Chapter 1062 Duan Hongxuan teaches two young wives
He Yuyu and Qin Jingru were surprised when Duan Hongxuan said that Yu Haitang had a knot in his heart. They never thought that Yu Haitang, who usually looked carefree, had such a side. The two looked at each other in surprise.
Looking at Duan Hongxuan suspiciously, He Yuyu asked Duan Hongxuan: "Brother Hongxuan, how could Haitang be like this? She is usually the most active in everything, whether at home or at school. I can't see Haitang being like this."
A knot of heart!
So how is Haitang doing now? The same goes for her. I think she just thinks too much. I haven’t heard anyone say anything about her since she has lived here for so long!
Jingru, have you ever heard anyone say anything about Haitang?"
Qin Jingru shook her head: "No, Auntie and the others sometimes talk about Haitang and say that she has a fiery temper and that she is more cheerful than the two of us. I have never heard anyone say anything bad about Haitang, and no one thinks that she lives.
There is something wrong with us here."
"Look, Brother Hongxuan, Jingru and I have never heard of anyone saying anything about Haitang behind her back. Have you heard anything?"
"Of course I haven't heard anything! Besides, Haitang lives here now. Even if others want to say something, they can't say it in front of me!"
"That means the three of us have never heard of anyone saying anything bad about Haitang behind her back. Brother Hongxuan, are you mistaken? I don't think Haitang is this kind of person!"
Duan Hongxuan smiled: "Haha, just the opposite!
People like Haitang, who appear to be carefree and don't care about anything, and who want to be an activist in everything, it just means that you are using that kind of behavior under the surface to cover up something in your heart!
They thought about the situation of our family in Haitang? Why did Yu Li get into low middle school? How did Haitang get into low middle school?
It’s just that you are too soft-tempered. After you graduated from junior high school, your parents asked you to go to junior high school. You just obeyed and did housework at home, waiting to find a suitable job or introduce a suitable partner outside the home. But
Haitang's temperament is not at all stubborn, but she is willing to submit to the arrangements outside the family, so she should be in trouble with her family.
Only when he realizes that someone is weaker than him in some way, and he is still willing to deny it, will he try desperately to prove that he is worse than me, is that what they say?"
Therefore, although the preference for girls over boys in our family is as slight as that of Jia Zhang's family, it is still a little bit of harm to Li and Yu Haitang.
He Yuyu nodded thoughtfully, and Duan Hongxuan looked at Qin Jingru for a long time, then pursed his lips, knowing what you were thinking.
He Yuyu asked curiously: "Hong Huahua, according to what he said, does it mean that these people who are active are trying to prove something or cover up something?"
Because especially if you want to compare with someone in some aspect, he will definitely find someone to compare with who he knows is worse than him, because that kind of comparison is meaningless, and abnormal people simply don’t bother to do it.
Compare.
When others act weaker than us, we must be groveling; conversely, when we are weaker than others, we must also be arrogant, in order to let others easily affect ourselves, and according to our own
Just live your life with a good rhythm and plan!”
Qin Jingru brought the dishes to the dining room one by one, and the cheerful voices of the two big girls Xuan Ge and Da Dang came over. The two big girls held hands and opened the door curtain. As soon as they left the dining room, they smelled the aroma of the food.
The eldest girl immediately cheered and ran to sit on the chair specially prepared for you. Then the two eldest girls in front raised their white and tender hands for Qin Jingru to see.
If you hide it, avoid it, and endure it weakly, the original serious illness will quickly accumulate into minor illnesses, and finally it will break out. By this time, it may be too late to find a doctor."
He Yuyu frowned and tried hard to think about Qin Jingru's words. Duan Hongxuan simply looked at Jiang Bintai with a confused expression, obviously understanding the meaning of my words.
It's too bad that Haitang finally broke out today. It would be bad to break out earlier. The sooner the problem breaks out, the sooner we can solve it. If it keeps breaking out, it will always be kept in the heart, and the knot in the heart will become smaller and smaller until one day.
When you find that you can change reality, you find that all your efforts are in vain, and then your whole person collapses, so you give up on yourself. This time is actually safer!
Brother Xuan chuckled and said, "Aunt Yuyu, you are hungry!"
He Yuyu shook his head: "I really didn't expect that Haitang didn't have that kind of knot in her heart. If it was what happened that time, you still know when you will find out!
When Qin Jingru saw this, she could only explain: "If you give them an example, they should be able to understand it!
The situation in our family that favors girls over boys is too abnormal in the family. As long as Xiao Fangfang denies that in a small number of situations, women do have less advantage than men and has the courage to face it, there is nothing wrong with feeling inferior.
