When doing things, she didn't think about her own future and safety. She only thought about how to warn her former family members. It can be seen that the original owner is still reluctant to leave her original family, even though they are very indifferent to her.
In Ling Xiao's opinion, the original owner's behavior was inexplicably familiar, and it was slightly similar to the type of people known as GOU lickers. It might not have reached that level of infatuation, but it still had that tendency.
She didn't have a good impression of licking GOUs because they were too groveling sometimes.
Isn't there a saying in later generations: You will get nothing if you lick GOU. Of course she doesn't want the original owner to think about his former family and want to give them a warning? What to say? How to avoid being dug out?
The original owner wanted the family to be cautious, thinking that he wanted his family to live well, out of a sincere heart. But could the other party listen to this opinion? In fact, they were unlikely to believe Ling Xiao's words, after all, their status
The gap is too big. Those people are considered top officials, while Ling Xiao belongs to the common people.
Even if Ling Xiao is somewhat virtuous in the eyes of others, he is not a big figure in their eyes. In their eyes, Ling Xiao is definitely the kind of person who will do anything to cling to the powerful. In other words, they think Ling Xiao
Xiao is just a dog, this feeling is too unacceptable.
Of course Ling Xiao is not willing to do this kind of thing. Anyway, she basically keeps a distance from the bureaucrats in feudal society. In ancient times, they were the most taxing on the knees. She has no habit of wanting to kowtow together. In addition, she certainly does not want others to look down on her.
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The original owner's mood dropped because she saw that Ling Xiao didn't agree with her idea at all and didn't want to deal with her former family. This made her a little disappointed. Some things couldn't be forced after all. Her eyes were a little red and she lowered her eyes helplessly.
head.
Seeing this scene, Ling Xiao didn't know what to say and couldn't accuse her. After all, the original owner was still a little girl and he couldn't allow her to do something she didn't want to do.
Looking at the original owner, Ling Xiao shook her head slightly. She did not expect that the original owner would be able to become a tough woman with strong skills. This possibility was very low. Her character was basically determined. She would have been very good without becoming a dodder flower.
good.
Ling Xiao discovered a problem. Maybe she once had the naive thoughts of the original owner, but after experiencing so much, she found that she no longer had those innocent thoughts. She couldn't go back. She had changed a lot. If she went back
I'm afraid there will be some changes in the native world.
In addition, she also knows one thing. Regarding the warning issue, she will not give in to the original owner. That kind of idea is quite stupid. In fact, the original owner’s grandfather is a good man. Hey! Forget it, if the original owner is not happy, then he will not be happy.
Anyway, she won't abandon herself for the original owner.
Of course, after this time, the original owner also exposed a very serious problem. She didn't learn how to express her meaning. She wanted Ling Xiao to warn her family or Ling Xiao guessed it by herself. If Ling Xiao couldn't guess, what should she do?
manage?
In addition, has she ever thought about other people going to act according to her ideas, what if something goes wrong? And the original owner probably has not turned around or even spoken out her true thoughts until now.
Hey! What a headache! When will the original owner figure it out? Ling Xiao is definitely not the kind of stupid person who only knows how to give, because she knows that some people do a lot but get nothing. They are really stupid.
She would not be very strict with the original owner. The reason why she had no intention of scolding the original owner for being whimsical and not caring about other people's emotions was because the original owner had no self-confidence. She was used to being ignored since she was a child, and she had developed a certain habit.
A habit of wanting to please others.
As social creatures, it is normal for people to want to please others. In order to get along better, most people have had the idea of wanting to be favored by others. This is a kind of human nature, and there are special cases, such as those who are very aloof.
People who stay away from the crowd probably don't think about favors.
Ling Xiao understood very well that the original owner had suffered so much and still thought about her family. This was because they were blood relatives and should be the best relatives to her. But now in the most delicate situation, she left home and went to the big city.
In half a year, some of the scars have healed and I have forgotten the pain.
