Gao Wu returns and becomes a neighbor in the courtyard Chapter 775: There are three elders in charge of the courtyard, and their children have problems.
Chapter 775: There are three elders in charge of the courtyard, and their children have problems.
During the Chinese New Year, hot pot dishes are naturally richer, so Duan Hongxuan and Shazhu were busy in the kitchen for a while and prepared a lot of dishes.
Finally, when Duan Hongxuan finished frying the hot pot base ingredients, Shazhu smelled the aroma and exclaimed: "This ingredient is so fragrant. I have to have a good time today, eating hot pot slowly and drinking wine slowly."
, we can’t eat as fast as last time!
Hongxuan, don’t let go of the drinks today. Prepare a few more jars. I finally meet someone who can rest at home for a few days during the New Year. With such a fragrant hot pot, I have to have a good drink!"
Duan Hongxuan looked at Silly Zhu and said, "Brother Zhuzi, drinking is okay, but you won't go crazy if you drink too much, right? If you really drink and go crazy, I won't be polite to you!"
"Being drunk and crazy? Is that something I can do? Those people who drink too much and act crazy are actually just drunk to make people bold, and they do it deliberately with the help of alcohol!
Judging from your appearance, you have probably never drank too much. Let me tell you Hongxuan, people who really drink too much will not only lose control of their hands and feet, but their brains will actually be clearer. They just can't control their mouths and usually hold it in their hearts
I can't help but want to talk about it outside and complain, but I know better in my heart!
Tell me, don’t those drunkards do this on purpose? If they continue to drink, they will drink it directly, lie down on the table or slip to the ground, and then fall asleep, let alone drunkards.
No one is awake anymore!
If I drink too much, talk too much at first, and then fall asleep later, I won’t be so drunk and drunk!"
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "That's okay, otherwise, on New Year's Day, if you act like this drunkenly in front of the old lady and the others, I'll have to slap you unconscious!"
But even though your wine taste is good, just drink more or less and don’t drink too much!”
"No problem, that's what I'm saying. On this occasion, I will only drink a little bit, and I will never drink too much. Don't worry!"
The hot pot was ready, and everyone sat down. Looking at the steaming hot pot, smelling the aroma emanating from the pot, and looking at the dazzling array of dishes on the table, everyone was smiling. The deaf old lady said happily: "I can eat hot pot again.
, Haha, today is the Chinese New Year, no need to go to work or school, everyone is open to eat!
Drink a little more leisurely, especially Director Luo, Zhonghai’s wife and Yu Li, you three are all pregnant, so be more careful when eating and drinking!"
"Thank you, old lady, for your concern!"
Duan Hongxuan and Shazhu filled everyone's cups with wine. Yi Zhonghai raised his glass and said, "Today is the second day of the Lunar New Year. I won't say much. I wish you all a happy New Year! Let's eat!"
Today is the second time for everyone to eat hot pot. In addition, the New Year’s food in the past few days has been good. Everyone is not as sullen as they were the first time. Everyone is slowly rinsing the hot pot.
Chatting with each other!
It's freezing outside, but it's warm inside. It's a good time to eat hot pot, drink sweet wine, talk to each other about topics that interest each other, laugh, not to mention, kill time!
Everyone chatted while eating, and as they chatted, they talked about the babies in the bellies of several pregnant women. As they continued chatting, they talked about giving birth to and raising children in the future.
I don’t know who it was, but they mentioned Liu Guangqi while talking, and then they talked about the children’s education. Then He Yuyu mentioned that Yan Jiedi came to the house yesterday, and talked about Yan Jie’s husband and wife Yan Jie’s recent relationship with Yan Bu.
What a conflict!
When everyone heard it, except for the deaf old lady, everyone else didn't believe it at first, especially Yi Zhonghai, who thought it was impossible.
"How is that possible?" Yi Zhonghai said in surprise: "I've been seeing Lao Yan every day these days, and he still smiles when he sees people. He doesn't look like he's having a conflict with their boss at all!
Yan Jiecheng is the eldest son of Lao Yan's family. If he had a conflict with Lao Yan, would Lao Yan still be able to laugh like this all day long?
