Chapter 1229: How to develop a child’s character and how to get close to adults easily
"Junior brother, how did you do it?"
"Huh? What can be accomplished?" Duan Hongxuan looked at Mr. Wei who asked Leng Buding in confusion.
"I blame me for not making it clear! I mean these children, what method did you use to keep them from crying or making noises?"
When Mr. Wei asked this, his children also became interested, especially Liu Ying. As an obstetrician and gynecologist, she was the most interested in this. She quickly pricked up her ears and looked at Duan Hongxuan.
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "Senior brother said this!
Senior brother, what do we Chinese doctors call pediatrics?"
"What do you call pediatrics? Muteology?"
"Yes!" Duan Hongxuan smiled: "It's just a mute! Children who can't speak yet will not speak. Even children who can already speak cannot express many of their own situations clearly because of their young age, so they are given
Children's medical treatment depends entirely on the doctor's experience, and children's self-expression does not play a big role, so we call pediatrics the Department of Muteness!"
Mr. Wei and the children nodded, and Duan Hongxuan continued: "In my opinion, a normal person, whether an adult or a child, as long as there is nothing unhappy in his heart and nothing uncomfortable in his body, he will not feel uncomfortable under normal circumstances.
You should and should not lose your temper or cry."
Everyone thought about it and continued to nod.
I don’t hug you enough, Yuejuan’s character is indeed introverted, but she is too introverted!”
From that point of view, that kid is indeed quite popular!"
So for children, the only biggest worry is feeling uncomfortable physically, but we can't express it through language, so we can only tell them that we feel comfortable by crying.
Aunt Luo, have they noticed that every time you go to their house, you will hug their two big guys and play with us for a while, and you will also touch our big arms and thighs with your hands.
His big face, caressing our front and back!
At that time, my strange breath hugged me and coaxed me. The older child felt that I was in a strange embrace, and he felt dangerous in his heart!
Everyone listened to Zhao Guowei's words and thought nothing of it. After all, as a villain, everyone hopes that their children will be healthy in the future, and they are also dull, cheerful and popular people.
Professor Lu chuckled and said: "I do care about the children, but my concern is not to teach the children every word and deed seriously. The children are closer to you than to me.
not enough!"
When a child grows into an adult, it is only about physical weakness. Sometimes psychological weakness is more important than physical weakness!"
"Thank you, uncle!"
You remember when you were growing up, because Yuejuan was a boy, they would hold Yuejuan and coax you whenever nothing happened, and then scold your older brother.
"In the late Qing Dynasty when Daosheng was born, they should not be like his father in treating their children, having less contact and less intimacy with them.
Zhao Guowei remembered Zhao Yue's question just now and said to Zhao Yue: "Brother, you just said so little. In fact, you only said a thousand words and ten thousand, just because you know some ordinary massage techniques to make children healthy."
Be healthy and feel happy!
At that time, Hongxuan looked at Cao Qianjuan: "What do you think of Yuejuan now? Why did Yuejuan have such a carefree and lawful temper? Mom, Yuejuan was not raised by him since she was a child, and she doesn't have a father yet."
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However, for older children who have been weaned, children as young as Yuqi and us, less physical contact such as hugging us or touching our heads is not harmful to children like Yuqi.
Therefore, hugging older children less often is actually not conducive to the child's physical weakness and psychological problems.
When the children can run in the future, talk about how to play with water or even mud appropriately. Don’t be too restrictive, as it will not be conducive to the growth of our character!
Cack!"
When everyone looked at Wei Laojuan at that time, they saw that your face was full of pride. Director Wang smiled evilly and cursed: "Look at them, how proud you are!"
"Hehehe!"
Parents or grandparents often hug their children and stimulate them through physical or skin contact, which is very important for the child's physical and mental growth.
Our nation always thinks that if a child is a little younger, he should act coquettishly with his parents, or he should have less physical contact with his parents. That is not completely correct.
Plus, if you have a lot of support from your parents at school, you will be even more capable.
"Uh!" Zhao Yue looked at her child without any bad intentions and shook her head coquettishly. Indeed, given my personality, I am indeed too close to my child.
At that time, Director Luo explained: "Hongxuan, according to what he said, the eldest child cries because he feels comfortable. If you hold the eldest child in your arms and coax me, it will make me feel better?"
If they observe carefully, they will find that children who often act coquettishly with their parents are not very different in character from children who have no physical contact with their parents and are honest and serious in front of their parents.
Director Wang shook his head in distress: "Silence is indeed quiet, but it's also enough to cause a headache.
Running around like crazy, just don't cause trouble and let us go.
Zhao Guowei smiled and looked at my seventh sister, who had a dull personality, and said with a smile to Cao Qian: "Brother, he is not too serious at times. Do you think my sister-in-law's character is less bad than him!
"Adults may have their mood or emotions affected by work or some things in life, but children don't have these worries.
It’s even worse after school. You get called parents a lot. The naughty and mischievous girls in our class are afraid of you when they see you!
However, after Zhao Yue heard those words, she felt that it was unreasonable, and after all, they were related across generations, so Zhao Yue said to Wei Daosheng and Wei Wanqing: "They have all heard that they used to be less close to their children, and they were less affectionate.
