The reason why the original owner thought so was because she once read a novel (1) in which the heroine was a very stubborn girl.
The background of the story is a civil war, and the time span is not short, from the heroine's childhood to youth. The very beautiful heroine has been in love with a man since she was a virgin, and she seems to be possessed by a man.
She had to force the man who would never love her because he had a wife to fall in love with her. For this reason, she did a lot of things that seemed different from normal people. Including but not limited to taking care of her sweetheart when he went out to fight in the army.
His wife and children.
The heroine still has her own bottom line on this point. Even if she likes the man, she does her best to help the man's wife and children. Instead of trying to step on the wife, she helps him all the time.
She is the beautiful and charming person, she is the person who doesn't listen to the man at all and seems a little selfish, and she is the person who runs around in order to survive.
She originally thought she would just stick with it, but one day she met a charming man by chance. She later married him and became a mother, and gave birth to a daughter.
At the end of the story, the heroine discovers that the sweetheart she has always loved is not a real person, and is not the same person as the person she thought she fell in love with.
After careful analysis, the heroine discovered that the man in her mind gradually deviated from the man in reality, probably because she was unable to love him.
Although she still looks like that man on the outside, the inside is the character and thoughts of the heroine after she has imagined it. In other words, she has always loved an illusory person before.
After discovering this problem, the heroine finally came to her senses, because she discovered that her husband, who had been married to her for many years, was different from her sweetheart on the outside, but was very similar on the inside.
After discovering this situation, the heroine wanted to live a good life with her husband. Her husband's beloved daughter left. She felt that she had the same problem as her husband, but she woke up too late and the man decided to leave.
The man who truly loves the heroine chases after the heroine as her husband for a long time. Even though they have a daughter, the heroine still only regards him as her husband, not her lover.
Although the man continued to protect the strong heroine, he began to focus on his daughter, and the daughter really loved her father until death took the little angel away.
His daughter died in an accident. After some thought, he decided to leave her because he found that he was too obsessed with getting the heroine's love, which caused him to change and become unlike himself, so he chose to leave.
The heroine collapsed after losing her daughter. After she finished reflecting, she realized that the person who had been supporting her was leaving. At this moment, she was so anxious that she wanted to tell her husband to start over.
But the man was unwilling, because what was broken could never be restored. Even if it could be restored, he would eventually choose to leave this sad place and start his own life again.
Maybe he still loves the heroine in his heart, but he knows in his heart: She and he have come to the end, and if they stay in the original place, they may become a resentful couple. It is better to separate early and leave a little more happiness.
memories.
The heroine was naturally very crazy when she found out her husband's plan. What was going on? The man who was a good husband just a few days ago told her in the blink of an eye that they were about to separate!
After repeated attempts to save her, she still had to take care of her farm, and finally watched the important man walk out of her life, but she was not discouraged and said: "Tomorrow is another day!"
The original owner at the time felt a little pity when he saw the end. How could this happen? The heroine's mind changed and she knew that she was wrong. She could be with her ex-husband and He Meimei. Why did they finally separate? The ending ended abruptly.
This kind of open ending is really heart-breaking. For this reason, the original owner once discussed the ending with Ling Xiao, and wanted to ask Ling Xiao a question: Did the heroine get back together with that man in the end?
The original owner was still very young when she read the book, and she was the kind of girl who still had some illusions about love, so she hoped that the two of them could get together. After all, they were really a good match.
But Ling Xiao was different. After hearing the original owner's words, she smiled slightly, but she did not agree with the original owner's words, and of course she did not immediately refute the original owner's words.
This is because Ling Xiao knows that the original owner's statement has a certain possibility. The changeable nature of human nature makes everything possible. Maybe the couple will live together in the end.
But Ling Xiao felt that it was more likely that the couple could not be together, because the reason why they were able to live together was more because of the man's concession.
But after being treated coldly by his wife time and time again, losing his favorite daughter, and being heartbroken by the ups and downs, even if he stayed, he probably wouldn't give in anymore. The foundation he had once collapsed.