What's more, Lao Yan has worked hard and frugally for their family for so many years. It's not easy. We outsiders can see it. How can their children know? Besides, Lao Yan is still a people's teacher.
, there is no way Yan Jiecheng could become like this, right? I don’t think so!
Rainwater, did you hear wrongly?"
"Master, how could I hear it wrong? It's impossible, I definitely didn't hear it wrong!
Not only was I listening, Brother Hongxuan was also listening, but Uncle Lu and Aunt Luo were also listening. Uncle Lu even asked Yan Jiedi what she wanted to say.
Brother Hongxuan felt that the three brothers in the third uncle's family were hopeless. He was afraid that Yan Jiedi would also be influenced by her three brothers. He also talked to Yan Jiedi a lot and told her not to imitate her three brothers, so he would never be wrong. Don't believe me.
ask them!"
Yi Zhonghai looked at Duan Hongxuan in surprise, Duan Hongxuan nodded at Yi Zhonghai, and Minister Lu also said to Yi Zhonghai: "Yuyu is right, we all heard it with our own ears yesterday!"
Yi Zhonghai frowned and said, "But I think Lao Yan's behavior has been quite normal these past two days!"
Silly Zhu reminded: "First uncle, you have forgotten that third uncle has always been a family scandal that should not be made public. Third uncle is very face-saving!"
"Well, if Yan Jiecheng and his wife are like this, doesn't it mean that they are no different from separated families except that they still live together?
Hiss! If Yan Jiecheng really wants to do this, what’s the difference between him and Liu Guangqi? Is it possible that our hospital will have a second Liu Guangqi? Lao Yan is a people’s teacher, why can’t he teach the children at home well?”
Yi Zhonghai really couldn’t figure it out!
The deaf old lady sighed and said: "Oh! This is not surprising. Yan Bugui's usual practices are followed by several children in his family. This stingy spirit will become
You only care about one person!"
Duan Hongxuan said: "What you want your children to learn is not just what you say or what you want your children to do, but what you do as a parent!"
The people who are most likely to influence children are the parents and family members in front of them. This is called teaching by words and deeds!
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! According to what Yan Jiedi said yesterday about their family's situation, they usually don't have enough to eat, but no matter what they eat or anything, the third uncle always gives everyone a strict quota.
You can clearly distinguish how much it should be, and you can eat what you want.
This kind of thing itself is nothing, you can live by it, but the key is that you need to let the children understand why you are doing this, because the family is in trouble! But it is life-threatening. The third uncle never explains to the children, only tells them that at home
So much food!
The children at home are all hungry. When they have finished their own bowls of rice, can they stop staring at others and finish their bowls? Over time, they have gradually become accustomed to thinking of filling their own stomachs first, and whether others can be full.
I won’t consider it!
In addition, the third uncle is usually stingy and arrogant in front of the children. Whether he is thinking about the leftovers that Brother Zhuzi often brings back from the steel rolling mill or the local specialties that Xu Damao brings back from the countryside, he is not interested at all.
Not carrying their children on their backs.
After getting something, I would show it off in front of the children when I got back. If I didn’t get something, I would still complain and say a few unpleasant words in front of the children, and also proudly teach them that they will have enough food and clothing.
If you fail to calculate, you will suffer poverty!
You said that several of their children have been learning these things from their father all day long since they were young. They have watched their father being stingy at home and scheming about other people's things. They are also proud of their success. Think about it for yourselves. How can you learn this?
what's good?"
After everyone listened to Duan Hongxuan's words, they thought about it one by one, and it suddenly dawned on them. The aunt asked Duan Hongxuan: "Does this mean that I have learned to calculate others and only care about myself since I was a child?"
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "That's right, Auntie!"
Si Zhu heard this and gloated: "Well, the third uncle has been plotting for so many years, but he didn't expect that he himself would be included in it in the end!
With Yan Jiecheng like this now, I wonder if he can provide for the third uncle in his old age in the future!
The eldest brother has set such an example for Yan Jiefang and Yan Jiekuang, who knows what they will become!
Hehe, now it’s time to have some fun!
How about I help Yan Jiecheng? When he goes to work after the Chinese New Year, I will help him find out where there are cheaper houses for rent outside, and let Yan Jiecheng know then!
