I stared at Xu Minghui's face with clear lines, and I couldn't understand how this man who used to talk sweet words to me day and night and said he would love me and love me forever would do such a shameless thing as betraying me.
?
Being stared at by my aggressive gaze, Xu Minghui felt guilty and lowered his eyes slightly.
After a long silence, I asked him loudly: "I just want to know why you did this? Why did I, Wei Haichao, feel sorry for you? Why did you do such a shameless thing? When you brought that woman home,
Haven’t you thought about how my daughter and I feel?”
Xu Minghui raised his head and glanced at me guiltily, and then murmured: "It's all my fault. All the mistakes are my fault. It was my sperm that made me feel sorry for you in a moment of confusion. If you feel sorry for me in your heart,
If you're angry, come at me. I won't complain even if you beat or scold me, because I... owe you this."
In fact, after Xu Minghui said this, I have no interest in beating him or scolding him. Although I have a hotter personality, I am still a highly educated person after all, and I am not a shrew. Beating and scolding people may happen if I am forced to get angry.
Venting, but actually solving the problem, just like what Sister Wang said on the phone just now, problems between husband and wife cannot be solved by just hitting and scolding.
So at this moment I sighed and looked at Xu Minghui who was silent for a long time. Then I said to him in as calm a tone as possible: "Don't fool me just by saying these words of apology. After all, an apology cannot make up for the mistakes you have made.
We have been husband and wife for so many years, and I always
I always thought I knew you, but now that something like this has happened, I find that I don’t know you well enough, so now I just want to know what is going on in your heart? I just want to hear the truth, no apology or rhetoric.
If it’s something like that, then it’s all exempt.”
Hearing what I said, Xu Minghui also sighed. He looked tired and rubbed his face with his hands. Without looking at me, he asked me in a low voice: "Haichao, do you really want to hear what I'm saying?"
I nodded at him and replied, "Of course."
Xu Minghui raised his head and looked at me, sighed softly, and then asked me cautiously: "These words may be very hurtful, can you really listen to them?"
Hearing what he said, I was a little startled. After all, Xu Minghui at this time was very different from him before. In the past, he always looked like a cheerful person with a smile and a lot of witticisms in front of me, although he rarely did it at home.
Doing housework, but when I am busy, he will also use jokes to make me laugh. As the saying goes, a smile can solve a thousand worries. With his coaxing, all the troubles and fatigue I have when doing housework are swept away.
.
To put it in my usual words, he is always out of shape in front of me, so serious conversations like this between us husband and wife are rare, so I was stunned for a moment.
After being stunned, I nodded to Xu Minghui and said calmly to him: "Of course I can listen. The matter has reached this point. Even if it means death, you have to let me be a sensible person, right? So I just want to listen to you now."
What’s in my heart.”
Hearing what I said, Xu Minghui nodded, and then said to me: "Then if you have any questions, just ask, I promise... tell the truth."
I thought about it and then asked Xu Minghui: "When did you start?"
Xu Minghui thought for a while and answered me: "About... half a year ago."
Hearing this answer, I was shocked. Could it be that they had already started to change things half a year ago?
Thinking of this, I asked him directly: "Since that time, have you had a sexual relationship?"
Xu Minghui looked at me with a hesitant expression, but he finally nodded.
Seeing his affirmative reply, I felt beyond words the anger in my heart! I felt like a fool. I had been working tirelessly as a hard-working housewife behind others for the past six months, but I didn’t expect that my husband had already become someone else.
The woman's plate is full of food.
At that moment, I really wanted to stand up and angrily scold Xu Minghui for his shamelessness!
But thinking about the conditions I agreed to him just now, I couldn't get angry no matter what, because once I got angry at this time, the rest of the conversation would be impossible, and I wouldn't be able to hear more of Xu Minghui's inner thoughts.
So, I suppressed my anger, nodded to him, and asked him: "How did the relationship between you... begin?"
Seeing that I didn't have an attack, Xu Minghui gradually relaxed. He answered me thoughtfully: "Actually, we were the most ordinary friends from the beginning. You also know that Xiaoxia worked in our unit, and she was my subordinate at that time.
It was probably because she had just arrived at that time, so she was very interested in
The environment was not familiar, but I helped her a lot, so she always regarded me as a big brother. Although she later transferred to another unit, her contact with me has not been interrupted, especially online chatting.
If you have any worries, you will talk to me."
"Is it during this chat that the relationship between you deepened?" I asked.
Xu Minghui nodded and murmured: "Xiao Xia did not live a comfortable life after getting married. Although she was quite prosperous when she got married, to be honest, her husband was not a very sensible man. He was young and had family conditions.
