Chapter 39 Just let Brother Zhuzi marry Qin Huairu
"Brother Zhuzi, it is right to be enthusiastic about helping your neighbors, but you must also have a certain limit and do what you can!
No matter how much you help, you have to take care of your own family first, right? You can't help your sister until she's as thin as a stick and can be blown away by a gust of wind. As a result, all the helpers of other people's families are eating in vain. p>
What is this? Is this a joke for others? Or is this sister not my biological child at all? She was picked up!"
Silly Zhu blushed, "Sister Qin's child is still young and growing, and Sister Qin is still pregnant and needs nutrition.
It’s okay for us adults to miss one meal.”
Duan Hongxuan became a little angry after hearing this: "You are an adult, and you were full in the cafeteria! How much rain did it rain? Is she an adult? She doesn't need to grow?
Do you know what grade Yu Yu is in now?"
"You should still be in junior high school now, right?" Silly Zhu really couldn't remember clearly.
"She's going to high school. I really don't know what to say to you, forget it, I'm too lazy to tell you!
After the rain comes, you can stay at my place, and I will cover all the food, clothing, housing, transportation, and tuition fees. Don’t worry about it. Just make sure you live your life well!”
"Silly Zhuzhu, you should go back and think about what the little scholar told you today! Don't be obsessed with your thoughts and live in a muddle all day long!
Okay, you can go back to your house! I will have a conversation with the little scholar, our grandfather and grandson." The old lady hates the fact that iron cannot become steel.
"Old lady, little scholar, let's talk while I go back to the house!" Silly Zhu replied sarcastically and left awkwardly.
"This silly Zhuzi, I really don't know what to say about him! He's so sad!" The deaf old lady said to Duan Hongxuan with a sad face, "He is also my droopy grandson. Why are you two so different?"
"Grandma, don't worry! Or just ask a matchmaker to help him get a blind date."
"Blind dates are useless. It's not like I haven't been on blind dates before. I've had several blind dates in the past and all of them said they didn't like me. Others really thought it was this stupid Zhuzhu who had a high vision. Grandma, I saw it clearly. He clearly used it to date Qin Huairu.
Compare it!" The deaf old lady became more and more worried as she spoke.
"Why don't we wait a year or two and let Brother Zhuzi marry Qin Huairu? This will just go with his wishes! If Qin Huairu gives him a few more children, then we can all live together!" When the deaf old lady heard that she wanted Silly Zhu to marry Qin Huairu, she immediately became anxious, "No! Zhu Zhu is a young man who has never married a daughter-in-law. How can he marry a widow? And he also brings a family with him. p>
If Zhu Zhu gets married for the second time and marries a widow, I won’t object, but this marriage is definitely not allowed!
You, this little bastard, come up with some bad ideas that don’t make sense.”
Is this really a bad idea? Duan Hongxuan really doesn’t think so.
First of all, this silly Zhu is obsessed with Qin Huairu. He keeps saying that he wants to marry a yellow-flowered girl, but in fact, everyone subconsciously compares him with Qin Huairu.
She said she wanted to go on a blind date, but she still didn't want to let go of Qin Huairu.
The best situation is that no one will cause trouble for him, Sha Zhu will find a satisfactory wife, and then, the wife will have to allow him to continue to be entangled with Qin Huairu.
A daughter-in-law who can make fools fall in love must have the same appearance, appearance, and other qualities. How can they tolerate you and Qin Huairu continuing to be entangled?
As far as Shazhu's thoughts towards Qin Huairu are concerned, even if he marries a wife, he will eventually get divorced. So it is better to just marry Qin Huairu.
Secondly, in the original play, Qin Huairu's family beat Sha Zhu to his bones and sucked out his marrow. Qin Huairu controlled Sha Zhu to death and refused to give Sha Zhu a child. If it hadn't been for Lou Xiao'e's child in the end, Sha Zhu would have been the last to be the queen. Qin Huairu became a blood-sucking white lotus, not just from the beginning, but gradually forced by the surrounding environment.
She is an uneducated and unsophisticated daughter-in-law who married from the countryside to the city. She must be greatly influenced by traditional thinking. As the saying goes, if you marry a chicken, follow the chicken, if you marry a dog, follow the dog.
After marrying into the Jia family, the Jia family is her heaven and everything to her. Her husband works to earn money, and her responsibility is to take good care of the whole family.
When you come to the Jia family and this courtyard, you will still be affected by the Jia family and this courtyard. What influence is it?
Mother-in-law Jia Zhang's patriarchal mentality is particularly serious. That is equivalent to Jia Zhang brainwashing Qin Huairu every day!
In addition, because of the issue of old-age care, the first uncle hopes that Qin Huairu and Shazhu can provide for him together. Why?
