What is the ending of the story of the prince and princess? No one knows. Even fairy tales only write that "they lived a happy life together from then on." Because stories of frustration and happy endings are written for children.
The fairy tales we read, but the ordinary life and the hardships of the years are the bitterness that an adult should taste.
So, what is the continuation of the fairy tale? It is life and tests, ordinary life and the test of long years. And this is the true meaning of life and love - Ronin Pier.
I had a very happy time that day. If there was a layer of paper between me and Ling before, I think I had pierced the paper that day. All the previous uncertainties and doubts were thrown away.
Ling's attitude made me feel extremely happy. Maybe it was still a restraint and shackles for her in the past, but now she is willing to step out and walk into the sky and world that should belong to her to welcome her.
Sunshine and laughter should be embraced at this age.
I think I can bring her this.
At that time, I was as confident as if I owned the whole world.
At that time, I was really like a child.
Eating in a university cafeteria is a cruel test for single men and women. The intimacy and boredom between young lovers who are already in a couple can kill every single older man who thinks they are outstanding in an instant.
So the smart thing to do is to close your eyes, go to the cafeteria to prepare a meal, and then go back to the dormitory to eat, so as not to do anything stupid under the dual impact of the strong secretion of adolescent hormones and this strong visual stimulation.
The reason why I wrote this paragraph as a foreshadowing is to better facilitate your understanding of my abnormality and unnaturalness when eating with Ling. In order to avoid you thinking that I am a ignorant and ignorant young man.
I used to think that it was uncomfortable enough when I was single to see those pairs of lovers. Only then did I realize that what was even more uncomfortable was that there was a girl I liked sitting next to me and she seemed to have some interest in you.
, but you still can’t and don’t dare to hold her on your lap, or feed her. What’s even more painful is that you can’t control your thoughts to drift in this direction at all, so when I eat, I put the dishes
Small things like spilling on pants, dripping soup on clothes, dropping chopsticks on the floor and knocking over the soup bowl should be understandable.
I think Ling knew what I was thinking, because when I was in a hurry and making a fool of myself, she did not show an expression of anger or disgust, but just a slightly cunning smile, with a little bit of evil and hateful. It made me hate it.
My teeth were itching but I had no choice but to do anything. I was so anxious that I just continued to make mistakes.
"You know what? Your smile makes me want to bite you!" After knocking over the soup plate again, I admitted that I was getting a little angry.
"Do you like to bite people?" She looked at me innocently, with a sly smile in her shining eyes. But I ignored it and continued to fall into her trap.
"My bad habit is that I have always liked biting people since I was a child. When I have nothing to do, I even bite myself for fun..." I revealed my privacy to her honestly.
"Oh, let me calculate, you should have been born in 1984, what a genius! You went to college at such a young age!" She looked envious and admired.
"What? I was born in 1980, and my zodiac sign is Monkey!" I corrected her mistake.
"Ah?! Why aren't you a dog?!" Even her eyes showed surprise.
Boom!!!
That was the sound of me falling to the ground.
Everyone is diverse. A simple person may have a sophisticated side, and a quiet person may also be crazy. So I never judge a person’s essence based on the first impression. Because I believe that everyone is different.
It is multi-faceted. At the right time and place, anyone you thought you knew and understood will turn into another existence that is completely unfamiliar to you. Ling was the first person to teach me this.
I think Ling Hui is an endless book to read, because she brings me constant surprises and happiness every moment. I have happy fantasies and look forward to spending every day with Ling in the future.
The feeling of loving someone is really great.
The bells are the bells of silence, the naughty bells of her melancholy, her smile, her cunningness. The shadow of the bell is in front of her eyes, and the bell of her laughter is in the ears - filling my whole world.
After sending the bell back to the dormitory, on the way back, my whole mind was completely occupied by that little elf with a little evil spirit. I recalled her shyness when she just confessed her love, and I was angry with myself while eating.
So clumsy, I recalled her efforts to hold back the tremor of laughter when that little trap was successful.
I imagined how happy it would be for Ling to become my girlfriend one day. I thought about the lines and gifts I should prepare for our next date. I even imagined that the erotic scenes in the cafeteria just now would be possible between me and her.
