Chapter 285 Duan Hongxuan: You can’t take off the mask after wearing it for a long time
He Yuyu finished washing the dishes and returned to the house. Looking at the two people who were silent and silent, he asked strangely: "Why are you two so quiet and not chatting?"
Yu Haitang's face tightened, "No, Duan Hongxuan and I, oh, no, I'm not very familiar with Brother Hongxuan, so I don't know what to talk about!"
Duan Hongxuan was stunned for a moment and looked at Yu Haitang, "Oh! I was so lost in thought just now!
I'm sorry, classmate Yu Haitang, for neglecting you!"
Yu Haitang waved her hands repeatedly: "It's okay, it's okay!
It doesn’t matter to me, you want to do your own thing, I won’t disturb you!”
"It's okay, it's nothing important! Rain, sit down for a while and then go over. It's too early to go. Some people are still having dinner!
There’s no need to have a wedding ceremony so early!”
He Yuyu sat down, poured himself a cup of tea, and rolled his eyes at Duan Hongxuan, "Brother Hongxuan, you know how to bully my brother in the wedding ceremony!
I just have something else I want to ask you!"
"What's the matter? Ask!"
"Brother Hongxuan, are you really going to graduate? This is a university!" He Yuyu exclaimed.
"I don't know. I'll go to the school tomorrow and have a look. I have to wait for the school's research results!
The results will be available this week at the latest!
Is that all?”
He Yuyu's eyes widened: "What's going on?
You are only a few months older than me. You are already in college, and I have just entered high school.
Now that you are about to graduate from college, the gap between you and me is getting wider and wider!
Brother Hongxuan, how come you learn so fast? You can’t slow down!"
"Pfft!" Duan Hongxuan was choked by He Yuyu's request, "Is there such a thing as waiting? This is not a running competition.
Besides, even a running race has an end point.
Even if I run a little faster, I can't keep running. I can just wait for you at the finish line!
There is an end to his schooling, and his academic qualifications cannot continue like this without an end!
No matter how fast I study, I will become a master's student, then a doctoral student, and then a postdoc. Oh, by the way, there are no postdocs in our country now.
The most I can do is get a PhD.
No matter how slow you are, as long as you continue reading step by step, you will one day be able to get a Ph.D., then you will be just like me. Why should I wait for you?
Your little head has been thinking about all kinds of nonsense all day long. Okay, let’s not talk about this. Just read your book and don’t worry about it getting further and further away!
Say something else!"
He Yuyu puffed up his mouth, "Okay, let's not talk about it!
Yu Haitang, please talk about it, don’t be bored all the time!"
"Ah! I, I don't know what to say!" Yu Haitang answered He Yuyu in a panic.
Duan Hongxuan saw it and smiled and said: "It's okay, just chatting after dinner, you can say whatever you want, and you can ask anything you are interested in!"
Yu Haitang thought for a while and said, "The little girl who left just now was named Yan, right? I heard from Yuyu that their family was the first family my sister wanted to have a blind date with. Brother Hongxuan, can you tell me about their family?
What a situation!
Why did I feel like their family was so weird just now!"
Duan Hongxuan and He Yuyu both laughed when Yu Haitang asked about the situation of the third uncle's family.
Duan Hongxuan smiled and said to Yu Haitang: "Actually, there is nothing special about their family. Didn't I tell you just now? In the past, the third uncle's family relied on the third uncle's salary to support six people, so the third uncle had nothing to do.
Being forced to plan carefully will leave the impression of being stingy and calculating over time!
But it's a little better now. The eldest son of their family, who was the first to go on a blind date with your sister, is called Yan Jiecheng. He graduated from junior high school a few years ago. Last year, the third uncle helped him find a temporary job, and he can earn ten yuan a month.
For a few dollars, their family's situation was slightly better.
But after all, there are still three children to study and six mouths to eat, so the family is still not well off.
In addition, the third uncle has been stingy and calculating for more than ten years, and he has gradually developed a habit, and his calculations are a bit too much, and he has gradually become famous in the alley."
Yu Haitang listened and nodded: "Fortunately, my sister didn't go on a blind date with the eldest son of their family. If my sister really entered their family, she would die of embarrassment!
How can anyone put a line in the bowl after eating?
The little girl named Yan Jiedi just now was too greedy. She came to your place without paying attention at all, and she is not at her own home!"
Duan Hongxuan waved his hand: "Yan Jiedi is still young after all. Little girls often don't have enough to eat. It's hard to eat good food all year round. Seeing the delicious cakes, it's okay to be greedy!
