An Lan sighed again and said: "Today the teacher called to say that Xiaoman had a conflict with a child in the kindergarten. Xiaoman scratched the other child's face."
"Ha?!" I was very shocked, because Xiaoman is not such an unreasonable person.
"I didn't believe it at first! I asked Xiaoman and she admitted it."
"what's up?"
"Xiao Man said that the classmate always played tricks on her and took away the milk distributed to them in the kindergarten. Xiao Man went to him to ask for it, but the child not only refused to give it to her, but also scolded Xiao Man. Xiao Man started fighting with him and beat her.
My face was scratched."
After listening, I laughed.
An Lan frowned and said, "Are you still laughing?"
Only then did I hold back my laughter and said, "That's it! Xiaoman did something wrong, but I support it."
"Do you still support it? If you know how to hit people at such a young age, will you still do it when you grow up?"
"Then do you think the child who took Xiaoman's milk was wrong?"
"He was at fault, but Xiaoman could sue the teacher! She didn't, but took action first."
"Even so, I still support Xiaoman. This is how you deal with people like this."
An Lan looked at me even more speechlessly and said, "Who are you? The child made a mistake, and you still support her making a mistake?"
I patiently said to An Lan sincerely: "Let's not take this matter too seriously. Xiao Man's behavior is wrong, but we can distinguish it."
"What's the meaning?"
"We support her actions, but not her actions."
An Lan still didn't seem to understand what I meant, so I said to her again: "To put it simply, we have to teach her a lesson about this matter, but we also have to praise her."
"I think you are just messing with the teachings. The teacher will ask parents to go to school tomorrow. Since you know how to deal with it, go ahead."
"Okay, I just don't have much work tomorrow."
"Then you take Xiaoman to kindergarten by yourself tomorrow, I just want to take a nap."
"Did you want to sleep in on purpose, so you asked me to go to kindergarten?" I asked with a smile.
"Yes, what? Shouldn't you go?"
"It should be, it should be whatever you say."
"I won't tell you anymore, go to bed." After saying that, she stood up.
I pulled her back again and said, "The children are all asleep, how about..."
"I'm going to sleep, too."
"Do some exercise before going to bed, you can sleep more soundly."
"No, I can sleep soundly now."
I just watched her running towards the bedroom, but she walked to the door of the second bedroom, stopped and turned back to me and said, "Hurry up and wash up."
I immediately stood up from the sofa, took off my coat, and said, "Go wash it now and wait for me for five minutes."
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The next morning, I got up early to take care of Xiaoman for breakfast and combed her hair.
Speaking of which, it was the first time for me to comb Xiaoman's hair in a long time, but she was very cooperative.
I only know how to tie a ponytail, and it took me a long time to do it.
This made Xiao Mandu a little impatient: "Dad, are you okay?"
"Uh, do you think this is okay?" I took out a mirror and let her look at it for herself.
She looked at herself in the mirror, pursed her lips and said, "Not good."
"But this is all dad can do, why don't I tie you into a pair of ponytails?"
Xiao Man nodded, so I put down the rubber band again and continued to toss.
It seems that most men are a little at a loss when it comes to these things and always seem clumsy. In fact, we are really trying hard, but no matter what, we just can't do it well.
It took me a few minutes to tie her into a pair of ponytails again, and she looked better than before.
Xiao Man looked at himself in front of the mirror. He still seemed a little dissatisfied, but he nodded and said, "That's it! But dad, why are you combing my hair today? Where's mom?"
"Your mother is sleeping in."
"Is that why dad sent me to kindergarten too?"
"Well, can we leave now?"
"And a water glass."
"where?"
She ran to the bedroom and took out the water glass, and then said to me: "Okay, Dad."
If it was An Lan, he should have gone out long ago. I was already a little exhausted from all the hard work this morning.
On the way to the kindergarten, I asked Xiaoman: "Xiaoman, dad asked you, did you have a dispute with a child in the kindergarten yesterday?"
Xiao Man nodded and said "Yes", and then said hurriedly: "Dad, he was the one who stole my milk first. I went to him to return it, but he scolded me."
"Then why didn't you tell the teacher?"
Xiao Man curled his lips and said nothing.
I said again: "Xiao Man, dad doesn't mean to blame you. On the contrary, dad supports your decision. But Xiao Man, you have to know that it is wrong to hit someone. But if you encounter this kind of thing again, you can't let the other person do it."
, you should sue the teacher as soon as possible, and then tell your parents, do you understand?"
"Oh, I see."
I smiled and said: "Also, Xiaoman, when you go to junior high school or even high school, you may encounter some bullying on campus. Remember, don't tolerate it and find the right person.
I'll beat the person with the most momentum to death... Of course, if others don't bully you, you shouldn't bully others, you know?"
"Well, Dad, what is school bullying?"
"Forehead……"
After hesitating for a moment, I said: "Just like the boy who bullied you at school yesterday, but you are still young and it doesn't count as school bullying, so if you should sue the teacher, just sue the teacher."
"Well, I understand, Dad."
After sending Xiaoman to the kindergarten, I was also called to the office by the principal.
"Are you Chen Xiaoman's father?" After sitting down, the principal poured me a glass of water and asked me.
I nodded and said, "Yes, principal, I know everything about what happened to our Xiaoman at school yesterday, but I want to know some specific details."
"Well, it's like this. The little boy's name is Zhu Chenxi. He is usually quite naughty in the garden and likes to tease his classmates. Yesterday, when the school distributed milk at noon, Zhu Chenxi snatched away the milk given to Chen Xiaoman. Chen Xiaoman went to look for it.
He asked for it, but he didn't give it to the two children and started arguing. Finally, we checked the surveillance system and found that it was indeed Chen Xiaoman who made the first move."
The director was still very friendly, and his words were not clearly directed at anyone.
After hearing this, I thought for a moment and then said, "How is the child now?"
"My face was scratched. My parents went to the kindergarten yesterday to demand an explanation. I asked them to come today. You can meet me later!"
I nodded, and at that moment, a kindergarten teacher walked into the office and said, "Principal, Zhu Chenxi's parents are here."