Repeatedly...
Love is like honey, love is like poison, the viewer is tempted and the patient is heartbroken.
"This weekend, I'm going to ask her out. Give her a happy date!" I thought excitedly.
Boom!!!
Then I confirmed the fact that hitting a telephone pole while walking was not a figment of the imagination of novelists.
Countless literary and artistic works in various forms have given us such a hint: time is a coordinate line, and each period of the past has left its own logo and traces on it. Because of this, we will
We miss the past, so we want to go back to the past, so we sometimes think we can go back to the past.
But, dear, it is true that time is a line, but the way we look at it has been wrong.
Put this line in front of your eyes, and you will naturally feel that every point on it is so distinct and permanent, and you can pick it up, play and appreciate it at any time. But now, please turn this line at an angle with your hands.
, let the direction of its extension face our eyes - at this time we only see one point, and this is the true face of time. Everything in the past has been covered, disappeared, gone, only
This latest self is the only certain existence.
All people and things are like this. Only after understanding this truth can we step over the dead past and move forward decisively - Ronin Pier.
I love to dream - I have never denied this. I always like to make some things better in my mind, and use this as my motivation to move forward, even if I develop the habit of having high ambitions and low ambitions.
No matter what. And at least before my official date with Ling, I never thought that reality could sometimes be better than my imagination...
After paying the price of having a big bang on my head, I formed a plan in my mind, a plan for my first official date in my life. In the following time, I tried my best to perfect my plan, every time
Details, every line, every action - I thought about and planned my first date as carefully as a secretary to a leader in Zhongnanhai designs foreign affairs occasions for leaders.
I urgently needed someone to evaluate and score my plan and turn it into a feasible execution plan. At that time, I didn't have such a person around me, so I thought of Lu Xing - the hiphop guy.
Dress up, keep saying "Holy shit!", and at the same time, he is still a kid who always asks me for cigarettes.
I subconsciously thought that he must be very good at chasing girls, so there was nothing wrong with asking him to help me with my design. So after a phone call, we found a teahouse where we could smoke and sat down.
"It's not easy to chase girls! You can give her small gifts, chat about your little things, and brag, and you can catch her easily!" Ya carelessly leaned on the sofa, and her tone was so loud that it made people want to slap him.
"Do you understand the romance I taught you last time?"
"Knowing that she doesn't love me, why don't you give her a hundred roses?!" I remember clearly that as a "rookie", I have always had a faith-like devotion to such philosophical words. "But I am making trouble.
I don’t quite understand, I think she is interested in me now.” I asked humbly.
"Stupid, what I said is just a metaphor. Women are emotional animals. If you want to chase them, you must use their sensibility to bring them a fresh feeling. They can easily bring this freshness to them.
Excitement is understood as liking and love." He said such profound words in the smoke, as if a god was guiding the ignorant world.
"Then what should I do?" I continued to ask. What I needed at this time was practical advice, not some ethereal philosophy, although I felt very admired when I heard it.
"Listen, you should do this and this..." He leaned down and gave me instructions.
…
Then that weekend, I called Ling and asked her to go out.
"Why do you want to go out to play? The midterm exam is coming soon!" She was obviously unhappy on the phone.
————————————Sage of Love Quotations No. 1: Women all have an inexplicable love for some days that have special meaning. If she is unwilling to come out, you can find some names to do so.
Make that day a "special day"!
——————————————OK! I have already thought of a way to solve this problem in advance. I said relaxedly on the other end of the phone: “Don’t you remember, today is the day we met 86
It’s God’s big day! It’s an 8 and a 6, both smooth and smooth. If you don’t come out to celebrate, you will be sent away by God!”
"Pfft!" She laughed out loud on the other end of the phone. Then she pondered for a moment: "Well, it's not bad to have a relaxing day once in a while. Just wait for me for 10 minutes!"
Lu Xing, God bless you! I put down the phone and sincerely wish him well in the distance.
Then, during the 10 minutes that Ling said, I smoked two cigarettes, drank a bottle of Coke, watched other people playing basketball for a while, and was excitedly preparing to go off to the court, when she calmly went downstairs.
.
