Chapter 1211 Ran Qiuye’s parents and the conditions for marriage proposal of the old Han family
Ran Qiuye's father's name is Ran Shicheng. His ancestors were from a scholarly family who studied knowledge. Ran's father was influenced by his childhood and devoted himself to learning since he was a child. Later, while studying abroad, he met Ran's mother who was also studying. After getting along for a while, the two of them became friends.
From acquaintance to falling in love, and finally getting married.
After graduation, the two stayed to work abroad. Later, when they heard the country's call, the couple decided to resign from their relatively well-off jobs abroad without hesitation after some discussion, and resolutely returned to China to participate in national construction.
Because Ran's father and Ran's mother themselves are free lovers, the couple is very open-minded about the marriage of their precious daughter. It all depends on Ran Qiuye's own choice. The couple doesn't care about their family background. At most, they just help the daughter to check. This check
More importantly, it is also based on character, so as to prevent the girl from encountering unkind people when she is young.
To be honest, the old couple are not very satisfied with Han Dazhuang from the bottom of their hearts. Other things don't matter. Moreover, the old couple have a good impression of Han Dazhuang. They admire him for sacrificing himself for the sake of the family. At the same time, they are also impressed by Han Dazhuang's studiousness.
I am very satisfied with my progress.
The only thing I'm not satisfied with is Han Dazhuang's academic qualifications.
My daughter graduated from college, but Han Dazhuang only had a junior high school education, which made the old couple a little regretful.
However, apart from academic qualifications and family, in the eyes of the old couple, Han Dazhuang, the son-in-law, is quite good in all other aspects.
Moreover, this son-in-law was chosen by his own daughter, and there was nothing to say about his character. Although the old couple was a little regretful, they finally obeyed their daughter's wishes, and the daughter was not young anymore, so she had no choice but to pick and choose over the years.
What caught her eye was that now that the daughter had finally found someone who was just okay, the old couple acquiesced.
Among them, the one that most impressed the old couple was the time when Duan Hongxuan reminded Han Dazhuang in front of Uncle Han and Aunt Han at the old Han family: Brother Dazhuang, she is the only daughter in Teacher Ran's family. After he marries his daughter to you,
The only two people left at home are an old couple.
You said that in the future, when the old couple retires and gets older, if you are willing to take on the issue of providing for the old couple, will you be able to impress both Teacher Ran and Teacher Ran’s parents?
Think about it, your family also has two boys, Huzi and Liangliang, but the teacher’s family only has the teacher as their only daughter.
Of course, if you can be more open-minded, when you get married and have children in the future, if you can have more than one boy, if you are willing to let one of the boys take the surname of Teacher Ran, I think this marriage will be even more problematic.
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You may think that it is a bit confusing for your child to take your wife's surname, but in my opinion, whether he takes your surname or his wife's surname, he is your biological son. Since ancient times in our country, sons have to take their father's surname. This is considered to be a gift to the father.
The family lineage continues from generation to generation.
But in my opinion, this can be regarded as a backward feudal thought. Children are the continuation of the father’s bloodline, but how can they not be the continuation of the mother’s bloodline?
In some foreign countries, sons and daughters can inherit the family business, or inherit the title of the noble family, because in the eyes of foreigners, a son has half the blood of his father and half of his mother, and the same goes for daughters.
Therefore, for some foreign nobles, if their daughters are more capable, the inheritance of the family business and the continuation of the bloodline will eventually be handed over to the daughter, not necessarily to a son.
Even some royal families do not necessarily have sons to inherit the throne. Daughters can do the same. Therefore, some foreign countries have queens, and the children born to the queen in the future will also be heirs to the royal family.
In my opinion, your family is not short of boys. Teacher Ran has such good conditions. How can he not despise your family’s conditions? Even a college student would not despise Brother Da Zhuang’s academic qualifications. Such a good wife can’t live in this village.
This store no longer exists.
So I say, you might as well be more generous. When you and Aunt Hu come to propose marriage in a few days, just tell them clearly that Brother Da Zhuang, your son-in-law will be responsible for their old age in the future, and you are willing to let one of you
My son’s surname is Teacher Ran. Not only will Teacher Ran be happy, but Teacher Ran’s parents will also be happy. I think the marriage proposal will be a sure thing!
Duan Hongxuan's insights had a great impact on the old Han family. In this era, sons are the ones who continue the family bloodline, and daughters will be married off in the future and belong to other families.
Therefore, the importance of a son can be seen. However, if Duan Hongxuan's suggestion is followed, Han Dazhuang will have a son with the surname Ran in the future. In everyone's opinion, this son will continue the blood of the Ran family, which is difficult to accept in this era.
But Ran Qiuye, this daughter-in-law, is indeed too good compared to the old Han family. Not to mention Han Dazhuang likes her, even Uncle Han and Aunt Han are extremely satisfied with this daughter-in-law. What they are most worried about now is that Ran Qiuye will come to propose marriage in a few days.
Parents' attitude.
After all, their family's economic situation and Han Dazhuang's own conditions were far behind Ran Qiuye's.
Duan Hongxuan's idea can indeed greatly increase the possibility of a successful marriage proposal, but this idea is indeed a bit too advanced in this era, even a bit unbelievable, which makes Uncle Han and Aunt Han very hesitant.
Han Dazhuang didn't think it mattered. If he really had two or three sons in the future, it wouldn't be a big deal if one of them had the same surname as Ran Qiuye. Regardless of whether his surname was Han or Ran, he would still be his biological son. Han Dazhuang could understand this.