Ling Xiao thought that the original owner should not think too much about getting the love of the so-called family. When she thought of this, she looked at the original owner with her head lowered. Forget it, she was also a person who had been reincarnated for several lives anyway, so she still had to be patient. Some things had to be done slowly.
He said, it's getting late, it's time to teach Dalang how to read.
Thinking of this, she stood up. She did not intend to confront the original owner here again. The eldest lady would sit there with a drooped face. When she saw Ling Xiao standing up, she saw that the original owner was a little panicked, and her tears increased again.
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Seeing the original owner acting like a little white flower, Ling Xiao couldn't help but shake his head and said: "Xiao Liu, remember, people have mouths not just for you to eat, but also for you to speak and tell others what you think. Others
I don’t understand your thoughts, so you just know that crying and crying won’t work like this.”
After hearing Ling Xiao's words, the original owner suddenly raised her head, opened her mouth slightly and made a meaningless sound. Because Ling Xiao mentioned that she was crying, she didn't know whether she should cry or not.
Ling Xiao didn't pay attention to her actions at all, and just called "Dalang, come and study quickly." After saying that, he stood up and walked to the study room to wait. You must know that when it is time for Dalang to study, the child must persevere in his studies.
The original owner looked at Ling Xiao's actions in shock, because she clearly remembered that Ling Xiao asked her to learn to cry before, so why didn't she want to see her cry now? She looked at Ling Xiao walking away stupidly, feeling a little scared in her heart.
After this period of life, she knew that without Ling Xiao, her future would be doomed. She did not dare to offend Ling Xiao, so what did Ling Xiao say just now? She thought about what Ling Xiao said and her expression changed.
After changing his mind, he wanted to talk to Ling Xiao, but he happened to see Da Lang going in to study and stopped outside.
Dalang just saw his mother and aunt crying, and felt a little uneasy. Just before he sat down to study, he asked Ling Xiao: "Grandpa, why are my mother and aunt crying?"
Ling Xiao looked at Da Lang, who was a little uneasy. What happened today still affected the children. Of course, it was not just today's events, but also because the Song family and his wife lived a miserable life, which made the children live a very miserable life.
And this situation has left a certain mark on every aspect of their lives.
This situation has always existed. For example, some people have been living in a place where life is relatively tight and often cannot buy food. Over time, they will develop the habit of hoarding food at home. If they do not put dozens of kilograms of food at home,
You will feel uneasy at home. This is the mark that life leaves on everyone.
This is the case for Dalang now. Once he finds out that the relationship between the adults was not very good before, he will feel uneasy. They are like vigilant little beasts. Once they find signs of danger, they will be very worried.
vigilance.
Dalang has always lived a very nervous life, which made him learn to watch people's emotions. After discovering that his mother was in a daze after being talked about by his uncle, he felt bad in his heart and did not dare to talk about his mother Song, let alone talk about it.
Great uncle.
After watching the two people cry after being criticized, he wanted to ease the relationship between his mother and his uncle, because he knew that having his uncle allowed the family to live well.
Without the support of his uncle, they don't know where their mother and son would end up. This is what the landlady specially told him, asking him not to contradict his uncle and to please him.
Naturally, he wanted to know that the landlady was right. He had never dared to confront his uncle. However, these days, his grandfather had been very kind to his mother and aunt, which made him somewhat forget how powerful his uncle was.
Now that he saw both of them crying, he didn't know what was going on. After thinking for a while, he planned to ask Ling Xiao. In his mind, Grandpa Zu was omnipotent and would definitely be able to give him a correct answer.
Ling Xiao said: "Dalang, crying is a normal expression of people's emotions. Everyone may cry. Most of the time they cry because of pain and sadness. There are also cases of crying with joy, but they are relatively rare.
Your mother and aunt are crying because they are sad and angry because they are unable to achieve their own ideas. Sir, you must remember that crying is normal. Everyone may cry for various reasons, whether they are men or women.
right.
But remember one thing, if there is no one else watching when you cry, how you cry is your own business. But if there are people around you, you should be careful not to cry for too long. Not everyone is willing to wait for you.
