My mother sighed and said to me while patting her thigh: "She is now in her early fifties, and she is still living alone. In the past ten years since her divorce, she has had countless kisses, and she has also been with a few of the men for a while.
, but no one can be too long, and what about her original man? After divorcing her, he soon talked to a girl in her early thirties, and the girl gave him another son. Now he and Lin
The daughter he gave birth to is also married. He and his second wife are living a comfortable life as a family, and I heard they were even promoted."
I listened to my mother's narration silently, and then asked her calmly: "Mom, why are you telling me this?"
My mother held my hand and said to me solemnly with a grimace: "Xiao Man, you are already in your thirties and are no longer a young girl. You can't be so impulsive when things happen. Let's not talk about Wenliang.
The gossip is true or false. Simply speaking, the current social atmosphere is unequal to men and women. If you get divorced at your age, men can quickly find a suitable one, but it is difficult for women to find a satisfactory one.
.You said that your cousin’s sister is not good-looking? Is she poor in ability? She was in her thirties when she got divorced, and she was quite beautiful, but today she is over fifty and she is still alone. When her man knelt down to beg her
She, she refuses to forgive him. In fact, there are some things. If she takes a step back, the world is brighter. If she had not been divorced, why would she still be wandering in a foreign land at this age without even having a home? "
My mother's words made me feel very heavy. I knew that she did not agree with my divorce, but every family has its own problems, so how could she know the pain in my heart?
My mother has the final say in my family, so my mother’s attitude can basically represent my father’s attitude. Before I left my parents’ home that day, my father came back. I didn’t talk too much with him. Seeing that it was getting late, we went early
He said goodbye and left his parents' home.
On the way back from my parents' home, I thought a lot. I know that the only people in this world who can love me unconditionally are my biological parents. They don't want me to get divorced because they are afraid that I won't find a suitable partner for the rest of my life and will be alone for the rest of my life, so
Now that I am undecided, they are trying to persuade me to unite but not to separate.
However, no parent wants their child to live a life of grievance and depression, so as long as I make up my mind to divorce, I know that my parents will respect my opinion, even though they will feel a little helpless.
So what I'm most worried about now is my daughter's attitude. After all, splitting up this family will hurt my daughter Tongtong the most.
Although my husband Deng Wenliang has been lukewarm to me in the past three years, his affection for his daughter has always been deep. In the past, even if he came home once every few days, the first thing he cared about when he came back was his daughter's study.
Tongtong has a deep relationship with her father and is greatly influenced by him. Even some details of life are surprisingly consistent between the father and daughter.
Looking at the photos of the father and daughter, when they smile, the curvature of the eyes and the curvature of the corners of the mouth are exactly the same. This is a real biological father and daughter.
For several years, in the face of Deng Wenliang's neglect, I have been holding back on not getting divorced, just for the sake of my daughter. However, now I am on the verge of cheating, so my marriage with Deng Wenliang is already in name only, so I can't
I can't bear it any longer, but how do I say this to my daughter?