When I saw Ling, I was stunned for a moment. If I remember correctly, this was the first time Ling put on makeup in front of me.
She is a very beautiful girl, fresh and lovely, as translucent as a hibiscus that has just emerged from the water. But after a little makeup, she revealed a different kind of beauty: she wore a unique style
The coat is paired with a skirt and a pair of half-high boots. One side of her short hair is pinned behind the ear with a star-shaped hairpin, and the other side is let down playfully and naturally, making her reveal a bit of mystery.
I still remember that her eye shadow was light blue that day, and her lipstick was very light, almost pink. The earrings she wore were the ones I complimented her on when we went out that day...
She noticed my momentary absence and smiled. With a hint of pride, like a child whose trick had succeeded.
Her smile brought me back to my senses. After two awkward hehes, I rubbed my hands and asked her, "Shall we go?"
"Where to go?"
"Go play games!"
"What, playing games? I don't like it."
"Just come with me!" I said without any explanation, took her hand and left.
———————————— Love Quotations No. 2: For a girl on a first date, what you need is to show your unusual side as much as possible. Of course, it does not mean that you have to
Show your unusual appetite or other similar things. What you need is to show your advantages to her in a comprehensive way. In this way, you will not be a "passerby" role in her eyes, but become a
It has real and textured existence.
——————————————During the period of 1998 and 1999, a game from Japan became popular throughout mainland China. Men, women, and children discovered that video games were not just for fun.
You can sit on the sofa and hold the controller, and you can also play with your feet. In this way, under the banner of "fitness and weight loss", a dancing machine game called "DDR" instantly landed in major cities across the country and became a
The new favorite of fashionable men and women.
And with the advantages of owning a PS game console and supporting dance booth, in the reality that the general level was not high at that time, my level should be barely considered an expert. I won second place in the DDR competition not long after the freshman enrollment.
The award is proof that I am proud of.
So, adhering to the guidance of Love Saint, I took her to the largest game center in the city, where I was ready to show myself to her.
…
I didn’t want to make any excuses such as poor physical condition, too tired recently, etc., but I really didn’t expect that she could play better than me. When I saw that I barely managed to clear the level on 6-star difficulty
, and gave her a smile that represented the double meaning of "This is little Case" and "I'm handsome, right?" She smiled, then put in a coin and directly chose the 8-star difficulty...
Soon, a crowd of onlookers stood next to our machine. Everyone applauded the beautiful girl's skillful and exciting dance, and at the same time loudly laughed at the fat man with a big head who was overestimating his abilities and who was doubles with her.
Those three songs were an ordeal for me. After it was over, I dragged her aside amid everyone's boos.
"Didn't you say you don't like playing games? Why are you so awesome?!" I asked her almost with a groan.
"This game is very helpful for weight loss, so we play it in the dormitory every day!" Her answer completely broke me down.
OK, I didn’t lose to her in DDR. What I lost was just a woman’s determination to stay in shape and lose weight. So I prepared to regain my place in racing.
"SEGARALLY", this is a pretty good racing game. The feel and graphics were pretty good for the time. So I dragged her here. With the lesson just learned, I didn't dare to be too arrogant. Let her sit
Next, after carefully teaching her how to play, I planned to stand by and observe her skills before making a decision.
Then, my mouth opened wide again. However, this time it was not because of how high her level was, but because it was so bad!
In this game that has nothing to do with weight loss, she fully exposed her novice nature. To describe her driving skills as "not flattering" is already a compliment. I can only say that if she drives a car one day,
, I would not ride with her under any circumstances, even if it takes me on Route 11, which is twenty or thirty miles away. God knows why she didn’t get halfway through the easiest first level even after picking it up 10 times!
Anyway, now I had a chance to express myself. I sat down proudly, selected a car, and entered the game. 10 minutes later, the word "New Record" on the screen shone brightly, and I also cast myself like her.
I think the most handsome smile.
Unfortunately, she obviously interpreted my friendliness as provocation. She was obviously not convinced, pointing to the motorcycle machine next to her and said, "Try this again."
Although I had never driven a motorcycle or even played on a machine, I still had the confidence to get on board as I had obtained my driver’s license right after graduating from high school.