When Yan Jiecheng finds a house outside, the young couple will definitely have to move out and live alone, and they will immediately separate from the third uncle. The third uncle's family can no longer hide this fact!
Hey hey hey!”
Yi Zhonghai scolded Silly Zhu: "Zhu Zhu, don't cause trouble here!"
Silly Zhu said: "Master, even if I don't help Yan Jiecheng inquire about the house, Yan Jiecheng will have to inquire about the house sooner or later!"
"Then don't get involved, and you shouldn't be so gloating! Old lady, do you think this matter can be undone?"
The deaf old lady shook her head: "Don't ask me about this, I don't know if I can win my old lady back!
But according to Yan Jiecheng's temperament, he shouldn't be so decisive for a while. I think this matter will most likely fall on the wife he married!"
Duan Hongxuan said: "Although Yan Jiecheng is a bit selfish and doesn't act like a big brother, he is a bit soft-tempered. If the wife he marries has a better character and a filial Gu family, he can control Yan Jiecheng."
This couple can also help the third uncle share the burden of supporting the family.
But if you marry a daughter-in-law who is equally selfish and only cares about herself, and then you have some gossip in front of Yan Jiecheng, it will be a different matter!"
Yu Li asked curiously: "Hongxuan, according to you, what Yan Jiecheng will become in the end depends entirely on what kind of wife he can choose?"
Duan Hongxuan nodded: "It's almost the same! Although it's not so absolute, 80% of the reason depends on what kind of wife Yan Jiecheng marries!
From this point of view, Yan Jiecheng is not as good as Liu Guangqi! Although both of them are white-eyed wolves, no matter what they do right or wrong, Liu Guangqi has his own opinion. When something happens, he has his own decision in his heart and knows what to do. He dares to act on his own
make a decision!
But Yan Jiecheng is different. Although he is also selfish, he lacks decision-making and dares not make up his mind when doing things. He is easily influenced by the outside world. When something happens, if you let him make his own decision, he will still
I really don’t have the courage!
If he hadn't gotten married and taken this wife, all his wages from the steel rolling mill would have been collected by the third uncle!
But what's so unlucky is that he married this wife, who was giving him advice and suggestions behind his back, so Yan Jiecheng had the courage to go against the third uncle!"
After everyone listened to Duan Hongxuan's words, the more they thought about it, the more they felt it made sense!
Silly Zhu nodded and said: "Now I understand, don't tell me, Hongxuan, you are quite right!
From this point of view, this Yan Jiecheng is a bit useless, let alone doing serious things. Even if he is a bad guy and a white-eyed wolf, he is not as quick and decisive as Liu Guangqi. This is really a waste!"
Yi Zhonghai sighed and said: "There is Liu Guangqi in Lao Liu's family, and now Yan Jiecheng is in Lao Yan's family. What the hell is going on in our courtyard!"
Suddenly, Shazhu couldn't hold it back and laughed out loud, "Pfft! This is a bit fun!"
The three uncles in the courtyard, the second uncle and the third uncle's children all have problems, and you are the only one left!
These two uncles have a lot of children at home, but no matter how many children they have, they will all be raised in vain in the end. They will all become white-eyed wolves. With so many children, no one will care for the elderly in the future. If this is the case, then it will really happen.
What a big joke!
Hello sir, although I don’t have children, I don’t have this worry anymore!
Hey, sir, do you think this is a blessing in disguise?"
When Yi Zhonghai heard this, he immediately became furious. He blew his beard and glared at Silly Zhu, "What are you talking about? You are talking nonsense here during the Chinese New Year. Otherwise, if your eldest mother is pregnant, I will say these few words to you today."
, I must give you two big mouths!"
Silly Zhu smiled flatteringly at Yi Zhonghai and said: "Hey, Master, didn't I dare to say this just because I saw a mother pregnant with a child? If you hadn't given us the courage, I wouldn't have dared to do it.
I'm kidding you about this!
The second uncle and the third uncle are a reminder to all of us that raising children not only requires them to grow up healthy and healthy, but also be careful not to raise a supercilious person!
Uncle Han's family has done very well. Their children are all filial and sensible. I will get closer to Uncle Han's family and learn from them to see how they educate their children!"
