Hearing this, Qiao Liang couldn't help laughing and toasted Feng Yunming with another glass of wine.
After the two of them finished their glasses of wine, Feng Yunming continued, "The last skill is to prevent self-centeredness. What does it mean to prevent self-centeredness? It means that I have to have others in my eyes. A social master must always be other-centered. Pay attention to the interests, needs and emotional changes of others, while a person with poor social skills is always self-centered in everything. Self-centered people always put their own needs and interests first when they speak , I have a sense of self-priority in doing things, focusing on what I need and how I can be more comfortable and at ease, without considering other people's feelings and interests.
Interpersonal relationships are essentially an exchange and an interaction. When you satisfy the interests of others, your own goals and interests are actually achieved. If the leader picks up food, you turn the table, if the leader toasts, you don’t drink. When playing cards, you are complacent; when the leader talks about his privacy, you talk nonsense; when the leader opens the door, you get in the car; when the leader drinks water, you brake; when in front of the leader, you act like a brother. These few jingles are a bit ridiculing, but they also portray It is a self-portrait of a person who has no ability to perceive words and colors.
At dinner parties, the tea cup in front of the leader is often empty, and the people sitting next to him are still indifferent and just focus on eating. How many days have you not eaten? There are still people who start talking when the leader starts talking. Playing with mobile phones with your head down. Although such a person who has no eyesight may not necessarily be judged for this, at least it will definitely leave a bad impression on the leader.
There is a couplet in "Dream of Red Mansions": Insight into worldly affairs is knowledge, and understanding of human feelings is writing. If you do these four points well and practice more, you can become a master of observing words and emotions."
"Brilliant, Minister Feng, I am deeply inspired by your words." Qiao Liang admired Feng Yunming from the bottom of his heart. This guy really has something in his mind.
"Come, Minister Feng, let me offer you another glass of wine." Qiao Liang raised his glass.
"Here, drink -" Feng Yunming also raised his glass.
Qiao Liang and Feng Yunming drank so much that they didn't finish the meal until about 9 o'clock in the evening.
After seeing off Feng Yunming, Qiao Liang saw that it was already quite late, so he returned to his rented apartment and planned to spend the night in the city.
On the way back to the apartment in the car, Qiao Liang thought about the county's personnel layout, and a smile appeared on his face unconsciously. Zhao Jiejie's arrangement was successfully approved by the city. It was an unexpected surprise. He originally thought that Luo Fei would I set up obstacles, but I didn't expect that they would go wrong.
Once Zhao Jiejie successfully takes over the position of executive deputy county magistrate, he will undoubtedly be able to help Qiao Liang share a lot of work. At the same time, Qiao Liang's will can also be smoothly implemented through Zhao Jiejie, without having to worry about being overt and underhanded like Zhang Honghua did before.
Next was the candidate for the director of the county office. Qiao Liang thought of Lin Mei recommended by Ye Xinyi. Lin Mei was only in her thirties or forties. Without much background, she could be the mayor at this age. His position and ability are obviously worthy of recognition. After reading the resume information about Lin Mei compiled by his secretary Fu Minghai, Qiao Liang also admired Lin Mei quite a lot, but he is not in a hurry to make a decision now.
Thinking about his thoughts all the way, Qiao Liang took the car to the door of the apartment in the community. Just as he was about to get off the car, he saw Song Liang and Shao Bingyu standing at the door of the community. Song Liang was waving goodbye and then crossed the road to leave.
Seeing Song Liang, Qiao Liang frowned unconsciously. Song Liang had been coming here too frequently recently.
After getting off the car, Qiao Liang called to Shao Bingyu who was about to walk inside, "Bingyu, did you just come back?"
Shao Bingyu turned around and saw Qiao Liang, and was slightly startled, "Why are you back?"
"What's weird about me coming back? Songbei is not very far from the city. Isn't it normal for me to come back and stay every now and then?" Qiao Liang said with a smile.
"I take it you have something to do when you come back to the city?" Shao Bingyu curled his lips and glanced at Qiao Liang, "Did you just see Minister Song?"
"I see." Qiao Liang nodded and smiled casually, "Minister Song often sends you home now?"
"What do you think?" Shao Bingyu looked at Qiao Liang faintly and said without any warning, "Qiao Liang, I would like to work in Songbei. How about you transfer me to Songbei too?"
"Ah?" Qiao Liang didn't expect Shao Bingyu to mention this and didn't know how to respond.
Seeing Qiao Liang's reaction, Shao Bingyu said indifferently, "Forget it, I'm just joking, you don't need to be embarrassed."
Qiao Liang couldn't tell that Shao Bingyu was unhappy, and said helplessly, "Bingyu, I'm not the head of the organization. I can transfer cadres at your level whenever I want."
"Excuse, then how can you transfer your favorite to Songbei?" Shao Bingyu stared at Qiao Liang.
"As for my favorite transfer, I just made a suggestion to the city, and there happened to be suitable vacancies in Songbei County," Qiao Liang explained.
"You don't need to explain to me, I don't really want to be transferred to Songbei." Shao Bingyu curled his lips, "You want me to go, but I'm not happy yet."