You should know that there is a good saying: It is easy for two people to fall in love. Maybe it is just a glance at each other, maybe it is because of something that makes two people fall in love, but after they get together, they will find that it is too difficult to get along.
Two people are not living well, and this situation comes from many aspects such as family, individual, society, etc. Marriage is a matter of two people, but it is not entirely a matter of two people. Just loving each other is not enough.
Especially if a person like the heroine, who has a white moon in her heart, marries someone else, regardless of whether the other party is a boy or a girl at the time, the situation will be overturned if one mistake goes wrong.
This is because the most taboo point in marriage is that people after marriage still miss their ex or Bai Yueguang, and compare them with their married lover from time to time.
In fact, this kind of comparison is completely unfriendly to the current couple. You must know that lovers breaking up often means that there are big differences between lovers, which eventually leads to separation. The same is true for those who still love each other but eventually break up. Breaking up means that they have been together.
The severance of relationships.
Now that we've broken off, don't think about your ex. You didn't seize the opportunity to be together when we were together before, so after you get married, you won't have the chance to pick and choose, so don't think about your ex.
Why do many people feel that their ex is very attractive? To a large extent, it is due to the time filter. Over time, the disadvantages of the ex are blurred, leaving mostly only the advantages, and the trivial things after marriage are also polished away.
Current love.
In fact, if we had not broken up at the beginning, the ex would have become the current one, and the disadvantages would gradually become apparent, while the advantages would not be visible, and the two of them would probably drift apart.
This is also the reason why Ling Xiao is not optimistic about that couple. Once the person who has been giving in is unwilling to give in anymore, the woman will naturally not accept this change because she is spoiled by the man and cannot understand his behavior.
After thinking about it for a while, Ling Xiao told the original owner his thoughts: That man's temperament is that of a person who once he makes a decision, he will do everything possible to complete it.
Then if he makes up his mind to leave, he will definitely resume his previous actions. She and him may meet again after many years, but it is more likely that they will never see each other again.
That man is a person who likes to wander like the wind. He stayed for the heroine for a long time until he realized that he was no longer like himself.
After he suddenly wakes up, he will leave after his daughter dies while still loving the heroine. After that, he will become the wind again, fearing that there will never be anyone who will let him stay.
The reason why Ling Xiao asked the original owner to read that famous book was so that the original owner could learn from it. After all, the characters described in this book were all lifelike.
Among them, we can analyze the character of the characters. The heroine is the most impressive one. She is a person with a strong character and is very resilient. She will fight back when facing strong enemies and never give up.
What impressed everyone the most was the sentence the heroine said at the end of the book. She believed that even if she could not get her ex-husband back, she would still live well. This was the advantage that Ling Xiao wanted the original master to learn.
As the saying goes: Unsatisfactory things often happen, but you can tell people the same thing (2). When facing unsatisfactory things, you must face everything with a brave and serious attitude, and never give up.
Thinking of this, the original owner became even more relieved, and with a faint smile, he said: "Actually, I know one thing. Although the two old people and I are related by blood, we have never lived together, and we are not familiar with each other at all."
Speaking of this, the original owner slightly shrugged her shoulders. Even if the two elderly people were unwilling to take a test with her and did not want to admit that they were related by blood, she was not afraid because she tried her best and was willing to bear all the consequences.
The two old people today are a little embarrassed because they found that their idea just now was a bit too much. She is still a child, and as elders they should not care too much.
"So you don't have to worry about my intentions. As a junior, I just want to confirm whether we are really related by blood. If you two are not willing to confirm, I will not force you to do it. But I can basically confirm it.
It just lacks scientific testing.
Therefore, I will still come to see my elders every once in a while and will not disturb their retirement life. I hope that my elders, who are used to living a peaceful life, will not feel disturbed by my arrival."
The two old men felt that they couldn't bear it, because the other was doing so well, and they wanted to say something, but they were too excited and couldn't say it for a while.
"Of course there is another thing. Although I want to visit two elderly people and want to take good care of them, because I have a job, I have to attend classes and write papers, so maybe I don't have enough time.
