Xue Ling knew that she didn't need comfort, but she felt that her cousin needed advice.
"Sister Cong, to be honest, it is impossible for you to lose everything for your brother-in-law. You are just tired and feel tired of such a lonely life. As long as you change it, your situation will immediately feel good."
"On the other hand, if you have no feelings for him, then you will need at least a name! If you have the name of a husband and wife, your family will exist, your marriage will be guaranteed, and it will be good to you and your children. You don't want to
It doesn’t matter what your brother-in-law is, so let’s continue.”
"I am in my forties. If I don't have any passion for the second spring, and just want to live a simple life, then don't make any trouble. If you think about it carefully, you will be in a similar state as the same as the ones, then don't try to leave. Maybe.
After a few years, the situation may not necessarily improve."
"Sister Chong, don't just think about work. If you have time, ask friends to go out for shopping and dinner. Occasionally, you will make an appointment with relatives and friends. There are so many people, and your mood will not be improved. You have also said that you are old.
After all, love has faded, and only one partner is needed. Friends and relatives can be your companions. Maybe they are not as caring as brother-in-law, but they can also be your companions and share some things with you."
Xue Ling continued to analyze: "For example, now, you and I sit here, and you are sad about the scene and you will tell me everything. This is a kind of sharing and companionship of emotions. Sister Cong, be calm.
Divorce is also unnecessary for you, so just put it on the name, and you won’t suffer any loss anyway.”
Xue Cong no longer spoke, unable to say what his specific expression was, and seemed to be thinking about something.
"He...mostly he can't get a divorce."
Xue Ling knew that her husband was very powerful and that marriage was also very important to him, but it was hard to ask too much.
"Sister Chong, he is most likely to have no choice but to do so. If he is loyal to marriage and you, he will only care about you in his heart. He just has to ignore you because of his position. Just forgive him for a while. When he is older, he will retire.
Now, he returns to your side, you can still be your spouse.”
Xue Cong closed his eyes, basking in the warm sun, and never spoke.
The sun shines on her delicate makeup and clearly reflects the fatigue and helplessness in her eyes.
Xue Ling saw the traces of time on her face and also saw how glorious she was when she was young. She guessed that her brother-in-law must be a person, otherwise her cousin would still insist on being the other party even if she knew that his profession was special.
"Cousin, if you can wait for him for more than 20 years, why not wait for him for a few more years. My brother-in-law is in his fifties and is not far from retirement. My brother-in-law should have the heart of your sacrifice for your family and the grievances you suffered for your heart.
It's clear."
Xue Cong nodded: "He knows it. But he can only sigh and say 'sorry' to me, and 'thank you'. In his heart, there is always only loyalty, no betrayal, and he regards faith and reputation as more than him.
People who are important in life will naturally be loyal to marriage. I absolutely believe in this. He loves me, but he doesn't say it, is not good at expressing it, but he can't do it. I will accompany you for a few days
People who don’t have the right to say what he can do for me.”
Xue Ling patted the back of her hand and whispered: "Sister, since that's the case, then you can endure it for a few more years. If you are lonely and tired, go to my house to accompany us! My four children are usually hot
It's noisy. Don't go back at noon, go to Ronghua Mall with us for dinner. We asked my third uncle to have dinner downstairs. After the meal, my third uncle and Uncle Zhilan wanted to go upstairs to play chess. Afang and I were going to play cards together.
Take turns to see the child. Come and make up one."
"...Okay." Xue Cong smiled and explained: "My colleagues and friends are all busy. Now it's the New Year, and everyone is busy paying New Year's greetings and dealing with guests, so I don't have time to bother. Since you guys are all
If there are so many, I'm not polite to get one."
Xue Ling smiled and pulled her up.
"Let's take a walk along the old house! It's not good to sit still, people's spirits will become worse and even prone to depression. After the renovation of the old house, I haven't seen each place carefully!"
Xue Cong followed her, paced slowly, and chatted quietly.
At about noon, the third uncle led a group of juniors to bow to the ancestors.
"I wish you all your wishes come true and everything goes well. Those who want to have a meal together have made an appointment. I want to go to Ronghua Mall with Zhilan and the others, and everyone will go together when they have time."
Everyone laughed and left with their families.
Cheng Tianyuan led Xue Ling out.
Xue Ling turned his head and saw Xue Cong and his third uncle walking together. He was chatting happily. He secretly breathed a sigh of relief and explained to Cheng Tianyuan that Xue Cong would also go to have dinner together.
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly surprised and nodded quickly.
In his impression, Cousin Xue Cong was a very serious, reserved, deserted and peerless senior executive. He didn't expect that she would want to get along with everyone.
But he is a hospitable person and the other party is willing to come and visit, that would be great.
Everyone got on the bus one after another, and the third uncle and Xue Cong were together, and the others were all taking their own cars.
The vehicles left the old house in a row and drove towards the city center.
The city center is never short of lively and prosperous, and it is still full of traffic, even more lively than usual.
The square outside the mall was crowded with people, and even the restaurant in Ronghua Hotel was crowded.
Fortunately, Xue Ling ordered two tables of dishes in advance, and the manager left her a large private room, and she started serving the dishes as soon as she arrived.
The private room environment is good, and it also separates the bustle outside.
Everyone was chatting and ate, and it took almost an hour to eat.
Xue Cong ate happily and whispered to his third uncle: "It's been a long time since I've been together for so many people to eat, and I feel my appetite has improved a lot."
"It's all like this." Uncle San smiled and explained: "I usually eat alone at home, and at most I can eat half a bowl of rice. I eat with Ah Huan and the young people in the hospital, and I can eat one more bowl. They eat
I was infected without realizing it, so I ate more.”
Xue Cong asked him about some progress in the research department and said with concern: "You are retired, and these are just helping. Don't work too hard, don't be tired."
"It's okay, I have a clear mind." Uncle San narrowed his eyes and said, "How come you are thinner than a while ago. You can't be too fat or too thin at your age. Exercise more often so that your face will be better
.”
"Okay." Xue Cong smiled slightly: "I will pay attention."
The third uncle nodded with relief.
This niece has always been very strong and capable, and has strong self-discipline, so no one else has to worry about it.
Xue Zhilan came over and said with a smile: "Third brother, go up and play chess. At this time, there was sunshine on one side of the corridor. Let's play chess while basking in the sun, why not?"
"You must!" Uncle San suddenly laughed and said, "I have to win you a few games in the afternoon! I followed you last time and lost two sets!"
"Await for the big trip at any time!" Xue Zhilan pulled the third uncle and was about to leave.
The third uncle waved to Xue Cong and asked, "Do you want to go up together? Could you come here and go up and recognize the way?"
"Sister Cong, go up and play cards!" Xue Ling said with a smile: "We just discussed it. A game of five dollars will be the one who wins the most and will have to treat tonight!"
"I'm still here to eat!" Xue Heng laughed: "Today's vegetable soup is very delicious! If I win, I'll invite everyone to eat two bowls of vegetable soup!"
"Okay, okay! You'll win!" Xue Ling smiled and shouted: "I want to add a few more bowls of bird's nest soup!"
"Hey! That won't work! Then I'd better stop winning."