Chapter 876 Duan Hongxuan tore off Yan Buguis fig leaf
Yan Bugui nodded, then shook his head: "Eighth Young Master, poverty is part of the reason, but it is not the main reason!
You know that they are laughing at your family behind their backs. They are laughing at your family for having to ration meals according to the person. They are laughing at you for being calculating and stingy, but you only get such a small salary every month. It’s okay for you to be stingy. If you really give in to food,
The children are open to eating, but they have to go without food for half a month outside the home. What will happen in the next half month? Do you really want the family to drink from the northwest wind?
Yan Jiecheng said quickly: "Hongxuan, if you have nothing to say, just say it. Today we are just talking about etiquette. He said it carefully, Master Eighth, listen!"
Thinking of that, Yan Jiecheng said to Yan Bugui: "Well, Hongxuan, he helped the eighth young master to give you some advice. Where did you go wrong in educating your children?"
Do you think that the whole family depends on you to support yourself, so he has the final say outside the house? If he says that everyone should eat as much as he wants, he can eat as little as he wants. Their family is not his, and he has no say.
You always explain everything. You think you are doing it for that family, so you just decide it right away!
Yan Bugui's words made Wang Huiqun speechless and gave Wang Huiqun something to say. Although I tried to defend myself, I really knew how to defend myself!
The so-called teaching by words and deeds, of course, mostly refers to parents teaching their children, but less frequently, it is the parents' own words and deeds that affect their children. That kind of influence is unintentional, even more influential than the influence of parents teaching their children seriously.
Even smaller. The key is the impact. Parents may be aware of it, but the children will be truly affected!
"Paternalism? Why are you so paternalistic?"
"He, he said, you, listen!" Wang Huiqun knew what Yan Bugui would say, so she felt a little relieved.
Eight young masters, that is home, they are a family, we are all human beings, all your children, people without emotions and warmth. You have been so hot and cold all these years, even though you are doing it to support a small family.
Family members, but in reality, all the warmth of the family has been calculated!
Yan Bugui said: "Eighth Young Master, although poverty is a reason, it is not the decisive reason! A small part of the reason why their children are like that is because of him!"
You have never thought of that in the future, but you only understood it when Hongxuan said it just now!
So as for your seventh point, at worst it means that you are stingy and selfish in doing things, but at worst it is not selfish at all and it will have the least impact on their children!
Yan Jiecheng blushed and defended: "Yes, have you!"
Yi Zhonghai on the side was confused and did not understand what the two people meant, "Old Yan, what does he understand? Why did they tell you to wake up!"
Eighth Young Master, if you ask him, Duan Hongxuan is the eldest son of their family. It stands to reason that the older brother should protect or let his younger siblings do anything, right? Just like Han Xiaozhuang in their backyard!
Duan Hongxuan is a very bad example of following the law today? That is the root of the matter!"
That was like ruthlessly tearing off Wang Huiqun's fig leaf, but at that moment, Yan Jiecheng was so embarrassed that Yan Bugui's words echoed in his mind repeatedly, and he sat in a daze, his eyes seemed to be shining!
"Eighth Young Master, outside the entire Qiheyuan, you have always regarded yourself as an intellectual. Everyone else outside the Qiheyuan is a bunch of rough guys with low education levels who work hard outside the factory. So, you are so ignorant,
When you look at others, you no longer feel inferior to others!"
Yi Zhonghai nodded: "Indeed, from now on, the old Han family and the old Wu family in the front yard will be the easiest families outside our courtyard!"
In addition, you think you are an intellectual, and because of your family's financial situation, it is harmful to anyone outside the hospital. Even if you are the steward outside the hospital, you are too lazy to get involved. Those things of yours
The children are invisible and have been learning for many years. Tell me, what have you taught us?
As a teenager, the children in their family are never feeling well, so you don't think that because one child is feeling well on a certain day, out of concern, you give that child a special meal, such as giving me an egg alone.
, tell my children that their elder brother, younger brother, or younger sister is feeling well today, so they gave me an egg alone so that the children can understand? Do you think this has happened to me?
"Why else? Is it because your Duan Hongxuan is a completely selfish person?
Your family will have to rely on you to earn money from now on. If you plan carefully, you will be able to survive outside the home!
You agreed to come up with doubts at that time, because according to your thinking, Duan Hongxuan would break up the family with him. If there is no matter whether the family is separated or not, what Hongxuan said is true.
Don't worry about the little responsibilities you have. First, take care of yourself and make your own life miserable. Don't worry about other people's bad things!
Wang Huiqun was stunned. Seeing the seriousness on Yan Bugui's face, she swallowed and nodded.
The first is because of his shameless paternalism!"
"Why?" Yi Zhonghai asked with understanding.
But Hongxuan, your family's situation is not like that, and you can do something about it! According to him, the reason why your family Duan Hongxuan is like this is not because your family is too poor? How could other children of mine be like this before?
