"The father is kind and the son is filial. If the father is not kind, why should the son be filial? I never want you to be filial to me, nor do I want you to provide for me in my old age. I believe that providing for the elderly is a matter of society, and the reproduction of offspring is also a matter of society. The mentality of parents cannot be kind.
Being above the children, parents and children cannot be a transaction. After all, the word 'raising children for old age' itself is a portrayal of naked money transactions, isn't it?"
"Mom has no such requirements for you at all. She gave birth to you entirely out of her own love and happiness. From now on, your studies, marriage, love... Mom will not interfere at all. Everything will be decided by your heart.
,autonomy!”
"Mom's only obligation is to accompany you when you grow up. One day, you will be able to fly far and wide according to your own wishes. However, this is not a problem. Mom believes that as long as she loves you with her heart, you will always have a small corner of you thinking about her.
This is completely enough. After all, whether it is between father and son, mother and son, or between husband and wife, transactions cannot bring true love. Only heart-for-heart and sincere emotions can exchange for each other's heartfelt love and care...
…”
"Okay, dear friend, this is what I wrote to you. When you turn eighteen, I will give it to you as a birthday gift. Let you know your mother's attitude and attitude towards life.
This is the first comprehensive exchange between mom and you on the world outlook on life and values."
…
She put down the mouse and felt relieved.
I didn't realize that there was a pair of hands behind my back for a long, long time.
She was surprised: "Brother Donglin..."
His eyes retracted from the screen and fell on her face.
"Xixi, did you really breastfeed your child at home for three years?"
She said nonchalantly: "Of course. A family must have a caregiver to accompany the child. You can't just leave the child to the elderly or a nanny when both husband and wife are busy people. If you are so irresponsible, why have a child? Besides,
, between the two of us, I must be the one accompanying the child, you can’t just do nothing all day long and be a daddy at home, right?”
Wang Donglin laughed loudly: "Aren't you afraid of falling behind?"
"Brother Donglin, you are so vulgar!"
"..."
"How can it be outdated to accompany children to grow up? Many small white-collar employees earn only two to three thousand, three to four thousand a month, squeeze into the bus every day, and have to abandon their children to the elderly in order to make a living. Giving up children is the most precious thing
Not to mention their growth stage, they actually have the nerve to plausibly laugh at housewives who will fall behind if they don’t go to work. Does it mean that doing a trivial chore in the office counts as progress?? Being unkempt and tortured by life means that you don’t fall behind? To say the least,
, Even if you have a successful career and earn a lot of money, is it really the only sign of progress to be in intrigues and dangers? "
"..."
"Modern information is so advanced, mobile Internet has become the mainstream, and you can overlook the world without leaving home. Why are housewives left behind? I take my children to know the flowers, plants and trees in nature, explain to them the wonderful formation of the universe, and accompany them to exercise.
Exercise, take him to explore everything that children are interested in... But whatever I lacked before and never understood in my childhood, I will learn and grow again with him, so what is there to be left behind? "
Wang Donglin laughed heartily.
His whole body smiled with his eyebrows stretching, and he was extremely happy.
With a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for?
Especially after she gave birth, due to proper maintenance, her face was rosy, her lips were red and her teeth were white. She was not too fat, but she was very plump and attractive. Moreover, she naturally exuded the faint frankincense of being a mother...
I have been absent for a long time and endured for a long time.
I worked hard for so long and I don’t know how I got through it.
He hugged her tightly, his breathing incredibly hot.
(The finale of the full text is coming soon. After the most important characters appear, the finale is about to begin.)
