have to do now is to pull away."
Little Sweet Potato explained the first step to Weasel.
"Withdraw?"
The weasel asked in confusion, "What is this?"
Xiao Digua said, "Even if she suddenly disappears from her life, within ten days, she will not be able to appear on any social software, she will not be able to post to her Moments, and she will not be able to like or leave messages on her Moments, nor will she be able to take the initiative to contact her.
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Weasel was a little confused, "But what if she takes the initiative to find me?"
"Don't talk to her!"
Little Sweet Potato raised her hand and said firmly, "Since we are pulling away, we must pull away completely and completely."
"You have been licking wildly before. Although she must be disgusted with you and bother you, her subconscious cannot help getting used to your presence."
"So now I immediately pull away to create a strong sense of contrast for her."
"There is a professional term in psychology called loss aversion, which means that for example, if you pick up a hundred dollars, you will be very happy."
"But if you lose a hundred dollars, you will be very, very sad, and this sad emotion is far greater than the joy you feel when you pick up a dollar. This is called loss aversion."
"She has become accustomed to your crazy licking, and now you suddenly disappear, which will breed her loss aversion."
Weasel gritted his teeth and nodded, "Okay, I'll listen to you. What about after ten days?"
Little Digua said, "Complete the first step first, and after ten days I will make a plan based on the situation. Remember, these ten days must be completely separated, and there must be no ripples!"
"clear!"
The weasel held the phone tightly with a determined look in his eyes, as if he was about to hold the explosive bag and die with the enemy.
In the first three days, Weasel's emotions were comparable to hell-like torture.
She is used to licking, and she can't help but want to send messages to Shangguan Shufen, and she can't help but want to comment on the other person's circle of friends.
But he still managed to survive with his strong willpower.
On the fifth day, this trick finally had some effect.
Shangguan Shufen was finally curious about why the weasel suddenly disappeared, and took the initiative to send three words to the weasel: "What are you doing?"
Weasel was so happy that he almost instinctively wrote a short composition, describing his state of mind during this period and his longing for Shangguan Shufen.
But at this most critical moment, reason pulled him back again.
The words of Love Sage Little Sweet Potato came to mind again: "Remember, you must completely pull away!"
Weasel ran into the bathroom and took a cold shower for an hour. He was shivering from the cold and suppressed the strong urge.
In the remaining five days, the weasel endured hell and hell.
He holds his cell phone in his hand almost all the time, setting Shangguan Shufen's message as a strong reminder, expecting Shangguan Shufen to take the initiative to send him a message again.
But all this came to nothing.
Weasel was about to collapse and quickly called Little Sweet Potato: "Ding Gua, she hasn't sent me another message for five days in a row. Is she angry because I didn't reply to her message before?
What should we do about this!"
Little Sweet Potato said, "Tomorrow will be the tenth day. Please bear with it for now. I will come to find you in person tomorrow."
tenth day.
The weasel eagerly urged the little sweet potato to go to his house early in the morning.
"Sweet potato, I really can't stand it any longer. What should I do next?"
Weasel has lost a lot of weight, has a haggard face, and has two thick dark circles under his eyes. It is not difficult to see how he has survived this period of time.
Little Digua fell into deep thought when she saw the other party's only active contact in the past ten days.
"Why only once? This is a bit illogical?"
Little Sweet Potato frowned and touched his chin and said, "Hey, I guess you licked too hard before. The situation is a bit difficult to control. We need to take the second step immediately."
Weasel asked, "What steps?"
Little Sweet Potato looked through Weasel's past friend circles, either drinking and having fun every night, or some obscure and pretentious copywriting.
Fortunately, these ten days ago were set by Little Digua to be visible for only three days.
"Brother Huang, bring your bank card and follow me."
Little Sweet Potato took Weasel to the mall, spent a lot of money to buy Weasel a well-fitting shirt and suit, and then took Weasel to find a very good hair stylist to get a new hairstyle.
It is said that a man relies on his clothes and his horse relies on his saddle. After Weasel was transformed by Little Sweet Potato, his whole temperament changed instantly. He actually had the aura of a successful business person, and he was completely different from before.
"Is this outfit a little too tacky? I still think it's more unique to be unconventional."
But Weasel is not too fond of his image. He still prefers his previous stylish configuration of red vest and sneakers.
Little Sweet Potato said a wise saying, "If you don't look better than Panan, if you pursue individuality in appearance, you are seeking death."
"Okay, I'm willing to risk my life for love, what should I do next?"
Weasel looked at himself in a straight suit in the mirror and seemed a little uncomfortable, twisting around and asking.
"Do you have any acquaintances at the company CEO level here? Now I need to borrow some background to use."
Little Sweet Potato said.
Weasel turned his head and happened to see the words "Su Group" hanging on an office building not far away from the window.
"Wait for me to make a call."
Weasel dialed Su Nan's phone number.
Su Nan, who had been abroad for a long time, also returned to China two days ago. At this time, her and Su Mei's clothing company had turned into a large group enterprise that was no longer limited to the clothing industry, and was renamed Su Group.
Yang Xuan hasn't seen his wife for a whole day. It's better for a young couple to say goodbye than a newlywed. These days, they can't wait to be together 24 hours a day.
So even when Su Nan was at work, Yang Xuan would stay with her in her office whenever she had nothing to do.
The phone on the table rang. Su Nan glanced at the caller ID and asked doubtfully, "Huh?"
weasel?
Why did he suddenly want to call me?"
"ah?
What the hell?
weasel?"
Yang Xuan, who was peeling a banana, was also surprised, "I heard that this guy has been depressed recently. Why did he suddenly call you? You put the speaker phone on, let me hear what this guy wants to do."
Well."
Su Nan answered the phone and clicked the speaker button, "Hey, Old Huang, what's the matter?"
Su Nan has always been polite to Yang Xuan and other friends in the world. He knows that as a man, face is very important in front of friends.
"Sister-in-law, I have something to trouble you with. Can you lend me your office?"
A weasel's voice came from the other end of the phone.
"Um?
Lend me your office?"
Su Nan asked doubtfully, "Why did you lend me your office?"