As long as this method allows him to finally marry Ran Qiuye.
In the end, Uncle Han was happy. Uncle Han thought clearly. He had three sons in his own family. If the Ran family could not dislike them, the old Han family would be willing to marry their daughter to their family, let alone let one of his grandsons take the surname Ran.
At worst, you can even ask your boss to barge in the door.
The eldest son not only gave up his future and dropped out of school for the sake of this family, but also worked hard for so many years. Their family owes the eldest son so much. As long as the eldest son can marry this good wife, it will be fine. Quan should be considered as compensation for the eldest son of the family.
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In the end, the result agreed upon by the whole family was based on what Duan Hongxuan said.
When Aunt Hu accompanied Aunt Han and Han Dazhuang to Ran Qiuye's house to propose marriage, Aunt Han said the condition in person. Not only Ran Qiuye's family of three were overjoyed, but Aunt Hu, who had not received any news in advance, was stunned.
But then Aunt Hu thought about it and came to her senses. The old Han family has no shortage of sons, but the Ran family only has such a daughter. In the future, having a grandson who can inherit the Ran family's incense will be absolutely devastating to the Ran family.
big enough.
Let’s look at the conditions of the Ran family. They live in a building allocated by the state, and the whole family is an educated person. The woman is not only a college student but also a school teacher. The old Han family can’t compare with others.
Aunt Hu, who wanted to understand this, turned around and looked at the old Han family and couldn't help but admire her. They are called smart people. You will have a grandson to inherit the incense of the Ran family in exchange for such an outstanding daughter-in-law as Ran Qiuye. No matter how you look at it,
It’s not a loss, and it’s a big advantage!
Ran Qiuye's parents and Ran Qiuye were first surprised by Aunt Han's promise, and then they were overjoyed. No matter how open-minded Ran's father and mother were to study abroad, they were still deeply influenced by Chinese traditional culture in their bones, and they were still relatively concerned about the inheritance of blood and incense.
Valued.
The old couple had been regretting that they had not been able to have a son for so many years. Now that they are better, the blood of the Ran family can continue to be passed down in the future. No one else would be able to give them this condition if it were not Han Dazhuang.
So it was logical that Ran Qiuye's parents agreed to the marriage very quickly, and they generously gave a lot of dowry! The only thing they wanted to do was to urge the young couple to have more children as soon as possible after getting married.
It is precisely because of this that the old couple at the wedding banquet refused to accept anyone who came when they were happy, so they drank too much until they were dizzy.
Ran's father and mother were engaged in mathematics and the other in chemistry. After returning to China, they both taught at the university.
Although Ran's father studied chemistry, he was influenced by his father since he was a child. He was also very interested in Chinese studies and had deep attainments in Chinese studies. However, he later felt that Chinese studies could not save the country and could not build this country that was riddled with holes and ruins.
The nation and country that was waiting to be reborn also changed their studies to chemistry.
Despite this, Ran's father's foundation in traditional Chinese studies has not declined, and he is also quite skilled in calligraphy and painting.
Ran's mother is not bad either. She comes from a wealthy family, and her family is quite open-minded. Therefore, Ran's mother is also a well-known and talented girl. She has also been good at playing chess, calligraphy and painting since she was a child. However, she later felt that the country was backward, so she went abroad.
I turned to study mathematics.
Naturally good tea like Ran's and Ran's. When Qin Jingru made the tea and came over with the teapot, He Yuyu, the three of them and Han Dazhuang hurriedly drank the tea in their teacups. He Yuyu did not forget to urge Ran Qiuye to hurry up.
Drink the tea in the teacup and empty the teacup.
The three members of the Ran family were immediately curious when they saw this gesture. They knew that the tea brought by Qin Jingru might have a different meaning, so the three of them watched Qin Jingru pouring the tea with great interest.
The tea soup in the tea cup is green in color. Just looking at the tea soup makes Ran's father nod his head. This is definitely good tea.
When Ran's father picked up the tea cup, he put it under his nose and sniffed it. Suddenly, he felt a light and refreshing fragrance rushing straight to his forehead, and his mind suddenly became clear. Ran's father was surprised and took a sip.
The tea soup is slightly bitter in the mouth and then sweet. It is a good tea.
As the slightly hot tea soup entered the stomach, this mouthful of tea soup exploded in the stomach like a bomb. A warm and refreshing breath exploded in the stomach, and then swept through the whole body, with 36,000 pores all over the body.
For a moment, it was like a switch was turned on at the same time. Various negative feelings in the body spurted out from the pores of the body along with sweat. At the same time, there was a breath rushing straight to the forehead, as if the stained glass was scrubbed clean.
, the mind becomes clear, and the whole body feels as if a heavy burden has suddenly been lifted from the inside out, from top to bottom, and the whole body feels refreshed.
It was the first time for the three members of the Ran family to drink this kind of tea. They couldn't help but close their eyes and carefully appreciate the refreshing feeling. After a long time, Ran's father opened his eyes and looked at Duan Hongxuan in shock: "Classmate Duan Hongxuan, this tea of yours is simply the best I have ever drunk in my life."
The best tea, this is simply the best, worth a thousand dollars!”
Ran's mother and Ran Qiuye also looked at Duan Hongxuan in surprise, especially Ran Qiuye. They didn't expect Duan Hongxuan to have such good tea.
Judging from what Han Dazhuang and the others meant, I'm afraid they have all drunk this tea before and know how delicious this tea is and its efficacy, otherwise they wouldn't have behaved like this just now.