, as long as you can figure it out, you have to care too much and live every day according to your own ideas. It is necessary to compare with others and prove to others that you are weaker than girls!
Duan Hongshu smiled and shook his head: "Yes, you will be here soon. He can just call Brother Xuan and Dadang!"
Dadang nodded repeatedly, "Well, well, Aunt Yuyu, you and Brother Xuan are very hungry!"
Just like when a person is sick, once the body is no longer feeling well, you have to hide it or endure it, and quickly go to your doctor to check what the problem is. If you find the problem, solve it as soon as possible while the problem is small.
For example, when someone desperately wants to prove to the people around him that I am not worse than another person, it actually means that that person has not realized that I am actually a little worse than another person inside and outside!
"Huh? Those two girls are really good at how to complain!" He Yuyu felt very surprised and said to Jiang Bintai: "Hong Huahua, when did those two stupid girls learn to be so stupid!"
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! Dadang nodded quickly: "No, they little people eat less and bad things than you every time, you are the big pigs!"
Jiang Bintai shook his head: "It can be generalized, but it depends on the specific situation. It needs to be analyzed based on the person's background, my environment, etc.!"
He Yuyu and Duan Hongxuan nodded at the same time and took note of Qin Jingru's words seriously.
But no matter how hard-tempered you are, the way your parents favor girls over boys still makes Haitang feel low self-esteem and dangerous, so I use a little carelessness under the surface to cover up your low self-esteem, in everything.
Be an activist in everything to show that you are not inferior to girls.
Auntie, Aunt Yuyu is going to spank you and Sister Jiang Bin!"
So in the past, if they had no ideas, they would just talk about it in a small way, and we would help them find a solution together. They must keep it in their hearts alone. Otherwise, they would be like Haitang, deliberately acting out in order to cover up something. In reality,
You're tired of living like that, so why bother!
He Yuyu and Duan Hongxuan finally understood. After thinking about it, they both nodded involuntarily. It really made sense.
"Hong Hua Hua, where is Begonia, should I call you Yong?"
At that time, Jiang Bintai left the dining room with the first plate of fried cabbage. Dadang took a look and said quickly: "My aunt will protect you even before you do it!"
"Hmph! You are the ones who are afraid of him. Uncle Hongxuan will protect you!"
"It's Honghuahua. It's just a stir-fried cabbage. You can come and he can bring the dishes under the table to the dining room!"
Aunt Yuyu, Aunt Haitang, Aunt Jingru, they eat from such small bowls, every time they finish eating they have to add another bowl, huh, they call you big pigs!"
Hong Jiangbin, like Haitang, is there no bad way he can help you?"
Qin Jingru clapped her hands: "It's broken, that's what I'm talking about. You serve the dishes, and Yu Yu goes to ask Brother Xuan and Dadang to wash their hands and get ready to eat!"
Qin Jingru continued with a smile: "When we went to Hong Kong Island before, they might come into contact with very few people and things that they would never come into contact with in the future. Very few people on Hong Kong Island looked down upon us people from the mainland. In the past,
If they encounter that kind of situation, they must avoid it. Xiaoxiao Fangfang denies that we are not from Xiaolu, and then through various performances and time, quickly prove that there is nothing wrong with us, but we are worse than us!
He Yuyu rolled his eyes at Qin Jingru, and Duan Hongxuan stood up and said, "You don't have a dish yet!"
But just like today, there will never be a day when the emotion breaks out at a certain point, which will eventually cause some inconvenience to myself and others!
"No matter how bad other people's methods are, they can only help you to be narrow-minded and rational. In the end, you still need to think about it yourself, deny the gap and face reality, and then quickly build up your confidence!
He Yuyu laughed and scolded: "They are really two big pigs. They eat little and still get hungry slowly!"
"You are the big pigs. You and Dadang, you two, and Aunt Yuyu, can't eat enough by yourself! You and Dadang, the bowls you two eat are only so big, you will be full after eating one bowl!"
He Yuyu laughed angrily: "Those two little girls are so sloppy in observing their meals. If you say something to them and they learn to talk back, you really want to spank them!"
"Is it for you?"
Qin Jingru said with a smile: "It's broken, it's broken, stop making trouble and hurry up and eat! Huh? Why is Haitang still here? Go and see what's going on. Is she asleep?"
But those kinds of deliberate performances just show that you understand subconsciously in your heart that in that society, boys must be valued more than girls in all aspects!"
At that time, He Yuyu opened the door curtain and left the dining room. As soon as he came back, he scolded the two girls: "You told them to run faster and they are still running so slow. What if they fall?"