Some people say that when a husband cheats on his wife, the wife is often the last to know the truth. I think the essential reason for this is because the authorities are obsessed with it. When a couple lives together day and night, it is easy for them to mistrust each other because of their credulity.
We lose attention to the small details of life, which is why many wives are kept secret for a long time after their husbands cheat.
I don’t know how long Xu Minghui had been cheating on him before I found out, but I did find some clues about him.
The so-called wife is the last to know that her husband is cheating. This is due to negligence caused by trusting the other party. However, women are sensitive and suspicious by nature. Once they find out that the other party has signs of this, they will always find that the other party has not hidden it well.
Some gimmicks.
Although I usually work very fast, I also have the care and sensitivity that a woman should have. I noticed something was wrong with Xu Minghui when I helped him change his clothes after he came home after drinking. I noticed that his suit and shirt were different.
Two long hairs came out from between the layers. Because I have kept my hair short for many years, and the longest strands are no more than 20 centimeters, and I never dye my hair, so now I suddenly found such a 4-5-year-old hair on my husband's clothes.
Ten centimeters long, slightly yellowish hair, I became suspicious.
I calmly asked Xu Minghui who he was with tonight. He was already drunk and told me with a loud tongue: "There is a real estate company...the boss is treating me, and...Director Zhang...and I went there,
A bit drunk..."
As I hung up his clothes, I asked, "Didn't you hit the lady?"
Xu Minghui replied without hesitation: "No," and then he came over with a smile and pretended to kiss me on the face. He smiled at me with a drunken mouth and said, "I have such a beautiful and capable wife at home, how can I do this?
What about that kind of thing?”
I quickly avoided his stinky mouth that smelled of alcohol, frowned and pushed him away and said, "Go, go, go take a shower!"
Xu Minghui walked unsteadily toward the bathroom. Looking at his tall and muscular back, my suspicion did not lessen.
I know that Xu Minghui has always been good at coaxing women. He has a eloquent mouth and a good personality that is easy to deal with. It is impossible to find out the truth from his mouth, plus that
He did drink a lot that night, and it was impossible to get any accurate information from a drunkard.
However, despite this, from that day on I still kept an eye on it and began to pay attention to some details of Xu Minghui's life.
I even went to China Mobile’s business hall to check Xu Minghui’s phone call records, but now that I’m checking the bill list, the telecommunications department will notify the phone owner via text message. So while I was checking, Xu Minghui’s phone quickly called: “Wife, you
Are you checking me?"
I quickly replied with a smile: "No, I just stopped by to do some work. I wanted to see if you had done anything bad behind my back recently, so I checked."
Xu Minghui has always had a good temper and is known as a smiling tiger in the workplace, so when faced with my doubts, he did not get angry. He just said to me calmly: "Stop checking, ah? We have been together for so many years, and you still can't trust me."
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In fact, I didn't find anything when I checked the phone bill list that day. Xu Minghui was a small leader in the work unit, and he had a good personality, so he had a wide range of contacts and had many friends. There were many strange numbers in the phone list that I was not familiar with, so for a while I also
I can't tell if it's true or false, so I can only stabilize him temporarily.
So I agreed with a "hmm": "Okay, I understand. This is just a routine check. I don't distrust you."
After hearing what I said, Xu Minghui felt relieved and hung up the phone, and the matter was over for the time being.
But my suspicion of Xu Minghui did not diminish, because later there were more and more clues about him that made me feel that things were not as simple as he said, and that he might have really cheated.
People who often use perfume may know that the smell of some perfumes is very stubborn, and the fragrance will linger for a long time wherever the person who uses it walks. Therefore, if you are often with such a woman, it is inevitable that some smell will be left on your body.
Another suspicion I found about Xu Minghui was the smell of perfume. At that time, he always had an inexplicable fragrance. At first, I questioned him directly. He said that someone in their work unit bought a new bottle of perfume and sprayed it on him.
A little bit, but this doesn't fool me. If someone sprays you with some perfume by chance, you can't care about it for a week. But the problem is that Xu Minghui has this inexplicable fragrance on his body for many days.
In those days, he always had social activities after get off work and came home very late every day. His explanation to me was that he went out drinking with some important people from the department with the leader of the unit. But in that case, how could he have that kind of perfume on his body? Where's the taste?
Two more times later, when Xu Minghui came home late, I couldn't get through at all when I called him. By the time he came back, it was already late at night, and I had already fallen asleep. I asked him why he came back so late and why his phone was turned off.
He took out his mobile phone and looked at it. He said that it had automatically shut down because it was out of battery. Then he explained that he was coming home late because he had gone out to socialize with people from his work.