So I want to leave a phone number for the elderly so that if anything happens, you can call me. After all, you are old, and if something happens, you need someone to take care of you. Even if I can't make it, you can still find professional people to take care of you. I have the financial strength.
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The two old people were a little shocked when they heard this, and then they were very surprised. Their granddaughter had found a job? And it was really great to hear that she meant to be a teacher. They had never thought of this.
You must know that the granddaughter looks like she is only in her early twenties. They thought they would go to college and were thinking about finding someone to have a good relationship with so that they could find a good job.
After all, their daughters can be said to be the older ones. Who would have thought that their granddaughter, whom they haven’t seen for many years, is completely different from her biological mother and can be so powerful? She just doesn’t know where to teach?
Being a teacher is great, but of course it is also very tiring to be a good teacher. This is their experience after being teachers for decades. It takes a lot of effort to educate every student well.
In fact, they also know that not only being a teacher is tiring, but doing every job well is not easy and requires a lot of energy. However, there is a saying that goes well: labor is the most glorious.
As a female, my grandmother was very happy. A woman must have the ability to make money on her own. Otherwise, she would have to live like a dodder and depend on others. When she suffers in the future, she will know how humble her life is.
Naturally, they were very happy about this. Regardless of whether they were men or women, they had to rely on their own ability to make a living. Although they were not very familiar with their granddaughter, they still hoped that she would live well.
"Why are you also a teacher?" Grandma said, with a look of surprise on her face at this moment. She really wanted to know where her granddaughter worked and did she need their help?
"Yes, I like to study mathematics. Later I got a doctorate. I am very happy to become a teacher. I came to this country not long ago and joined K University."
"How big is K?" Grandma suddenly exclaimed, "How big is K!" They looked at each other, their eyes full of surprise. They never expected that the other would become a university teacher.
The original owner smiled and nodded, and said harmoniously: "Yes, my tutor gave me a recommendation, and I went through an interview. I passed the school's interview and have been teaching for one semester. It's just that I'm far away from here, so I can do it if I have something to do."
Call up."
The two old men felt very tired at the moment. Their granddaughter's visit made them both surprised and happy. They couldn't bear the many changes in their relationship, so their faces looked a little ugly.
Ling Xiao noticed it and reminded the original owner to leave temporarily and let the two old people take a rest. After hearing this, the original owner looked carefully and found that the old man was indeed tired, so he stood up.
"Because I am anxious to see the two elders. Some things have not been taken care of. Moreover, I can see that the elders are probably tired. I will take a good rest first. I will go back to tidy up my things and wait for the next opportunity to visit the two elders."
She didn't find a place to stay this time, so she had to find a big hotel to stay first. She was a little overly nervous about recognizing her relatives and needed a good rest.
If the other party insists on denying it and asks others to pay attention to the two old people, she will be a little sad, but this will not make her stop her efforts. If she is sad, just keep herself busy and ignore her sadness.
The two old people were stunned after hearing this. They felt that their granddaughter left too fast. Looking at the phone number handed over by the original owner, the grandmother took it with trembling hands, "Hey! Okay! We are really tired."
At this moment, she really wanted her granddaughter to stay and live in her daughter's former boudoir. You must know that although they locked the place, most of the things inside were not moved.
But I quickly remembered that even though it was covered with a protective cover, it had not been cleaned for a while, so there was a lot of dust, and it was obvious that my granddaughter's clothes were not worn by ordinary people.
The original owner would be dumbfounded if she knew what her grandparents thought so, because her clothes were really not the so-called big brands, but were made for her by Ling Xiao. They looked high-end, but they were actually made by herself.
Of course, it is undeniable that the clothing materials are very high-end. This is because the original owner is also very rich. The clothing materials Ling Xiao chooses are mostly natural materials, which are indeed not very cheap.
This shows that the estrangement between the original owner and the two old people cannot be eliminated immediately. There is also the reason for their daughter and the reason for their first meeting. They are not familiar with her at all now.