"I said I already had a small house and didn't want to buy another one. However, he asked me if I could sell this house and raise money together to buy a bigger one. I immediately refused and said it was impossible. His face looked blank.
It didn't look good, so we left on bad terms that day. A few days later, he asked me again, saying that it was fine if I didn't pay, but could he contribute some money for the decoration? I was speechless at that time, and my name wasn't written on the house.
It has nothing to do with me, so why should I chip in for the renovation?"
"Then what?"
"He told me the day before yesterday that he should just forget it. When I asked why, he told me frankly that he had introduced another woman to him. That woman's monthly salary was more than 10,000 yuan, and the woman's family was willing to provide half of the down payment.
…”
Women who can provide half of the down payment have the upper hand.
She could work with him to provide a house and decorate it...so, he chose her.
Yan Xixi smiled bitterly, in this world, egoism is understandable.
Don't blame the man for being selfish. If you think about it from his perspective, you wouldn't want to find a burden to support him.
"Forget it, just ignore this kind of person."
Xu Xiaoya smiled and said: "Do you think I'm depressed? Xixi, I'm not depressed. I don't care at all, and I can't even talk about breaking up, it hasn't started yet..."
She really didn't care, Xu Xiaoya's tone was extremely brisk.
"If he knew that I owned this store, he would definitely pounce on me and choose me immediately. But, would I choose him? In fact, I think there is no need for a woman to get married. What was my quality of life like when I was with Zhong Minghui?
Tsk, tsk, tsk, after breaking up with him, what is my quality of life now?? I have food, clothing, a house and a car. In my spare time, I go on fitness and beauty trips, and I also learn something. All the money is spent on myself. This quality is really not to mention, who
Are you still willing to focus on getting married?? I see women in this world, after getting married, at least 70% to 80% will have their quality of life lowered..."
Before Yan Xixi could answer, there was a knock on the door.
"Please come in."
It was Molly, the store employee.
Molly has been here since the store opened and is considered a veteran employee.
"Sister Xu, I would like to take two days off."
Xu Xiaoya was surprised: "Why?"
Her eyes were red: "My boyfriend and I discussed getting married and wanted to go back to my hometown. My boyfriend bought a wedding room at his house, but there was no money to decorate it. My boyfriend wanted my parents to chip in 50,000, but my parents refused.
, their family is required to pay a bride price of 50,000 yuan, and then use the money as a dowry. But my boyfriend’s parents said that if the man pays a bride price, the woman’s dowry must be doubled. In other words, the dowry given by my parents must exceed 50,000 yuan.
The family was very unhappy because of this matter..."
Xu Xiaoya and Yan looked at each other carefully.
Look, this is Chinese-style marriage.
Once you get married, there are betrothal gifts, house decorations...everything is linked to money.
"Later, my boyfriend's parents said that they would find a way to pay for the decoration, and my family would not need betrothal gifts. My parents agreed and promised to give me a car as a gift. However, the trouble came from this car. My boyfriend wanted the car to be written
His name, he said, would give him face if he opened it like this, otherwise a man would have no confidence and would feel undignified. I didn’t want to write his name, so he said he had left the wedding room and I didn’t pay a penny, so it was a free stay.
, now the car is reluctant to have his name written on it, he is so at a loss..."
