Chapter 78 Helping the third uncle to teach his son
Yan Bugui didn't know what to say at this time. Although he tried his best to hold it back, his tears still couldn't stop falling.
The third aunt was holding Yan Bugui's arm beside her, shedding tears and covering her mouth with one hand, trying not to cry out.
The youngest, Yan Jiedi, could not stop crying at this time.
She cried and shouted: "Dad!" Then she ran over, threw herself into Yan Bugui's arms and cried bitterly!
The second and third eldest children of the Yan family couldn’t stop crying.
The boss Yan Jiecheng's eyes were also red, and he clenched his fists with both hands to prevent himself from crying in public.
Those who were watching the excitement, including the emotional ones, especially the women, were also shedding tears silently.
The first uncle Yi Zhonghai's eyes were red and he said to the second uncle next to him: "Old Liu! It's really not easy for this old Yan.
Our previous attitude and views towards him are really inappropriate now that we think about it!"
"Yes, I never thought it would be so difficult for Lao Yan.
It’s not easy especially to send four children to school.”
Second uncle Liu Haizhong also said a little embarrassed.
While everyone was there filled with emotion, they heard Duan Hongxuan continue to say: "Your brothers and sisters are young and have not considered these situations.
As the eldest son of your family, you are now an adult. If you don’t consider the actual situation at home, it only means that you have never worried about your family.
As the saying goes, the eldest brother is the father.
Look at Brother Zhuzhu, no matter how many faults he has, there is one thing he does very well.
Since his father abandoned the two siblings, when have you ever heard him complain to others about his father!
Not only did he not complain, he also had to comfort his sister.
As long as others dare to criticize his father in front of him, he will dare to fight you.
In this regard, you have not done what an eldest brother should do.
In this respect, you are far behind Brother Zhuzhu.
The third uncle is worried about supporting you brothers and sisters. In order for you to have a good future in the future, I will try my best to provide you with education.
Because of this, he had to be stingy and calculating.
The third aunt understands that it is not easy for the third uncle, so she cooperates with the third uncle as much as possible and manages the family as frugally as possible.
The old couple has exhausted their efforts for this family, and some things cannot be considered.
As the eldest son of the family, you should comfort your younger siblings in private and let them know how difficult it is for their parents.
Eliminate their dissatisfaction and complaints against their parents.
But it's better for you, instead of comforting them, you share the worries of your parents.
Instead, he complained with them in private.
Take the lead to blame your parents behind your back, and take the lead to deepen your brothers and sisters’ dissatisfaction with your parents.
You take the lead and let them see only the calculations and stinginess of the third uncle.
I didn’t see how much the third uncle had done for this family and how difficult it was for him.
As the saying goes, everything thrives when the family is in harmony.
You are leading the way to make your brothers and sisters complain and even resent your parents.
What are you doing?
You are taking the lead and acting like a white-eyed wolf!"
Yan Jiecheng was so ashamed by Duan Hongxuan's words that he couldn't even raise his head with shame.
"Brother Xie Cheng, you are already at work. I heard that you are not satisfied with the third uncle asking you to give your salary to your family.
A brother is like a father!
You work and earn money, but you still have underage brothers and sisters at home, so you have the responsibility and obligation to shoulder the burden of the family with your parents!
The third uncle asked you to give most of your salary to your family. Did he and the third aunt spend it?
It’s not all spent on you brothers and sisters!
For the sake of your future, the third uncle has never been stingy in your education!
You graduated from high school but did not enter college.
The third uncle will find you a job, and he won’t be stingy about favors.
You are going to have sex soon, and then you have to get married.
In your family’s situation, there’s really nothing you can do about watches, sewing machines, etc.
At best, you can just bite the bullet and buy a bicycle, but you have to use it as a whole family.
This is no longer easy!
The expenses for getting married, marrying a wife, buying a house, etc. all have to be considered by the third uncle.
Is the little money you paid enough?
It is not enough to have a wife, not to mention that as the eldest brother, you help the family raise the underage siblings. This is what you should do!
You just said that because the reputation of the third uncle's stinginess has spread to the alley, you can't hold your head up when you go out.
You want face, but the third uncle doesn’t want face?
In order not to starve you to death, and for your future, he provides for you to go to school.
There is no way he can get this reputation and face.
Facing other people's strange eyes and letting others laugh behind your back, it's just so that you four brothers and sisters can have a good future in the future!
Put yourself in another person’s shoes and put you, Yan Jiecheng, or anyone else in the position of the third uncle. Which of you can do what he does?
