Chapter 170 Comparing Banggan and Xiaodang, the difference is huge
Qin Huairu went to make some noodles for herself. He Yuyu looked at Duan Hongxuan with questioning eyes. Duan Hongxuan smiled and said, "We'll talk after Sister Qin leaves."
He Yuyu nodded, looked at Shazhu again, and said nothing more.
Qin Huairu is a very discerning person. She is so smart. As soon as she sees the situation in the courtyard, she knows that something is wrong.
So she finished her meal quickly, put away the dishes quickly, and came out and said to the deaf old lady: "Old lady, it's getting late, and the child is sleepy too. I won't take the child back to sleep."
I’ll accompany you.”
After finishing speaking, he said to Duan Hongxuan: "Hongxuan, Sister Qin can't listen to your story today, but you have to make up for it tomorrow!"
"No problem, Sister Qin, there is indeed something going on today, I'm sorry!"
"Look at what you said. Not only did my sister come to your place to learn knowledge, she also had meat to eat with her every day. Thank you before it's too late!
Okay, I won’t delay you anymore, don’t be too late, let the old lady rest early!”
"Okay," Duan Hongxuan nodded, "Sister Qin, please wait a moment!"
After saying that, Duan Hongxuan ran back to the kitchen, quickly brought out a small bag, and handed the bag to Qin Huairu, "Sister Qin, here are ten eggs, please take them back."
"Hey! What does this mean? I'm here to eat and get food from you!"
"You and Xiaodang come here to eat delicious food every day. I'm afraid your mother-in-law has embarrassed you for this matter, right?
Just look at how hungry Xiaodang has been these past few days.
If you take this egg back, your ears will be clean for a few days, and Xiaodang will live a better life.
When you have nothing to do during the day, take more small things to the old lady, and don't let your mother-in-law harm you.
Now Xiao Dangke is much more sensible. Every time I let her eat first, the girl's stomach growls, and she can still hold back her saliva and say she wants to wait for her mother to eat together.
This girl is not only polite, but she also knows how to feel sorry for you as a mother at such a young age. She is so sensible!"
Qin Huairu glanced at her daughter with relief, and soon a sad look appeared on her face: "Old lady, Hongxuan, Xiaodang can be so sensible, all thanks to you.
Hongxuan, can you help Bangge? If he continues like this, he might really be ruined!"
Don’t be afraid of not knowing the goods, just be afraid of comparing goods.
Although Qin Huairu knew from Duan Hongxuan how to teach children and whether what they should do was right or wrong, she only knew.
Think about it, when eating at home, my son Bangge only cares about eating for himself every time. He doesn't care about her as a mother, and he doesn't care whether she has enough to eat!
Now when I compare it with my daughter, I realize that there is a huge difference between my son and my daughter. If this continues, Bangge will become a self-centered and selfish person. Will he still see her as a mother in his eyes?
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The more Qin Huairu thought about it, the more frightened and sad she became, so she couldn't help but ask Duan Hongxuan for help.
Duan Hongxuan sighed helplessly: "Sister Qin, it's not that I don't help, it's that I can't help!
Xiaodang is a girl, but your mother-in-law doesn't care about her at all and even dislikes her.
She hopes that Xiaodang can be away from home every day and save some food, so that we can have the opportunity to take Xiaodang away from your mother-in-law and give it to the old lady to teach Xiaodang well.
But Banggeng is different. Your mother-in-law regards him as a treasure and holds Banggeng in her hand every day.
If we want to teach him well, we must be able to take him away from your mother-in-law!
Otherwise, teaching will be in vain!”
After hearing this, Qin Huairu felt a burst of despair in her heart, with a sad look on her face: "Why am I so miserable, why do I end up with such a mother-in-law!"
Tears came down as I spoke.
He Yuyu has been teaching Qin Huairu every day these days, and the relationship between the two has become better and better. Seeing this, he hurriedly stepped forward to comfort Qin Huairu.
When Xiaodang saw his mother crying, he hurriedly broke away from the arms of the deaf old lady and ran to Qin Huairu and said anxiously: "Mom, don't cry. Xiaodang is very good. Xiaodang will definitely wait for her to eat with her in the future!"
As he said this, Xiaodang's mouth became deflated, and he was about to cry.
The deaf old lady couldn't stand it anymore: "Girl Qin, don't be sad. Hurry up and put away your tears. You'll scare the child!"
Qin Huairu looked at the sensible girl in front of her, and felt even more sad thinking about Banggeng, but she quickly wiped her tears, lowered her body, held Xiaodang in her arms, and comforted: "Xiaodang is good, mom is fine, Xiaodang will be fine in the future."
Eat first when you're hungry. You don't have to wait for your mother. She won't blame Xiaodang!"
"Did someone bully mom?" Xiaodang asked with tears on her face.
Qin Huairu helped Xiaodang wipe the tears on his face: "No one bullies mom, mom is fine, Xiaodang, don't worry!
This is a matter for adults. When you are still young, you will understand when you grow up!"
"Then Xiaodang must grow up quickly!"
"Okay, then Xiaodang should eat well in the future and listen to the words of my great-grandmother, your uncle Xiu Cai and aunt Yu Yu, so that in the future you can become a good boy that everyone likes!"
"Well, Xiaodang must be obedient!" The little girl nodded vigorously.
"Okay, Qin girl, let Xiaodang come over quickly and let me have a look. See if you scare the child."
The deaf old lady hugged Xiaodang and comforted her while scolding Qin Huairu: "Girl Qin, look at how sensible your daughter is!
My old woman used to have the old mentality of favoring boys over girls, but Hongxuan taught her a lesson.
Now that I think about it, I think girls are better than boys!
Look at the three eldest sons in Liu Haizhong's family. Do any of them have peace of mind? In the future, Liu Haizhong's three sons will be raised in vain. If you don't believe it, just wait and see!
Yanbu’s family also has three boys, but I don’t think the future will be good for me!
Look at the children of the old He family in front of you. Rainwater is much more worry-free than pillars. Rainwater will definitely be more promising than pillars in the future!
Tell me, what is better about this man than his daughter?
I used to only focus on the pillars and ignore Yuyu. Now I think about it, it’s my old woman’s fault. I will make up for Yuyu in the future and feel sorry for Yuyu.”
The deaf old lady's words shocked He Yuyu. How could she deserve the deaf old lady's apology? She hurriedly said: "Old lady, I don't dare to say that. How can I deserve it!"
The deaf old lady waved her hand: "There's nothing I shouldn't do, I can see it, my daughter is considerate!
No wonder Hongxuan said that his daughter is a considerate little cotton-padded jacket. I think this is true!
Girl Qin, we can’t control the stick now even if we want to. Instead of feeling sad, you might as well just let it go completely.
Now that you have a daughter who is so sensible as Xiaodang and knows how much you care about your mother, you still have one in your belly. If you ask me, these two are the ones you can rely on in the future, so don’t point your fingers at me!"
"Yes, Sister Qin, don't think too much. Just bear with it for a few months and wait until the child in your belly is born, your household registration, and your job are all done. Then we can think of a solution!" Duan Hongxuan also advised. p>
Qin Huairu had no choice but to nod after hearing this. What else could she do? She could only do this for now.
But Qin Huairu hated Jia Zhang even more in her heart!