Superior, so his temper is very arrogant and domineering
, she didn’t know how to love a woman, and she kept having romantic encounters after marriage, so Xiaoxia felt very depressed. She wanted to get a divorce, but she was afraid that she wouldn’t find a better one. Besides, her family would not allow her to divorce, and she was also afraid of all kinds of things.
It’s just idle talk, so I just keep putting it off.”
I sneered in my heart, what a good excuse! She was neglected by her husband and hurt by her cheating husband, so she turned to other men to find balance? She did not hesitate to hurt other people's families to make up for the shortcomings in her heart!
Seeing me sitting there with a pale face, Xu Minghui was a little afraid to say any more.
After a moment, I tried my best to calmly ask him: "Then what? Just like that, you guys got together?"
Xu Minghui hesitated and nodded.
I followed up by asking: "When did you have sex for the first time?"
Xu Minghui avoided my sharp eyes, and then told me hesitantly: "About half a year ago, our two units had a social event. I drank too much that day, and it was very late when the event ended. I couldn't drive.
, Xiaoxia offered to take me home, and then she drove me...to her home."
Speaking of this, I have a rough impression. I called Xu Minghui that night and he said that he was too drunk to drive. He and a few male colleagues took a room in a nearby hotel to rest and would not come back. I was
I believed his words deeply, but I never expected that he would go directly to Xia Yan’s house that night!
I think that before that, the two of them must have been flirting with each other and had an interest in concubine. They were just waiting for the right opportunity to make the sky thunder and the earth angry, or just one drunkenness, two ordinary people with a family
Colleagues can get together, no matter how hard you say it, it doesn’t make sense.
"Her husband was not at home that night? Where are her children?" After a moment of silence, I asked.
Xu Minghui nodded and replied: "Her husband is often not at home, and they don't have children now."
No wonder Xia Yan plays so freely! It turns out that she is now very handy, without the constraints of children, and her husband is often away from home. This kind of life can be said to have given her a lot of free space.
"Then what are you going to do next? Divorce me and marry her? To tell you the truth, I peeked at your chat history. You said that as long as she dares to leave, you dare to leave!" At this juncture,
, I will no longer hide anything from Xu Minghui, and tell him everything.
Hearing what I said, Xu Minghui smiled helplessly, and then murmured back to me: "How can you take those words on the Internet seriously? I was just joking with her at the time, and I wouldn't take it seriously at all. She doesn't
Divorce is possible, and it is even more impossible for me to leave you and our daughter."
I sneered and thought: Xu Minghui, you can do it. Do you really distinguish between intramarital affairs and extramarital affairs so clearly? Do you really know how to choose, which one should be cherished and which one should be given up?
Feeling a little embarrassed by my sharp gaze, Xu Minghui lowered his head slightly.
"How is she better than me? How can she make you so uncontrollable?" After a moment of silence, I asked him coldly.
Hearing my question, Xu Minghui quickly raised his head, waved his hand at me, and said negatively: "No, no, no, Haichao, you must not think that I am with her just because she is better than you. To put it bluntly, this is just
It’s just a momentary excitement. Sometimes when a man cheats, it’s not because the person he’s cheating on is any better than his wife, but just for the novelty of the moment..."
I sneered, and then said to Xu Minghui in a calm tone: "Stop hiding it from me. I have read your chat history from beginning to end. In it, you complained a lot about me, and it has reached this point today.
Now, what else do you have to hide? Why don't you tell the truth and reveal your opinions about me, so that we, as husband and wife, can decide what to do next."
Xu Minghui looked at me, and I knew that he was very conflicted now. Xu Minghui has always been a smooth and sophisticated person, and he also knew how to weigh the pros and cons, and he knew very well what should be said and what should not be said.
But to be honest, at this point, he couldn't hide some things any more, or maybe he had been holding them in his stomach for too long, so after my repeated questioning, he finally told the truth.
"Haichao, do you really want to hear it?" After a long silence, he asked me again.
"Of course!" I answered him decisively.
Xu Minghui thought for a while, and then slowly said to me as if he had made up his mind: "In the end, I failed to control myself and ended up with Xia Yan. It was indeed because I felt a little troubled and empty."
"Are these worries and emptiness because of me?" Seeing him pause, I asked further.
Xu Minghui looked at me and nodded.
"Then what advantages do you think she has that I don't have?" At this point, I just want to know what Xu Minghui is thinking.
Xu Minghui thought about it and slowly replied to me: "Compared to you, Xiaoxia is very gentle and has a good temper."
I nodded slowly, I am not particularly good-tempered, I know this.
"What else?" I asked.
"Also, Xia Yan knows how to be considerate of men and won't put too much pressure on him." Xu Minghui replied slowly.
"Am I not considerate of you? What kind of pressure have I put on you? I'm afraid that you will be tired. I won't even let you do housework after you come home. Is this called putting pressure on you?" I couldn't hold back the anger in my heart, and I fired a barrage of fire.