Silly Zhu can make money, and as a cook, with Silly Zhu, there will be no shortage of food and drink in the future.
But as a grown man, he also has a bit of a rough-and-tumble personality, so don’t expect him to be able to take good care of the elderly in the future.
Qin Huairu knows how to take care of people! There is no one in the whole courtyard who can take care of people better than Qin Huairu.
Therefore, Shazhu and Qin Huairu together are the best candidates for retirement care!
The First Master used his aura as a moral gentleman and the First Master's authority to brainwash Qin Huairu, including Silly Zhu, over many years, that is, the old man was not wrong at any time.
The result of the uncle's brainwashing was that Qin Huairu did not dare to resist the Jia Zhang family. The result of not daring to resist was that he unconsciously accepted the brainwashing of the Jia Zhang family. The result of the acceptance was that everything had to be done for the only boy in the family, Bang Ge. He wanted to
You have to find a way to satisfy him with everything.
In the end, under the insatiable oppression of Jia Zhang, the excessive demands of Banggeng, and the connivance of Silly Zhu, the brainwashed Qin Huairu felt that satisfying her mother-in-law, the most important thing was to meet any request of Banggeng.
Maybe maintaining good memes is what a mother should do.
The biggest difference between Qin Huairu and Jia Zhang is that while Jia Zhang is trying to satisfy the demands of Bang Gang, he is more interested in satisfying himself.
And everything Qin Huairu did in the end was really for Banggeng and this family, not for herself at all.
It can be seen from the meal that most of the meat and vegetables that Shazhu brought back were eaten by Jia Zhang and Bang Gen. The remaining small portion belonged to Xiao Dang and Huai Hua. Qin Huairu could only dip some soup into it.
Soup, water, water.
While the rest of the family eats white flour steamed buns, Qin Huairu always eats steamed buns.
Therefore, under the oppression of her vicious mother-in-law and the persecution of her careless son, Qin Huairu gradually turned into a selfish white lotus who sucked the marrow out of others after being brainwashed for a long time.
From being grateful for others' help at the beginning, to becoming insensitive, to taking it for granted, and finally even taking the initiative to use tricks and scheming.
Duan Hongxuan believes that the reason why Qin Huai was forced to be like this and finally became the White Lotus was simply because she had accepted her fate and felt a bit like a broken person. For the only male in the Jia family, she can and should give everything. Before Jia Dongxu died, Qin Huairu had a very good reputation in the entire compound. Every household envied the Jia family for having a good wife.
He is capable, takes good care of others, and is enthusiastic about his neighbors.
Silly Zhu has a no-nonsense temper, and among his peers in the entire alley, there is no one who has a good relationship with Silly Zhu.
Not long after Jia Dongxu got married, Shazhu took the initiative to ease the relationship with Jia Dongxu, and then started delivering lunch boxes to Jia's family.
Sha Zhu is a bachelor and doesn't know how to clean up. He is slovenly all day long. Out of gratitude to Sha Zhu for sending lunch boxes, Qin Huairu, as a sister-in-law of the same hospital, took the initiative to help Sha Zhu clean up the house. This is purely a simple thank you.
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Because the whole family is doing well, Qin Huairu takes care of the family with her whole body and mind.
You brought the dishes in the lunch box to our family, so that our family can have some fun, so I will help you clean up the house out of gratitude.
Therefore, Qin Huairu has a basic sense of right and wrong, and she understands whoever treats her well.
It was just because I had thick shackles on my body and I didn’t know how to break free from them, so I was oppressed by the shackles. I finally gave up my resistance and chose to accept my fate.
And this yoke is actually Banggan, the only male in the Jia family.
Because in her mind, the man is the future and pillar of the family. Then he should be protected and meet all the requirements of the man.
So as long as Banggen made a fuss and Jia and Zhang pressed again, Qin Huairu immediately surrendered! In the end, the bottom line was broken again and again, and she became a white lotus.
Therefore, Duan Hongxuan believes that to solve this problem, it is necessary to take advantage of Qin Huairu's decision to accept her fate and gradually reverse some of the ridiculous ideas that she will be slowly brainwashed into.
Before Qin Huairu went to work in the factory, Duan Hongxuan thought everything was too late. She wanted to see what Qin Huairu looked like without the shackles.
I believe it will be a surprise.
Because no matter what the process is, an uneducated country woman can take care of a family so well without clinging to the powerful people in the factory. Not even women in the entire courtyard can compare with Qin Huairu. If Qin Huairu can be prevented from becoming a white lotus, he must understand which needs of the family are reasonable and legitimate and need to be met. Which needs are unreasonable and must be resolutely stopped!
If you know how to get what you want reasonably and legitimately on your own, it will be wonderful.
By then, it should be no problem for Qin Huairu to match Shazhu!
