"Yesterday, my mother received news from her former Harvard classmates. They have all made great achievements in their work in the past two years and gained a lot. Some of them have even emerged and quickly risen to the top. However, my mother plans not to go out to work for the next three years.
.This is not because my mother has made any sacrifices, but since I have chosen a kind of happiness in life, I have to give up a kind of happiness. If my mother chooses to accompany you, she has to give up the happiness of work..."
"Many parents always believe that spending time with their children is the most trivial thing. Work is the most important thing and career is the most important thing. My mother also met a female professor back then. She gave birth to her first child at the age of forty, but the day before giving birth to the child
She was still in a meeting, and immediately went to various conference calls in the afternoon after giving birth, so that her work partners couldn't bear it and told her to rest first... Compared with such a career madman, my mother would rather choose to accompany her wholeheartedly. It's simple, since you
It is a gift that mom begged God for thousands of times. Then, mom has the obligation to take care of you, care for you, and accompany you. In addition to your food, clothing, housing, transportation, and the four seasons, she must also care about your mood changes and understand you every bit.
The experience of growing up... This kind of experience is much more important than money and work. I think this is the most important thing about being a parent..."
"Earning money and working are lifelong careers, and it is never too late; but the time for children to grow is limited. Mom decided to be a full-time housewife and accompany you to slowly understand everything in the world...
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"Happiness is the greatest foundation in life. As the famous writer Wang Shuo said: What do I want from my child? Why should I let her get ahead? The so-called career success means making some money and letting ***
*Are we all envious when we see it? Why bother! My mother deeply agrees with this statement. Nowadays, people’s value is success, and success is nothing more than making money and having status... But this is not the same as happiness in life.
Going in the opposite direction?"
"There are many people making money in this world, but few happy people. Mom is lucky enough to have created the conditions for you to have a stable life, so she has no other big demands on you. The so-called 'hope for your son to succeed' or 'hope for your daughter'
Cheng Feng'... It's nothing more than parents who are lazy and depressed throughout their lives, so they place their hopes on their children and selfishly hope that their children can achieve tasks that are simply impossible. If you follow their wishes, they will consider you a filial son.
Otherwise, you will be disappointed and think you are not living up to expectations..."
"In the legend of the 24 filial piety in our country, there is a very strange story. A man was very filial to his mother, but his family was poor. He and his wife discussed that it would be better to kill their three-year-old son to save food and let the old mother eat more. The reason
Children can be reborn, but there is only one old mother. This person is actually regarded as a filial son. In fact, isn't this the most terrifying form of bullying? If he really wants to be filial, why doesn't he work hard to make money? Why doesn't he save his own food rations for his mother?
?The fact that such perverted and vicious parents are admired shows the distortion of the values of our nation for thousands of years: children are only the private property of their parents, and they can live or die as long as they want. My mother believes that this is extremely wrong and extremely
Vulgar, we must stand up against such parents to prevent them from harming future generations..."
