Gao Wu returns and becomes a neighbor in the courtyard Chapter 465 No matter what happens in life or work, you can always find the answer in the history books
Chapter 465 No matter what happens in life or work, you can always find the answer in the history books
On Sunday, a rest day, Duan Hongxuan didn't get up that early because he didn't have to go to work or school. He didn't get up until after eight o'clock. But when he got up, He Yuyu and Yu Haitang were still sleeping in.
Qin Jingru is quite diligent, and by the time Duan Hongxuan gets up, she will already be busy in the kitchen!
After washing up, she happened to see Qin Jingru making breakfast. When she saw Duan Hongxuan, Qin Jingru happily greeted him, and Duan Hongxuan also smiled and said thank you for your hard work!
Since breakfast had been prepared, Qin Jingru asked Duan Hongxuan for his opinion: "Brother Hongxuan, how about we eat first and leave the rice in the pot for them?"
"No! It's almost nine o'clock now. You should have had enough sleep! You go wake Yuyu and Haitang to wake up, and I'll wake up Xiaodang too!"
When Duan Hongxuan dressed Xiaodang and came out with the little girl who was still a little confused, He Yuyu and Yu Haitang had just finished washing up and met Duan Hongxuan in the yard. They complained angrily about Duan Hongxuan.
No one is allowed to sleep in every day.
Duan Hongxuan said angrily: "Still sleeping, you two, calculate when did you go to bed yesterday? How long have you slept until now? Isn't this considered lazy?
I've almost slept for ten hours. Is it possible that I have to sleep for twelve hours to be considered lazy?
Xiaodang is so young, so it’s understandable that he needs to sleep more. How old are you two? It’s the same as Xiaodang!
Now even Xiaodang is up, and you two still have opinions! How shameless!
Xiaodang, let’s brush our teeth and wash our faces, and ignore these two lazy idiots!”
With that said, I took Xiaodang to wash up!
He Yuyu rolled his eyes at Duan Hongxuan's back and muttered: "Humph! Childish!"
Then he dragged Yu Haitang into the dining room!
After everyone finished breakfast and tidied up the kitchen, everyone went to He Yuyu's room and sat drinking tea and chatting. Yu Haitang and Qin Jingru were a little nervous when they thought about the people who were coming to the house.
They knew that many people were coming to the courtyard today, and Duan Hongxuan also told them everyone's identity.
This is a professor, a director of the sub-district office, a policeman, a director or a section chief. The two little girls felt nervous thinking about it. They have never seen so many officials in their lives.
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Especially Qin Jingru, the biggest official she had ever seen was the secretary of their commune, but she only saw it from a distance, and she was not qualified and didn't have the guts to get close.
But today, many of these people who are much older than their commune secretaries are still officials. Not only does she have to have close contact with them, but she also has to chat and eat with them. For a little girl who has been in the city from the countryside for less than a month,
I mean, it’s really exciting!
Seeing that Yu Haitang and Qin Jingru were really nervous, Duan Hongxuan comforted him: "Don't be so nervous, you two!
Although the people coming today do have some identities, they are all my own people who are close to me.
Speaking of which, there are actually only two families, one is my godmother and her family, and the other is my senior brother and his family!
You see, my godmother and my senior brother are all our own people! Just treat them as ordinary elders. They are also quite kind people. You will have a long time to interact with them in the future!
A party like this happens once a month!
Haitang may not encounter many when he returns home from now on, but Jingru, you will live here for many years, at least twelve times a year, you have to get used to it.
To be honest, they are actually much kinder than your commune secretaries!"
Qin Jingru looked disbelieving: "Brother Hongxuan, you lied to me, I don't believe you!
Our commune secretary is very vicious when he gets angry and curses people. These relatives of yours are more official than our commune secretary, so they are definitely more vicious than our commune secretary!"
Duan Hongxuan laughed when he heard this: "Hahahaha, Jingru, I really didn't lie to you!
Being an official in the countryside is different from being an official in the city!
As the saying goes, poor mountains and poor waters bring out unruly people. This statement is a bit derogatory to the people in poor areas. It is not a good thing to say, but it has a certain truth to it!
Our country has always said that the imperial power did not go to the countryside since ancient times. In ancient times, even the emperor had no control over the countryside. The countryside was controlled by some highly respected clansmen. In the village, some elders with prosperous families had the final say!<
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If you think about your village, are the people who talk and take care of things all from families with prosperous families and many men?"
Qin Jingru thought for a while, nodded and said: "That's true. With many brothers in the family, not only are we not afraid of being bullied by others, but we can also bully others!
If there are more men in the family, there will be more people fighting, and you can earn work points, so of course talking will work!"
He Yuyu and Yu Haitang learned about the situation in the countryside for the first time, and couldn't help but listen carefully with curiosity.
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "That's true!
Then think about it again, what will happen if you village cadres, brigade cadres, etc. encounter those who do not cooperate with your work?"
"What else can I do? Of course I just stare and scold them! If I encounter those who are fooling around and causing trouble, I will definitely beat them!"