After crying, there is still time to learn to cry, otherwise your crying will only make people annoying."
In many cases, crying will be regarded as weakness. You may get pity from outsiders, or you may get another bullying. It is difficult to determine what crying will bring, but men are often asked not to cry. There is a saying that says: Men
I would rather bleed than shed tears.
There were similar requirements in ancient society, as if men should not cry, so Ling Xiao asked Dalang to pay attention to the fact that there are good places to cry. In fact, crying can help people adjust their emotions, and it is best not to hold it in.
Dalang listened with his eyes wide open. You must know that during this period, the two brothers lost their father. His mother Song was a weak woman. As the eldest son, he still wanted to take good care of his mother, but he found that he was too young.
As for being unable to do anything, fortunately, the arrival of his uncle gave their family a new lease of life, and also gave him new emotional sustenance, and he once again received the same care as his father.
"You also need to learn how to communicate better with people. Some issues must be explained clearly, otherwise it may cause communication errors." When she said this, Ling Xiao naturally felt the arrival of the original owner, and she was eavesdropping.
middle.
The original owner has a characteristic. She likes to make herself silent. She hopes that even if she stays in the busiest place, others will ignore her existence. This is her life-saving trick.
Ling Xiao discovered this characteristic after the original owner returned to this body, and forced the original owner to carry out deportment training. At least it would not be ignored by others, so Ling Xiao would generally not criticize the other person, and worked hard to make her live with some confidence.
Just now she changed back to her former self. Perhaps it was due to the living habits of more than ten years in her previous life. The original owner had been living a transparent life, so much so that she forgot that she was a human being. She never liked being looked at and wished she could change.
Become a chameleon and no one will notice.
Ling Xiao found out that he didn't know what to say. This was really a sin. As a transparent person, the original owner was not very noticeable, but it also meant that no one would care about a transparent person, and everyone would ignore it without knowing it.
her existence.
And the original owner still doesn't understand one thing. Now she no longer needs to be afraid of being abandoned by her family. She is completely free. And if she appears as a transparent person, it is very likely that she will be destroyed and others will not be killed.
Pay attention and hope everyone knows: being a little transparent is equivalent to letting everyone ignore that person.
During this period of time, I was mainly busy with the Song family and didn't pay much attention to the original owner's affairs. As a result, she became somewhat transparent. Living like this really makes people feel helpless.
Ling Xiao wanted the original owner to work hard not to be a transparent person, but found that the original owner still hadn't changed his mind too much. This was a problem. Ling Xiao hoped that the original owner would work hard to live, because life is impermanent.
For example, Ling Xiao himself lived quite well in his native world for more than 20 years, until he was hit by something thrown by a certain bastard, and began his own journey through time, which was quite unpredictable.
After all, how could a person who grew up in a peaceful world embark on this path if not for survival? She encountered many dangers along the way, and she would never have believed that she would make progress in many aspects.
Ling Xiao didn't agree with the original owner's subsequent choices. Why did she live like that? Since the death of her previous life proved that this path was unworkable, why not take another path? A woman kept living in the past.
She didn't agree with the original owner's choice, but she couldn't lecture the original owner by name. You know, she was too timid. If she talked too much, she would just say: Everyone walks their own path.
"Da Lang, how do you feel about your aunt during this time? Are you unable to feel her presence sometimes?" Ling Xiao said it bluntly, and she looked at Da Lang.
Dalang had always remembered his aunt, but now that he was exposed to Ling Xiao, he realized that he had no more impression of her at all. His face was pale, but he only called her "aunt" when everyone asked him to.
After thinking about it like this, he felt a little embarrassed. He scratched the broken hair on his head and said, "Grandpa, this is really the case. I don't know why my aunt doesn't get noticed at all."
The original owner who was eavesdropping on the side was very shocked. She was very confused in her heart. She wanted to be a transparent person, but when she knew that she would not be remembered, she still felt that she was overthinking it.
Because she thought about her life in the family, she had never been remembered by anyone, and the other sisters did not care about her at all. So would she end up in that situation now?