"If you are not mentally prepared, it is best not to get married too early, because if your mentality does not have time to change, it will most likely be difficult to withstand the pressure you may face after starting a new family. Moreover, the life you envision after marriage is different from the real life.
The gap in life after marriage is quite big."
After hesitating again and again, Isobel still sincerely gave her unflattering opinions and suggestions. Although some words were indeed unconvincing from someone who had been married a long time ago, Isobel
But I know very well that not everyone has the courage to face various problems after marriage at a young age.
Although some girls were not convinced by Isobel's words, they could not deny what Isobel said because some girls could not even master the most basic cooking techniques.
but……
The girls around them all turned their heads and cast inquiring glances at Qiu Zhang, Angelina and other girls who were interested in getting married.
"Then when do you think it's more appropriate to get married?" Angelina asked directly.
"It's usually best to get married around the age of twenty-five. By that time, you have completely gotten rid of your original student mentality, you both have stable jobs, and you are able to cope with your married life more comfortably in all aspects."
Isobel saw the struggle and hesitation in Qiu Zhang's eyes, and sighed silently in her heart.
"Of course, this is just my suggestion. The specific situation is mainly up to you to decide. Take Albert and I as an example. We were quietly engaged when we were students, and we agreed to wait until Albert graduates.
Just get married."
"Is it too hasty to get married right after graduation?" Angelina muttered.
"It is indeed a bit hasty, but there is nothing we can do about it. For some reasons, we decided to get married right after graduation. In fact, as long as you are mentally prepared, it doesn't matter when you get married. Just look at Harry and Ginny.
Got it, they have been mentally prepared for a long time." Isobel looked at the lively big tent under the terrace and kindly reminded: "Besides, you have an advantage over most girls, don't you?"
Although she did not participate in the Second Wizarding War, Isobel was still very popular among girls.
Not only because Isobel is Albert's wife, but also because of her own unique charm, many girls hope that they can learn some useful experience from Isobel in order to become a happy woman like Isobel.
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So, when Albert returned to the big tent, he could tell at a glance that Isobel was in a good mood.
"You seem to be worried that I won't get along with other girls?" Isobel easily saw through Albert's concerns.
"I'm just a little worried that you won't be able to adapt." Albert grabbed Isobel's hand and said softly, "After all, you haven't gotten along well with other people for a long time."
"What about you, is it still a problem with werewolves?" Isobel seemed not to want to discuss it in detail here, so she changed the subject and asked.
"Hidden enemies are more terrifying." Albert knew Kingsley's uneasiness and concerns very well.
"Kingsley is a smart man, but he is a bit... If it were me, I would definitely adopt unconventional means." Isobel glanced at Kingsley's position and whispered in a whisper that only the two of them could hear.
"No one is a brainless fool when it comes to their own interests."
"It's not that Kingsley doesn't want to, it's that he can't. He doesn't have many choices. I would probably do the same thing." Albert actually understands Kingsley's choice of the simplest solution (to Ai
(Burt for help), even Albert would most likely do that. It can only be said that Kingsley made the best choice for himself after weighing the pros and cons again and again.
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Qiu Zhang, who was whispering to Cedric next to him, suddenly mentioned Harry's wedding room and seemed not to like the style of the model room.
"Are you already discussing the wedding room? By the way, when do you plan to get married? Next year, or do you plan to wait?"
"Next year!" Qiu Zhang said without thinking.
The girls at the table next to her laughed heartily.
"I originally planned to ask you to be the best man." Cedric scratched the back of his head in embarrassment.
"When Avalon is built, maybe many people will get married and ask me to be their best man." Albert suddenly raised his head and looked at the visitor: "You look like you are in a bad mood."
"Forget it." Fred sat down next to Angelina and complained with a depressed expression: "Muriel is really a disaster. When we get married next year, we must pretend to have missed sending an invitation to Muriel.
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"Who are you going to marry next year?" Angelina suddenly asked with a serious face.
"With you!" Fred smiled and reached out to grab Angelina's hand.
"Who wants to marry you!" Angelina couldn't help rolling her eyes and said, "After Avalon is finished, I plan to try to join the Quidditch team."
To be honest, Angelina doesn't want to get married so early. If possible, she would like to try to pursue her Quidditch dream.
"Have you found the team?" Fred raised his eyebrows slightly, "I remember you said last time..."
"I plan to try my luck at the Holyhead Harpies. I heard that their Seeker is planning to retire soon. Maybe I can be a substitute." Angelina interrupted directly.
"Okay, then we can consider getting engaged first." Fred winked at Angelina and said, "As for the marriage, we can wait. It's not in a hurry anyway..."
Before Fred could finish his words, George called him away.
"Fred can't wait." Aaliyah and Katie both giggled.
Penello, who had been silent at first, suddenly interjected: "If you like him, you'd better seize the opportunity."
Angelina raised her eyebrows slightly and looked at Penelo quietly, but said nothing.
"You have both graduated from Hogwarts, and it is difficult to maintain the kind of relationship you had during school." Penello reminded as a person who has been through it. "After leaving Hogwarts, many things and many ideas will change."
They change according to their own experiences.”
"If both parties fail to maintain this relationship properly, your relationship will fade away very quickly, and it won't even take a few months, and you won't even have to break up."
The girls looked at each other, they all knew the story of Penelope and Percy Weasley. Not long after graduating from school, the two changed from a close couple to the most familiar strangers.
"People are very fickle, especially when they are in a new environment, they are more likely to change. It may be you or it may be Fred, but the results for both parties will not be very good. So it is best not to
If you find any excuse to test your relationship, it won't stand up to the slightest bit of torture."
Penello had a hunch that if neither of them paid attention to the relationship, they would most likely follow in his footsteps.