As for what you said about paying attention when you come to my place, I think Yan Jiedi is doing well. Although she seems a bit uneducated and doesn't pay attention at all when she goes to other people's homes, at least the little girl doesn't pretend, she is what she is! p>
Moreover, Yan Jiedi is not overly aggressive. Although she is greedy and gluttonous, she has a sense of proportion. Even if she wants to eat, she at least knows that we have to ask for permission.
You see just now, when I told her not to let her eat, Yan Jiedi became so greedy that even if she was worried about being a spoiled brat, she didn't eat it without her consent. This is good!
If she were so young and obviously very greedy, but still pretended to be reserved, that would be unflattering.
It is better for children to be innocent than to wear masks!
The same goes for you and Yu Yu. You two are not yet adults. The little girl should be happy. It is not good to be too thoughtful!
You see, Yu Yu used to see everyone with a straight face and a cold mask. Not only did others not like this, I believe she herself was tired and panicked.
How good it is to be like this now, with a smile on my face, and my whole person is full of the liveliness and enthusiasm that young people should have. I feel relaxed in life, and others like me when they see me!
Although the rain was related to life in the past, it was a bit too much. Everything should be done in a moderate way, and too much is never enough!"
After saying that, Duan Hongxuan glanced at Yu Haitang thoughtfully, which made Yu Haitang's heart skip a beat. She felt as if Duan Hongxuan's gaze had seen through her from the inside out, which made her feel a little nervous.
As soon as Duan Hongxuan finished speaking, He Yuyu patted Duan Hongxuan dissatisfiedly and said, "Brother Hongxuan, you are making trouble with me again!"
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"I am complimenting you, praising our rainwater for getting better and better and becoming more and more lovely!"
"You still said that!" He Yuyu's face turned a little red, and with a little more strength, he patted Duan Hongxuan twice.
Duan Hongxuan quickly apologized: "Okay, okay, I won't talk about you anymore!
Haitang, life is not easy for everyone now. Every household and everyone has their own dissatisfaction.
But you can't be too attached to something just because life is unsatisfactory. That would be more than enough. Over time, you will gradually develop a habit, which is not good. It will cause a wrong guide to your outlook on life and values, and in the end it will be tragic.
It’s myself.
No matter what, it is good to properly protect yourself, but people should also make a few real friends so that they can show their true nature and put down their masks.
Otherwise, if you wear the mask for a long time, it will gradually blend into your own flesh and blood and you will not be able to take it off, and the fake mask will eventually become real.
Just like the third uncle next door, at first he had to be prudent just because of life. Eventually, as time went by, this kind of prudent calculation became a habit and integrated into the bones. In the eyes of outsiders, it became a kind of stingy calculation.<
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Calculating has become a habit, and you will subconsciously calculate everything. Now you even plot against family members. If this happens, will the family still have family ties?
In the end, if all family ties are lost, it will be a tragedy for the third uncle when he gets old!"
Yu Haitang remained silent, lowering his head in deep thought.
Duan Hongxuan continued: "Haitang, you are not very old, but you give people the impression that you are deliberately trying to act mature, wearing a mask!
Among your peers, your performance may make others think that you are very mature and reassuring, but in the eyes of people with a little bit of life experience, it is a bit unreal!
You should be the same age as Yu Yu, you should be lively, full of vigor and enthusiasm, don't make yourself so mature.
In fact, youth does not last long. Young people are full of passion and make many mistakes. This is normal youth life.
In the future, you want to be mature and try not to make mistakes. This mature age will have a lot of time for you to live in the future, and you will not be allowed to be like this at that time!
Therefore, the time at this age is very short. The enthusiasm, immaturity and even naivety that should be present in this short time should be grasped with a smile, owned and enjoyed, and should not be abandoned, because soon you will
You will find that if you think about it again in the future, you will never have a chance!
All of these can only be possessed by you at this age!
You are sister-in-law Yu Li's biological sister, and Yu Yu is Brother Zhuzi's biological sister. I hope you can learn to enjoy the youthful life that you already have, like Yu Yu now, and it is a very short life, so that you can be happier.
Establish correct three views at this age!"
He Yuyu listened to Duan Hongxuan's words and kept looking at Yu Haitang in surprise.
After Duan Hongxuan finished speaking, Yu Haitang looked up at Duan Hongxuan, exhaled heavily, with an inexplicable light flashing in his eyes, and nodded to Duan Hongxuan: "Brother Hongxuan, I remember what you said, I will think about it when I go back.
I want it!"
He Yuyu looked at Yu Haitang and understood a little bit why Duan Hongxuan said this to her.