On the way back from the store, Yan Xixi kept feeling depressed, and suddenly thought of a very practical question: If she married Wang Donglin, would it be so troublesome?
Betrothal gift, dowry, how to calculate these?
I laughed again as I thought about it, how could I have any dowry? A living person is the biggest dowry.
Wang Donglin had already returned. When he saw her, he immediately waved: "Xixi, come here quickly."
She ran over and sat down next to him.
"Where have you been today?"
"I'm going to visit the store."
Shop Tour!
He said it so formally, as if he was really working hard.
"Guess what good gift I have for you?"
She opened her eyes wide.
A very beautiful box, opened, a car key.
She cheered: "A big man who picks his feet, did you give this to me?"
"Didn't I already tell you that I wanted to give you a car? Do you like it?"
"like very much."
But he still doubted: "Is my Mercedes-Benz completely scrapped?"
"The damage is very serious, and it will take a while to repair it. And it will not be as beautiful as before. Forget it, Xixi, you must have a car to drive during this time."
She was happily holding the car keys, and suddenly remembered what Xu Xiaoya said, "Marriage is boring, it just lowers the quality of life." However, has she done the opposite? Did her quality of life deteriorate after being with a foot-picking man?
Has it improved a lot?
She told the story of Molly's leave today, "Stingy man, tell me, why are so many men stingy? Why are they afraid that women will take advantage of him?"
"Idiot, do you know what this is called?"
"What?"
"Kill cooked."
"What do you mean?"
"Don't you understand even if you are acquainted? Most people are always used to looking for acquaintances when they have something to do, but have you ever had this experience? When you go to an acquaintance to buy something or do some small business, the price is often more expensive than outside, and you are embarrassed
Bargain, otherwise, the friendship will be lost, and you won’t be able to pull off this face..."
This is true.
That's why people say: "Kill the acquaintances only."
"The same is true for men. Whether they are looking for a lover or a lady, they must pay for it, and they can spend a lot of money. But when it comes to wives, that doesn't work. You have to give birth to children and do housework for him.
Cooking and washing clothes, serving his parents, taking care of various relatives, taking care of the children... But, he may not even thank you. Why? Because you are his wife, isn't this all?
Should it be done?”
Yan was silent for a moment. Sure enough.
Countless women leave the home where they have been accustomed to since childhood, marry into another family, and integrate into another life circle as strangers: husband, father-in-law, mother-in-law, or brother-in-law and sister-in-law... A family is originally a whole, and as soon as you enter
, you have to adapt again.
Enduring the disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, taking care of housework, being pregnant for ten months, frugally saving food and clothing to provide for the house, car and child together, enduring him coming home tired from work and lying on the sofa without washing his feet while snoring loudly... He always gives priority to good food and drink, and the child
Prioritize, even, you have to have a job to support the expenses with him, because he can't support a family by himself.
Gradually, you become old and yellow.
But will he give you every penny he earns? Will he comfort you and wash your feet during the days when your aunt is in power? Will he unexpectedly buy you that gift that you have been dreaming about for a long time but are reluctant to buy?
Are you surprised? Will you promise never to go out to find a mistress and be loyal and dedicated to you? Will you express your gratitude for everything you have done?
