Chapter 61 Duan Hongxuan’s little story scared Qin Huairu and Shazhu
Duan Hongxuan looked at the big guy and smiled, and said to Yan Bugui: "The third uncle is a teacher after all. I understand what you mean.
Why don't you explain it to everyone!"
Yan Bugui was so named by Duan Hongxuan. Under everyone's gaze, he felt a little proud, "Then I will show my shame to everyone and explain!
To be honest, I'm a little ashamed. If Hongxuan hadn't mentioned it today, I wouldn't have remembered it at all.
This so-called boy must be raised poor, which means that the boy has to endure some hardships, endure some hardships and beatings since childhood, and understand that it is not easy to support a family.
Only when you grow up in the future can you truly establish a family.
I have been too pampered since I was a child, and when I grow up I am not willing to endure hardships. If I don't do it well, I will become a person with high ambitions and low abilities. In the end, I will be unable to achieve high goals and achieve low goals.
Then it will be useless, and in the end nothing will be accomplished. How can you build a household and support a family!
This girl should be rich, which means that a girl should be given better conditions in all aspects of life since she was a child.
When you grow up in the future, you will not be too blind and care about material things.
You won’t be easily deceived by others for a little material or monetary favor.
Moreover, women have to get married, and others can know the character of your family by seeing the behavior of your married girls.
If a girl has been accustomed to poverty since she was a child, she will most likely care about money and give people the impression of being greedy for money.
How good can a family that can raise such a girl be?"
After the third uncle Yan Bugui said these words, he raised his head and looked at the big guys proudly.
"Ashamed! It's thanks to Hongxuan's reminder that I can remember this!"
Duan Hongxuan gave Yan Bugui a thumbs up, "As expected of the Third Master, this explanation is so clear!"
Turning around, he said to Silly Zhu again: "Brother Zhuzi, I understand now!
This is not the most important thing.
As far as I know, Banggeng often comes to your house to take random things, but you never ask him anything, and you even praise him with a smile!
Is this the case?"
Silly Zhu hesitated embarrassedly: "Don't I like this kid Bangge!
I feel like he is not welcome when he comes to my house. He treats this as his own home and is getting close to me."
"So not only did you not stop him, you also praised him.
Slowly let him develop this bad habit of taking what he wants without saying hello.
I'm still young now, so I'm just taking it from you.
Gradually it becomes a habit to take things from others without telling them. When you grow up, you will no longer take things from others without telling them.
What's that called? That's called stealing!"
As soon as he finished speaking, Qin Huairu's face changed first, and Si Zhu was also a little dumbfounded.
Duan Hongxuan didn't wait for their reaction and continued to add more emphasis: "This is the first time that Banggeng has come to your house without warning. If you could teach him a lesson like I did today, what would happen today would be the same!
How could BangGeng be like this today!
What's even more outrageous is, when you have nothing to do, do you teach Bangge how to pick a lock?"
When everyone heard this, they all turned their heads and looked at Shazhu.
The old man had a straight face and asked Silly Zhu: "Zhuzi, did you really teach Bangge to pick locks?
You can’t teach such a young child well!
Why are you such a fool!"
"I...I don't think Bangge is smart, so I think he should learn things quickly. If there's no other reason, I just think it's fun to teach him something.
I really didn’t think so much!”
"Brother Zhuzi, children can't tell the difference between good and bad at all, they all rely on adults to teach them!
You are afraid that Bangge will not be able to take a shot when he grows up, right?"
Silhu became anxious when he heard this. He glanced at Qin Huairu, who had a gloomy face, and quickly explained: "I really don't, I really like this kid Bangge.
How could I harm him?
I just thought it was fun at the time, I didn’t think too much about it!”
"Brother Zhuzhu, Sister Qin!
Let me tell you a story! Listen carefully. After listening, think about it carefully!
By the way, I don’t know which dynasty there was, but there was a village.
There lived a widow in the village, who worked hard to raise a three-year-old boy by herself!
Since she is the only child in the family, the widow loves this child very much!
Don’t let your children endure hardship since they are young, and keep them close to everything that is delicious and useful.
But there is no strong labor force in the family, so the widow is working very hard and her life is not good!
