Chapter 1043 How should parents consider their childrens future?
The misunderstanding was resolved, and He Yuyu and the others were relieved. However, this also aroused their curiosity. Is Yan Jiedi really talented in music?
So in the next few days, He Yuyu and the others paid attention to Yan Jiedi. Every time after studying in the afternoon, when Duan Hongxuan turned on the small stove for Yan Jiedi, the three of them would watch carefully.
Soon, He Yuyu and the others really discovered that Yan Jiedi's progress in music learning was very fast, especially her understanding of music. He Yuyu and the others were envious when they looked at it. Duan Hongxuan played the scales on the piano for Yan Jiedi one by one.
He explained and asked her to carefully identify the nuances of each sound. Many times in He Yueyue and they all heard the same sounds, but Yan Jiedi could hear the difference. Now He Yueyue and the others were completely convinced.
Through Yan Jiedi's incident, He Yuyu and the others remembered Duan Hongxuan's view that choice and talent are greater than hard work.
What Duan Hongxuan said to them and the verification they saw from Yan Jiedi made He Yuyu and the others a little confused, because it actually conflicted with the education they had received since childhood, and this conflict had a big impact on them.
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The time soon arrived on Sunday, and at almost noon, Minister Lu and Director Luo came to Duan Hongxuan's courtyard to spend the weekend with their children in their arms.
Everyone hurriedly welcomed the family into the living room. They would definitely not spend the night here if they came here at this time. They would go back after dinner at most. Therefore, Minister Lu and the others did not bring much with them, nor did they go to their room, because that room
Normally, the heating valve is turned off when no one is living in it. It must be freezing in the room now, but adults don't care. The two twins cannot be frozen. They are the treasures of their old Lu family.
Everyone sat in the living room and played with the two little guys for a while. Minister Lu also mentioned to Duan Hongxuan that his two sons seemed to be able to eat a little bit, and he was also worried about whether there was something wrong with the two little guys.
Later, Duan Hongxuan smiled and explained to them the reason why these two little guys could eat. This made Minister Lu and Director Luo very happy. Who doesn't want their children to have no future, let alone Minister Lu and his wife.
They have a son from old age, and the two children are quite rare. In addition, the couple themselves are high-ranking officials. If the children can make a big difference on their own in the future, the couple will be more proud.
For this reason, Minister Lu asked Duan Hongxuan in detail until he was really sure that his two twin sons were smarter than ordinary children. According to Dun Hongxuan, these two children can also be regarded as two little geniuses.
IQ is definitely higher than ordinary people.
Minister Lu decided on the spot that in the future his two sons must study hard and engage in technical research like Duan Hongxuan, and they must also be industrial technology. Who asked him to be the minister of the Ministry of Machinery Industry? He knew deeply whether the country could
To become prosperous and strong, industrial technology plays a very key role in starting up.
Director Luo also argued with Minister Lu about this. She felt that children should wait until they grow up to make their own choices about what they want to do in the future. As long as the children don’t go astray, they as parents should not help their children decide what they want to do.
It was like an arranged marriage. Director Luo firmly disagreed, and the two of them started arguing over this in the living room in front of everyone.
Duan Hongxuan saw this and quickly advised him: "Uncle Lu, Aunt Luo, you two, please stop arguing. Look at these two little guys. They haven't been weaned yet. You will ruin their future. What do you think?"
It’s too far!
Let me tell you, neither Uncle Lu nor Aunt Luo, your ideas are completely right!"
"Oh?" When the two people who were arguing heard Duan Hongxuan's words, they immediately stopped and looked at Duan Hongxuan. Minister Lu smiled and said: "It seems that you have high opinions, so let us listen to what you have to say. Since we are both wrong,
Then what is your so-called correct view?"
"Haha! Let me talk to Uncle Lu first. Aunt Luo is right. The child has not been weaned yet and you decide what the child will do in the future. You are a bit overbearing and inappropriate!
The most efficient way of learning and the easiest way to get results is actually hobbies. If a person doesn't like an industry, and you force him to engage in an industry he doesn't like, Uncle Lu, do you think he can learn well?
Even if he really learns it under your pressure, how much achievement do you think he can achieve?
So, it’s really inappropriate for you to help them decide. If these two children really don’t like industrial machinery, you have to force them to work in this industry. If these two children are sensible and considerate, they will still listen to your insistence.
If you go ahead and learn it, you may not be able to learn it and become famous, so I'm afraid you won't know. Wouldn't this delay the future of the two children!
To be more serious, wouldn’t you, the father, ruin your child’s life because of this?”
Minister Lu frowned and stopped talking completely. Now Director Luo was happy and said proudly: "When I heard that there was no Lao Lu, I said that your decision was unreliable. You are just acting like a parent. If you ruin your child because of this,
Are you happy with your life?
snort!"
Duan Hongxuan saw Minister Lu frowning and continued to administer strong medicine without saying a word: "Uncle Lu, what I just said is that the children are sensible and don't want to go against you. But if the two children have good ideas on their own and encounter their rebellious youth,
When the time comes, your two children will have to fight against you, which will affect your father-son relationship.
Don’t get to that time when you and your son become enemies. By that time you are getting older and it’s time to retire. You and your children don’t like each other. If your children don’t come home all day long, the family will be left alone.
You and Aunt Luo, Uncle Lu, do you want to tell me something interesting?"
"Have you heard, Lao Lu, listen carefully to what Hongxuan said. You, the minister, are the minister when you are working in the unit, and you are the father of your children at home. Stop showing off your official authority as a minister and think that everyone in the family
Everyone should listen to you!
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Hongxuan, in this case, you still agree with me!"
Duan Hongxuan shook his head: "Aunt Luo, I only partly agree with your point of view. I only agree with what you said that parents cannot force children to make choices for their children. However, I think it is not entirely right to let the children make their own choices as you said.
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Now it was Director Luo's turn to be unhappy, "Hongxuan, as you say, it is wrong for us parents to make choices for our children, and it is also wrong not to make choices for our children. No matter what we do over and over again, nothing is right. I think you are completely wrong."
To deny the two of us just for the sake of denying them, you are a bit clumsy!"
"Haha, Aunt Luo, are you being unreasonable? Please listen to what I have to say before you draw any conclusions!"
Director Luo nodded dissatisfied: "Okay, I'll just listen to what flowers you can tell me!"
"Aunt Luo, it's not entirely right for you to leave things alone.
Children, because of their life experiences, often cannot make truly correct choices. At this time, they need help from their parents. However, this kind of help is not forced, it should come from leaders, and parents should guide them in good faith.
For example, I am teaching Yuyu and the girls to learn music recently. I do not force them to learn which instrument. I just tell them the characteristics of various instruments, and then let them hear the different instruments played.
of music and let them choose which instrument they would rather learn!
So I think you can neither force your children nor let them go completely as to what industry they will engage in in the future. Instead, they should be given a well-intentioned guide to let them see what each industry will be like in the future, and then let them base their decisions on their own.
Choose your own preferences!
Aunt Luo, now do you still think I am messing around?"
Director Luo glared at Duan Hongxuan: "Huh! What you said makes sense!
Lao Lu, what do you think? I think Hongxuan is right, what do you think?"