I believe no one can do it better than him!
If I were you, Yan Jiecheng, and I met someone else outside, I would laugh at the third uncle’s stingy schemes in front of me.
I won’t fight with him, I will hold my chest up and my head up.
Then he told him loudly and proudly that his father, with an income below the per capita poverty line, did not ask for relief from the country, so that no one in the family of six starved to death.
Moreover, it can also provide schooling for four children, and support me until I graduate from high school.
Now I am still providing for my three younger siblings. My three younger siblings are the worst and they will be able to get high school diplomas in the future.
Moreover, as his father is the third uncle in the courtyard, no matter how difficult it is for the family.
As long as I encounter people calling for donations in the yard, even if it is not much, I have never been left behind.
I will ask the other party loudly, can your family do it?
If your parents were to encounter our family's situation, would they be as good as my dad?
Is there any family in the alley that can provide a few high school students?
Then what qualifications do you have to laugh at my dad?
I, Yan Jie, am proud and proud to have such a father!
You, Yan Jiecheng, actually feel that you have no face? You have such a father, how can you lose face?
This is giving you face!
If you really encounter those people who continue to laugh at the third uncle, then you can only say that they are just confused assholes.
There is no need to deal with such people anymore, and don’t talk to them in the future!
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As the eldest brother, you should set a good example for the younger brothers and sisters below!
Not only are you not proud of the third uncle, but you feel that he has embarrassed you, and you have conveyed this negative emotion and perspective to your younger brothers and sisters.
Why?
Because you are selfish and only consider your own feelings, without considering the actual situation of your family.
I have never put myself in the third uncle’s shoes and considered it.
I never considered my parents’ difficulties, only my own dissatisfaction.
I also brought this dissatisfaction to my younger brothers and sisters.
Let them have a grudge against the third uncle and the third aunt since childhood.
Ask yourself, does this boss think you are qualified?"
Duan Hongxuan’s words were truly enlightening to Yan Jiecheng!
Yan Jiecheng felt deeply regretful, guilty, and hating himself.
The people watching the excitement around were talking a lot, and most of them were talking about how difficult it was for Yan Bugui, and how ignorant Yan Jiecheng, the boss, was.
Duan Hongxuan looked at the tearful Yan Bugui, patted his arm with emotion and said: "Third uncle, since your boss is unwilling to pay money to the family.
Then let’s forget it and won’t take his share.
If you didn't have his share before, you still managed to survive.
Now you won’t take his share, he will go there by himself, and you will lose a mouth to eat.
No matter what, it’s better than before, isn’t it?”
Yan Bugui was already crying and speechless.
Yan Jiecheng finally couldn't hold back his tears at this time. He walked up to Yan Bugui and said with a cry: "Dad, I'm sorry! I was wrong!
I failed to be a good brother!"
Yan Bugui shed tears while patting Yan Jiecheng's arm and said: "It's okay, it's okay. Dad is also responsible.
Dad usually doesn’t communicate with you much!”
"Dad, I will give all my salary to my family from now on."
Yan Bugui stopped him and said, "No, I didn't think twice about it. My family was too short of money before and I was afraid of being poor!
I didn’t consider that you are now grown up, working, and have somewhere to spend money!
Let’s discuss it later and you should keep more money in your own hands!”
When Yan Jiecheng heard this, he immediately put his arms around Yan Bugui's shoulders, called out "Dad", and then burst into tears!
At this time, the first uncle Yi Zhonghai walked out from the crowd and said loudly: "Everything will be prosperous when the family is in harmony!
Lao Yan! Everyone misunderstood you before, even me.
I am here to apologize to you first!
From now on, no one in our courtyard will be allowed to bring up the matter of the third uncle’s scheme and stingy.
I understand that you brothers and sisters also heard it today. Go back and think about it carefully, and be more considerate and considerate of your father in the future!
Especially Jie Cheng, as the eldest brother, you must set an example for the younger brothers and sisters below!
What Hongxuan said was so good, it made my blood boil with excitement!
You should stand up tall and be proud of your dad from now on!"
Yan Jiecheng cried and said to Yi Zhonghai: "Master, I remember it!
I will definitely change it in the future!"
Yi Zhonghai patted Yan Jiecheng on the shoulder, "It doesn't matter if you are wrong, it's good to know your mistakes and be able to correct them!"
Then he turned around and shouted to the people around him: "Okay! Stop watching the fun.
Today, I have taught you a lesson. Let’s think about it carefully when we go back.