But even so, no matter how poor her food and clothing are, she will try her best to satisfy her children first!
Because the living conditions at home are so poor, this child often covets the good food that other people can eat.
Once, the child was so greedy that he stole two eggs from somewhere and happily took them back to his mother.
As a result, the widow not only did not blame the child for stealing, but also praised him, and finally made him two eggs to eat.
The child was so happy that from then on, he stole a cake from one house in the village and a vegetable from that house every now and then.
Everyone in the village knew that the widow’s family was poor, so they didn’t care too much!
Sometimes I meet those stingy people and find the widow’s house.
Of course this widow defended her son, but she quarreled with others!
This quarrel makes others feel embarrassed. Why?
Just for some food, everyone looks like they are bullying orphans and widowed mothers!
In the end we had to let it go.
The quarrel was won, the widow was happy, and so were the children.
This kid thinks it’s okay for me to take other people’s things, and my mother will support me when I come back!
In this way, this child was spoiled. Not only was he unable to endure hardships, but he also often coveted other people's things, and then took advantage of them!
As the children grow up, the value of the things they pick up becomes higher and higher!
But everyone didn’t dare to do anything. Because they were quarreling and acting violently, they couldn’t quarrel with the widow!
What everyone can do is to take good care of their own things, and then stay away from the widow’s family!
The child has grown up and is eighteen or nineteen years old, but his reputation has been ruined and the village is also poor.
So the child didn't want to stay in the village and ran to the county town.
I have been pampered since I was a child and can't bear hardships, so I don't have any serious jobs in the county.
Slowly, I started hanging out with a bunch of gangsters.
I’ve been sneaking around all day long!
As a result, one day I stole Dafa.
This kid and these gangsters stole something from a group of people passing by in an inn.
Part of this thing is a tribute to the emperor, which is great!
Soon, the group was caught.
Because of stealing the tribute, everyone including the child was sentenced to beheading.
While he was in jail waiting to be beheaded, the child thought a lot about what he had done since he was a child until he was beheaded today.
I regret this!
On the first day after he was beheaded, the county magistrate was still kind.
Tell these people who are about to be beheaded that you can satisfy them with a condition that is not excessive before they die!
The child thought for a while and said that he wanted to see his mother before he died.
The county magistrate knew about their family's situation and felt that the child was still somewhat filial, so he sent someone to pick up his mother!
On the execution ground the next day, all the conditions for the death penalty were met.
When it was the child's turn, the county magistrate ordered his mother to be brought over so that mother and son could see each other for the last time!
When the widow saw her son who was about to be beheaded, she hugged him and cried!
The condition this child made to her mother was that you have loved me since I was a child, and I want to take another bite of your milk before I die!
His mother cried and agreed. She took off her clothes and breastfed the child on the execution ground.
As a result, the child hesitated for a while while crying, then went up and bit off a large piece of meat from his mother's chest.
The scene was bloody.
His mother screamed, and everyone around was shocked!
The county magistrate quickly ordered people to pull them apart, and then scolded the child. Before he died, he treated his mother who had worked so hard to raise him like this. It was a deserved death!
The child replied that he knew his mother had loved him since he was a child and pampered him.
When he was three or four years old, the first time he stole someone else's eggs, his mother not only did not blame him, but praised him.
So he stole again and again, and his mother protected him and praised him again and again!
Until today, a huge disaster has been committed!
The reason why he did this today is out of hatred!
He hated his mother for not teaching him a lesson the first time he stole something, letting him understand that it was wrong to just take other people's things.
Let him understand that taking something without telling him is stealing, and stealing is against the law!
Then he would not steal other people's things even more in the future, and he would not be beheaded like today!
Brother Zhuzhu, Sister Qin, the story is just like this.
After listening, I hope you can think about it carefully.
What kind of person Bangge can become in the future actually depends to a large extent on what you do now and how you treat him!"
After listening to Duan Hongxuan's little story, everyone was silent, each thinking!
The faces of Shazhu and Qin Huairu turned pale.
The eldest uncle Yi Zhonghai also looked a bit unhappy, because he also pointed out that Bangge would also support him in his old age in the future!