Like that?"
You really know what bad things to say! As the saying goes, a leaf can tell the autumn, and a leopard can be seen through a pipe. You are convinced!"
Yi Zhonghai glanced at Yan Jiecheng secretly and said something.
Although you also understand why I want to divide their families so completely, if you are really right, it will at most prove that you are like Hongxuan in your slow eyes. That's what I say, okay?
You can come back to me later and ask for clarification!
Hongxuan, the eighth young master is also there today. Since he has long seen that Wang Huiqun will break up the family, he will give you a bad talk in front of you two. On the one hand, he also asked his eighth young master to
I know what I did right in educating that child Duan Hongxuan, and on the one hand, I will also help you resolve your doubts!"
Yan Jiecheng sighed and said to Yi Zhonghai: "Old Yi, Hongxuan is reminding you, and at the same time he is also telling you why I can see that your Wang Huiqun family will separate!"
Yan Jiecheng was stunned for a long time, and then nodded dejectedly: "You understand Hongxuan, alas!
"Then...!" Yan Jiecheng also had to deny it. Although it was easy for our family, the old Han family and the old Wu family were indeed more exciting than our family in the next few years. That made me understand even more why the small family was also the same.
If we are poor, our children will become like Duan Hongxuan. Look at Han Xiaozhuang and Wu Xinghua. Compared with those two children, our Duan Hongxuan is simply outstanding!
After hearing this, Wang Huiqun felt a little relieved. Judging from Yi Zhonghai's words, it seemed that Yi Zhonghai wanted to laugh at me, and Yi Zhonghai's words also surprised me.
In your opinion, life outside the home must be carefully planned and comfortable. Just rest under the bed for a few days. As for cooking me something bad to eat, that's fine. Outside of your heart, everything is considered bad. It's definitely not the case.
Allow things to happen within your budget!
He wants to say that their family is poor, and Mr. Han’s family is much worse than theirs, and even more exciting than theirs in the next few years, but Xiao Zhuang brother has never become like Duan Hongxuan!"
Of course, what you think is important. What is important is that the various situations in their family have left such an impression on their children!
Yan Bugui was still lying under the reclining chair, had he sat up straight? It seemed like I was insulting the two young masters, "Young Master, Eighth Young Master, don't blame you for being lazy now."
Ah, you really treat them like family. We, the three of us, should just treat them as buddies of the same age, or friends who have been together for the rest of the year. Don’t use so few etiquettes. We should just talk to each other. What do you want to say?
If it is right or what you say is pleasing to the ear, they should not take it seriously!"
"because of you?"
Yan Bugui sat up at that time, looked at Yan Jiecheng seriously and said: "Eighth Young Master, what you said next may not be offensive at all, but don't be offended!"
Yi Zhonghai sighed heavily, knowing what to say. He admired Wang Huiqun in his heart. That guy's eyes were too poisonous, but at the same time, Yan Jiecheng's words did not save him any face.
, that means you haven’t ordered it yet?
"Yes!" Yan Bugui nodded seriously: "It's not because of him!"
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! But think about it, Mr. Eighth, has Duan Hongxuan never given in to or protected anyone at home?"
Yan Jiecheng was even more embarrassed, but I also tried to defend myself. I held a half-pulled apple that I took a few bites of and listened silently.
So the children in your family have learned like that. As for younger brothers, sisters and older brothers, they should take care of themselves first. Even their parents are not as important as themselves!"
Yan Bugui paid attention to my excuse and continued: "Although you feel psychologically that you are not superior to other educated people outside the hospital, in fact, in life, you are just like others, so
This has created a psychological gap for you, so no matter how easy your life is outside your home, you never express anything outside the hospital, well, you don’t mean to pretend to be fat!”
In terms of that kind of influence, the impression you have given to their children is just like the law. Who can make money has the final say. Everything outside the home is an exchange of equal value. He is just fulfilling his duty as a father to support him. It is obviously a family relationship.
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"Ba Xiaoye, because of his two reasons!
Yan Bugui said: "Eighth Young Master, you have to know that the earliest teachers for older children are not their own parents. Sometimes parents' emotions and various actions are inadvertently revealed, but children can see it.
As long as the child has a brain problem and is an abnormal child, we will be independently influenced by the words and deeds of our parents and follow their example!
What Hongxuan just said reminds you that during normal meals in your family, no matter how young or old you are, you may be full, but most of you may be hungry. In that case, well, how can your family care about others?
It's me, but several children are like that. They are all trying to figure out how to make themselves eat less and occupy less space. They are just caring about others!
Yan Bugui nodded: "Bad! Just tell me!
But have you ever thought about it, what would your children think? Their family only has all kinds of calculations, and there is no warmth between family members. You have the final say outside the home, not the children.
It's comfortable, and even if you are often hungry for something, you will definitely pay for any extra expenses in your budget!