At this time, I became more and more suspicious of Xu Minghui. I even secretly tried his password, and then spent the middle of the night checking the QQ chat history on his laptop.
Although Xu Minghui is a very cautious person in this regard, he still left some flaws. Among his many chat partners, I found that his relationship with a woman named Yan was very unusual.
It seems that the woman used to be his colleague, but now she has moved to work in another company. She is also married, but the marriage is not very happy. Most of their chat records are about trivial life matters. For example, Yan told my husband about her
When life was unsatisfactory, my husband comforted her. Sometimes Xu Minghui would tell her some dissatisfaction with me, such as my short temper and lack of gentleness, but these words were always mentioned in their chat records.
Not much to say.
Because their chat history was very long, I wouldn’t be able to tell anything for a while, so that day I used a USB flash drive to download their chat history into text, and then went to my computer to check it carefully. It was in that chat history,
I finally found some evidence that my husband Xu Minghui was cheating on me with that woman named Yan.
For example, one time Yan asked Xu Minghui: "How is my skill? Is it much better than yours?"
Xu Minghui laughed and answered her: "That's right, that's right, the one in our family is too rigid, how can he be as charming as you?"
Yan came over with an angry expression, and then replied: "Damn it! You are just playing with others, right?"
My husband replied: "It's not a joke, it's sincere."
"Huh, can you leave her and marry me?" the woman asked.
Xu Minghui replied shamelessly: "If you dare to leave, I dare to leave!"
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Seeing this, my heart was completely cold. I never thought that my husband, who has lived with me for more than ten years and talks sweet words in front of me every day, would say such chilling words!
At the same time, I was also sensitively aware that they must have slept with each other. Although I was filled with righteous indignation at the moment, I knew that I couldn't be so loyal. As the so-called "catching a double", I needed more powerful evidence in my hand to be able to do this.
There is no way to fight back against an adulterer or an adulterer.
I knew I had to find an opportunity to lure the snake out of its hole and completely tear off the mask that Xu Minghui had put up in front of me.
A few years ago, Xu Minghui's younger brother, my brother-in-law Xu Mingqi, graduated from college and stayed in our city to develop. Xu Minghui helped him find a job. Later, Mingqi got married here, and his two sons were in s
City, and my parents-in-law have retired, so they sold the real estate in their hometown and settled in City S. Our family and my brother-in-law’s family each contributed part of the money, and my parents-in-law bought a second-hand house in this city with part of the money.
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Because my daughter Tiao Tiao was raised by her grandparents when she was a child, and the two old people doted on her, so Tiao Tiao sometimes went to live with her grandparents.
My work does not require frequent business trips, but I occasionally have to go out for a few days. Because my daughter lives at my parents-in-law's house, I don't have anything to worry about. At this time, I wanted to take advantage of the business trip to test whether Xu Minghui had cheated on her.
Because I had been on such a business trip before, Xu Minghui had no doubts at all.
This business trip was real, but in the middle I applied to the boss of the company, saying that I had something to do at home, and asked another colleague to go on the business trip on my behalf, and also gave her a subsidy. The boss readily agreed, and that
Because my colleague has a very good relationship with me, he readily agreed.
That morning, I pretended to be on a business trip, packed my things and put them in a small suitcase. When Xu Minghui went out, I also went out. Our family has a private car, which Xu Minghui usually drives. He asked me
Do you need to take me to the airport? I said no, you are short on driving time, and the airport is so far away. If you go back to your work and go back, it will take a lot of time, so I should take a taxi there myself.
Xu Minghui did not doubt it and agreed after hearing what I said. Then I took a taxi at the gate of the community, told the driver that I was going to the airport, and got in the car. After the taxi drove away, I saw Xu Minghui through the rear window.
The car also slowly drove out of the gate of the community.
In fact, I didn't go to the airport. I asked the driver to turn around and ran directly to a small hotel near my home, where I found a room and stayed.
At about eight o'clock in the evening, I quietly came out of the small hotel and walked to the community where our family lived.
I was observing downstairs in my house. We lived on the fourth floor. It was already the time when the lights were on. I could clearly see that the windows of our house were dark, which proved that Xu Minghui had not come back yet.
I found a stone bench in the shade of a tree in the community and sat down, slowly waiting for Xu Minghui's arrival.
At around 9:30 pm, I saw the Bora driven by Xu Minghui drive through the gate of the community.
Seeing that he was back, I quickly hid myself in the shade of a tree, and at the same time carefully observed Xu Minghui's movements from the darkness.
I saw him get out of the car. At the same time, the thing that I had always suspected and made me frightened finally happened, because I saw that Xu Minghui did not get out of the car by himself. There was a very charming-looking woman beside him.