"Ah!" He Yuyu and Yu Haitang were surprised. He Yuyu asked Qin Jingru: "Jingru, your cadres still curse and beat people?"
Qin Jingru said matter-of-factly: "Of course! If you don't scold or beat them, those people will be disobedient!"
Duan Hongxuan also smiled and explained: "In the countryside, the level of literacy is not high. Many people are uneducated and poor. The first thing everyone and every household cares about is their own interests and how to have enough food."
, not even starving to death!
It's completely useless for you to tell him any big principles at this time! Even sometimes he clearly knows that what he is doing is wrong, but for the sake of having more food for his family, he doesn't care whether it is right or wrong. He can take more points and share more points.
If you stutter a lot, if you can be lazy, you will waste less effort!
In bad years, in more serious cases, an extra mouthful of food and less effort may mean a life!
Tell me, what truth is more important than your own life?
Therefore, the poorer the place, the more concerned about one's own personal interests, the less reasonable it is to make sense! To them, I know what you are saying is reasonable, and I also know that I may be unreasonable, or even a bit rogue.
But we have to survive. My wife, daughter-in-law, and children are starving to death, so why should I tell you?
So gradually, there is a saying that the poor mountains and harsh waters bring out the unruly people!
Guan Zhong once said to Duke Huan of Qi: With a solid warehouse, you will know the etiquette; if you have enough food and clothing, you will know the honor and disgrace!
Only when a person has enough food and clothing, and does not have to worry about his life because of food and clothing, can you talk to him truthfully!
Otherwise, it is unreasonable and shameless, and it means nothing in the face of survival!"
He Yuyu and Yu Haitang were stunned!
Duan Hongxuan continued: "So, after years of doing this, people in the countryside naturally have their own set of logic for how to behave. One generation affects the next, and slowly, generation after generation, they also have their own set of behaviors.
Guidelines.
If you are a cadre in the countryside, especially a cadre in a village brigade, if you don't have a prosperous family and are willing to start a fight, you will not be able to be a cadre at all, because others are not afraid of you, and if you can't control others, they will naturally
I won’t listen to you!
This is the case for village cadres and brigade cadres, so of course commune cadres must also be able to subordinate village and brigade cadres!
Of course, when you reach the commune level, you don't necessarily need many men in the family, but the commune cadres themselves must dare to curse people, and even dare to beat people, so that they can demote the cadres in the village and the brigade!
If you politely reason with the village or brigade cadres, they will dare to work against you, and if they don't cooperate with you in your work, it will be difficult for you to carry out your work!"
Qin Jingru looked at Duan Hongxuan with admiration and said: "Brother Hongxuan, you are really knowledgeable!
You can tell so many truths about these things in our countryside, you are so awesome!"
Duan Hongxuan laughed and said: "Hahahaha, it's not me who is great, it's our ancestors who are great!
These things have long been written in books by our ancestors! From now on, no matter what you encounter in your life and work, as long as you search carefully, you can actually find the answer in the history books!
After all, our Chinese civilization has been spreading uninterruptedly for thousands of years. No matter how the dynasties change, how the civilization develops, whether in the officialdom or among the people, there are still the same things that come and go, and these things have long been recorded in various places.
Among all kinds of history books and folk historical materials, the origins remain unchanged!
Therefore, since ancient times, those who can manage the people well for the government, or even manage the family and the country, have read history books!"
He Yuyu immediately asked Duan Hongxuan with great interest: "Brother Hongxuan, what do you mean, we can also read more history books?"
"Of course, it never hurts to read more history books in your spare time. If you really want to read them, you will be able to deeply appreciate the wisdom of the ancients!
Let’s talk about Sun Tzu’s Art of War, which is very famous in our country. This was originally a strategy used by the ancients to lead troops to fight. Later, it was used as a teaching material by the famous West Point Military Academy in the Lighthouse Country to train their officers!
Later, in some Western countries, including Japan, some founders of large companies and families used Sun Tzu's Art of War in company management and shopping malls!
Therefore, when you study, you must be flexible, and you cannot study rigidly. You must learn to draw inferences from one example, apply it flexibly, and draw parallels from analogies!
If you are really interested, go back to Xinhua Bookstore to buy some history books and put them at home. You can read them for fun in your spare time!"
He Yuyu and Yu Haitang nodded repeatedly. Qin Jingru hesitated and said: "Brother Hongxuan, can I read the book after I buy it?"
"Of course I can read it, it's just a few history books, it's not confidential information!"
"But I'm afraid I can't understand!"
Duan Hongxuan said with a smile: "There are so many people in the family. If you really don't understand something, you can ask Yuyu Haitang and the others. If you really can't do it anymore, don't you still have me?"
Qin Jingru nodded happily!
"It's a bit off topic, Jingru, cadres in the city don't need to curse, let alone beat people.
If you scold and hit people at every turn, you won't be able to be a cadre in the city, so don't be so nervous. If they come later, just treat it like you were in the afternoon with the deaf old lady and her group in the courtyard next door!" p>