Qiao Liang laughed dryly. He felt that Shao Bingyu was a little insincere, but Qiao Liang would rather play dumb now. If Shao Bingyu really went to Songbei, and Ye Xinyi and Shao Bingyu were together, it would cause him a headache.
Seeing that Shao Bingyu suddenly mentioned this matter for no reason, Qiao Liang said thoughtfully, "Bingyu, are you unhappy with Minister Song?"
"No, didn't I tell you before? Minister Song is a very good person and cares about his subordinates." Shao Bingyu said calmly.
Hearing what Shao Bingyu said, Qiao Liang frowned. The problem probably lies in Song Liang's concern for his subordinates. Shao Bingyu never took the initiative to point it out, but Qiao Liang is not a fool.
Qiao Liang guessed in his heart, but did not say anything, but said, "Bingyu, go sit at your place." Tonight.
"Why are you going to my place? I have to get up early tomorrow morning to go on a business trip to the province, and I don't have time to bother with you at night." Shao Bingyu glanced at Qiao Liang.
"I didn't say I was going to bother you tonight. You just thought wrong." Qiao Liang said with a bad smile, "I just want to talk to you about life."
Shao Bingyu blushed when he heard this and spat softly, "You are thinking wrong when we talk about a ghost life. I won't talk to you anymore. I'd better go back and take my beauty sleep early to avoid being unable to get up tomorrow."
After Shao Bingyu finished speaking, he turned around and left. Qiao Liang saw this and followed him without saying a word. He knew that Shao Bingyu would not really reject him.
Qiao Liang followed Shao Bingyu upstairs and entered Shao Bingyu's dormitory. Shao Bingyu pointed to the sofa and said to Qiao Liang, "Sit down."
Qiao Liang sat down on the sofa and looked at Shao Bingyu intently.
"Why do you always look at me like this?" Shao Bingyu felt uncomfortable when Qiao Liang looked at her.
Qiao Liang smiled slightly, "Because you are handsome."
"Poor talk." Shao Bingyu pouted, then poured a glass of water for Qiao Liang, and then sat next to Qiao Liang, "Have you drank a lot tonight?"
"How do you know?" Qiao Liang said.
"Because I smell the smell of alcohol all over you." Shao Bingyu said.
Qiao Liang nodded, "Yes, I did drink a lot, but I'm not drunk."
"You mean you drink a lot?" Shao Bingyu said.
Qiao Liang chuckled, "It's not very big, but you can still drink some."
"There are many drinking establishments in the system, so it's better not to drink too much and pay attention to your body." Shao Bingyu said.
"Are you concerned about me?" Qiao Liang smiled.
"What do you think?" Shao Bingyu rolled his eyes.
"I said yes." Qiao Liang grinned.
"I know you still ask?" Shao Bingyu said.
"Haha..." Qiao Liang picked up the water glass and took a sip of water, then looked at Shao Bingyu, "Are you busy with work recently?"
"It's still the same. If you say you're busy, you're not very busy. If you're not busy, you have something to do every day. What about you?" Shao Bingyu said.
"I..." Qiao Liang smiled, "A lot of things have happened in Songbei recently, and I think you should know about it. Do you think I can relax?"
"Is it a lot of pressure?" Shao Bingyu asked.
"It's not that big." Qiao Liang said.
"Where does the pressure come from?" Shao Bingyu asked.
"The pressure comes from..." Qiao Liang thought for a moment, "It may come from himself, it may come from outside, it may come from the county, it may come from above."
Shao Bingyu nodded, "Now that you are in charge of the overall work of Songbei, this is undoubtedly a challenge for you, and the pressure will certainly not be small, but from another perspective, it is also a rare opportunity to train you."
Qiao Liang breathed out, "This opportunity may be accidental, or it may be destiny."
"There are no accidents in this world, everything that happens is destined." Shao Bingyu said.
"How do you say this?" Qiao Liang said.
Shao Bingyu breathed out softly, "Because everything that happens in this world is inseparable from cause and effect. Everything has a cause before and after. Without a cause, there will be no effect. This effect is destined. You may think that this
This result is caused by chance, but in fact, this cause is also destined and cannot be avoided or avoided. We live in this world, everything we get or do is caused by cause and effect, and no one can hide.
past……"
Qiao Liang thought about Shao Bingyu's words and couldn't help but fell into deep thought...
While Qiao Liang and Shao Bingyu were chatting, on the other side, in the restaurant where Luo Fei usually ate, Luo Fei just finished eating with Tang Xiaofei and came out of the restaurant.
Tang Xiaofei seemed to be in high spirits in the evening and offered to have two drinks with Luo Fei. Naturally, Luo Fei would not refuse and drank a lot with Tang Xiaofei.
When the two of them walked out of the hotel, Luo Fei smiled and said, "Feifei, your drinking capacity is quite good now. It's much better than before."
"I have been working in the system for so many years, so I have to keep up with my drinking ability, right? Besides, now that I am working in the county, I have more social activities than before," Tang Xiaofei said with a smile.
"If it's not an unnecessary entertainment, you don't have to go. Who dares to force you to participate?" Luo Fei said.
"That's not the case." Tang Xiaofei shook her head and said, "Sometimes participating in social activities is also to better carry out work."
"You are a girl, so don't drink too much when attending social events." Luo Fei said with concern.