Let's have fun with us. In the past, children would stop scolding us if they made small mistakes."
When encountering setbacks and difficulties, people who want to make progress or go to extremes are often the former!
Very rarely, older children feel comfortable simply because of physical reasons, not psychological reasons, such as a lack of sense of danger, etc.
"Keke! Of course I'm not interested. Young Master Yi is just too busy. What's more, it's taught by my genius junior brother. Of course you have to learn it!"
In this case, if you want to stop your older child from crying, you only need to solve the root cause of the crying!
You are disgusted with Yuejuan's temperament, it is artificial, everything is trivial and convenient, the key is that there is not as much of a person as you outside the home, but there is not much outside the home, hahaha!"
Now that I think about it, it’s quite boring. A boy can actually control these naughty girls in our class and make them docile!
In the past, Aunt Luo was not Uncle Lu, so they should not find it troublesome to hold the child, hug us less, interact less with us, and have less physical contact with us. In the future, when those two big guys grow up, but they have dull personalities, they will become more and more irritated.
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It's too bad that although your boyfriend has a domineering temperament, he has always been a bully. When he causes trouble outside of school and even gets into fights, it's all because others bully your classmates. You stand up for your classmates!
Did they find that there are children who hate playing coquettishly with the villain, and the villain also rejects the child from acting like a spoiled child with him? In the past, those children had a closer relationship with the villain.
For example, mothers, fathers, or grandparents who often hug us, etc., these people can make us feel a sense of danger for older children.
"Hehehe!"
You see, it’s because his parents hugged him too much. Now that he’s grown up, he no longer lacks maternal love!
"Hahaha!"
Therefore, when it comes to children, hugging them less frequently and having less physical contact with them will be very harmful to their character growth.
Seeing Zhao Yue say those words with a serious face, Wei Daosheng and Wei Wanqing suppressed their laughter and nodded. Professor Lu chuckled and said: "It's a good thing that family doesn't have you. You will think they are too serious about the children in the future."
, now they look at it, their children are more willing to be close to you outside the home, they parents need to take a hard look at it!"
Zhao Yue's strict character has been cultivated since she was a child, and now that she is that old, it is possible to change it at will.
The latter are less cheerful and dull in character, while the former are less likely to have a rigid or dull personality. Compared to the latter, the former are too good at interpersonal communication and flexible enough in dealing with people.
You are wrong in reading the old novel, he has been spoiled by you since he was a child!"
When everyone heard it, they realized it was indeed like that.
Director Luo, he knows that your best friend has gotten into trouble a lot since he was a child. You are not the king of children in your hospital, let alone the boys of the same age outside the hospital. Even the girls who are one or two years younger than you are the most popular.
You keep me all docile and follow you around all day long!
Even more mildly, the vast majority of people with dark personalities or relatively few negative emotions in their personalities are the former!
"It's bad! That's too bad! Thank you, junior brother!"
A very complicated example is also the most common one they have raised with children. Once an older child cries, it is time to change the diaper, and if it is not hungry, and other than the factors of disease, you rarely put the crying child away.
Hold her in your arms and coax her and comfort her, and the older child will calm down very quickly."
"Haha! Daosheng, Late Qing, Liu Ying, Yan Hui, they can't learn from each other!
So in the past, when they treated their children, don’t restrict everything we say and do. Children are children after all, and their nature is not to be dull and active. If they make us dull and make us playful, this is not against the nature of children.
It can't even be said that it is killing the child's nature. Before the child grows up, the child has a rigid personality and a rigid thinking, lacks creativity in thinking, and is too close to villains!
There are very few things that require regressive guidance but too little preaching!”
He looked at Daosheng and Wanqing, and you could tell from our looks that he had hugged us before we were eight or seven years old."
Director Luo smiled evilly and said: "Director Wang, that boyfriend in their family is so boring.
The two brothers and sisters were so boring that they made everyone laugh.
"Hahaha!"
"Duan Hongxuan!" Wei Laojuan glared at Cao Qianhong: "Nothing is bad about what you are doing now, you think it is bad, your Jianshe family also thinks it is bad, and so do Jianshe's parents!
snort!
We don't care whether we are disgraced or even covered in mud. If we want to give children a space to grow and develop their nature, we must be too restrictive.
Director Wang said angrily: "Old Qi, what are you talking about?
What about senior brother? Later, you teach him a set of massage techniques specifically for older children. If that set of techniques is used badly, it will be inferior to a magic elixir. Even some older children's diseases can be treated by that set of massage techniques, using needles or medicine.
It can be solved immediately!"
Sister-in-law, isn’t he interested?”
"Aunt Luo! Although older children cannot express their emotions through language, we are very sensitive and sensitive to the breath of people close to us. We can tell who is holding you.
Senior brother, his grandsons, grandsons, and grandsons, don’t be like the way he taught Daosheng and the late Qing Dynasty. They should be more indulgent to us, as long as they control the small directions!
Don't tell him, because of your temperament, even though you have graduated and become a mother, your future bad boy classmates still hang out frequently. These classmates still hate to come to you no matter what happens in their work and life.
