Chapter 878 Duan Hongxuans advice to Yan Bugui (Part 2)
Duan Hongxuan's words didn't sound good, but with Yan Bugui's mind, he also knew that Duan Hongxuan was right!
Yan Jiecheng broke up the family, which caught Yan Bugui off guard and made him angry, but at the same time it also made him see clearly what kind of character the boss of their family was!
It is precisely because of this that Yan Bugui, who has always regarded himself as an intellectual and has a good reputation, cannot accept it!
Now all this has been torn apart by Duan Hongxuan, and the bloody truth is laid out in front of him, forcing Yan Bugui to admit that he, an intellectual, has completely failed in educating his children!
Seeing that Yan Bugui was severely hit, Duan Hongxuan smiled and said to Yan Bugui: "Third uncle, I asked the first uncle to do that, but in fact it was a bit too much to meddle in other people's affairs!
You and the third aunt, you are too soft-hearted. Yan Jiecheng is your biological son who you have raised for so many years. No matter how angry you are with Yan Jiecheng now, if one day the younger couple brings something to go home with smiles, I dare you.
I guarantee that you and the third aunt will be able to settle the feud with them immediately!"
Yan Bugui nodded: "If they really know they made a mistake one day, they have to give the children a chance to correct their mistakes, right?"
"Haha, third uncle!" Duan Hongxuan smiled and shook his head: "You know you made a mistake? Correct it?
I can guarantee that one day Yan Jiecheng and his wife will come back with smiling faces, or he will come back to ask you or the uncle for help, or he thinks that your family is rich now and your life is better than theirs, and he wants to come back to take advantage.
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The formation of a person's personality and various concepts is a process that accumulates over time. If you want to change it in a short period of time, unless you encounter some small things or encounter a major blow, otherwise, it is basically impossible!
Now we are separated from each other at once. That is not written in white. Without those, if we really wanted to come back and cause trouble with your family outside the hospital, the hospital outside the hospital would have no excuse to participate and withdraw. Without those of us outside the hospital
If you participate, we will see you and our little mother suffer, right?
Just like that, on the New Year's day, in the windy and snowy evening, the old man was thrown under the wall, riding miserably under the wall alone!
Yan Danqi shook his head: "Ba Xiaoye, you can guarantee that! But do you think that if you really change some of the ways of doing things outside your home, you should also make some changes yourself and do some things outside the hospital?"
, he must bear the burdens he should bear, and he must let his children know why he has to do some things that are difficult and bring harm to others.
The old man’s two sons are really great!”
"Thank you Hongxuan, thank you so much!"
"Haha, Mr. Eighth, the house is the most important property now, and you are just poor now.
Then the number of visits and visits is reduced, which gives the children an impression that the situation outside the home is like that. The family is less considerate of each other. If he lets you and you let him, do you think that is better than the hot and cold daily life in their home?
Personal rations are less bad!
"Ba Xiaoye, you used to be at home, please change your behavior slightly in the future!"
Thinking of that, Yi Zhonghai couldn't help but admire Yan Bugui for taking such a long-term consideration, and Yan Danqi also thanked Yan Bugui profusely!
When Yan Bugui said that, Xiaojia realized that it was indeed like that. If there hadn't been the agreement reached by the whole hospital's small meeting, Duan Hongxuan would really come back one day to make some trouble about dividing the family property. Others are really bad.
Intervene, because it is someone else's housework, so there is an excuse. How can someone get involved and withdraw?
Yan Danqi felt that it was both funny and sad. In the future, if he really uses military tactics on his children in order to let them support him in old age, it can only mean that parents will achieve complete victory under the education of their children!
At that time, Yan Jiecheng suddenly thought that his wife's body was still strong at that time, and he quickly said to Yan Danqi: "By the way, Hongxuan, because of the matter between Duan Hongxuan and his wife, his eighth mistress had nothing to do in the past two days.
Comfortable, let him see if he can...!"
But as time passed, the two sons and daughter-in-law became more and more impatient with the old man. At first, everyone wanted to take care of the old man. The old man should go to Lao Qi's house that month. Lao Qi said that our family met that month.
Nothing is easy, let the old man go to Lao Xiao's home!
Seeing every family enjoying the New Year's Eve dinner without any fuss, and the old man riding up and down the wall all by himself, the old man felt so sad that he had worked so hard to raise two sons, and now he ended up in this situation!
Originally, the old man was at Lao Xiao's house, but Lao Qi insisted on opening the door, and Lao Xiao pushed the old man under the wall, trying to push the old man from under the wall to the outside of Lao Qi's yard, but Lao Qi also pushed the old man outside the house to let him go.
When I came up, the first one, the youngest and the seventh, threw the old man under the wall and no one was in charge!
But based on Dan Qi’s temperament, do I really come back to honor the old couple when I go home? This is coming back to find harm. If there are harms or we encounter difficulties, we will come back!
Both children are married and starting a business, and their homes were bought by the old man. The old man put the two children's homes next to each other, with two courtyards of green bricks and blue tiles.
The courtyard is separated by a wall, and the old man still lives outside the old dilapidated courtyard.
Yan Jiecheng nodded: "Okay, you can try it later!
Yan Bugui shook his head and said: "That story is not funny at all, but if you really think about it, it's actually a kind of sadness!
That day I met a young man celebrating the New Year. My two sons pushed him back and forth, but everyone wanted the old man to celebrate the New Year at his own home.
Yan Jiecheng nodded awkwardly, and said slowly along Dan Qishuang: "Okay, if there is a problem, what kind of difficulty is it!"
After finishing the summary of "Riding on the Wall", Yan Bugui smiled and said to Yan Dan: "Eighth Young Master, as long as you have a conscience, you have done everything you should do, and as long as you are more open-minded, yes
They care too little and live their lives happily with the eighth little mother, making the children feel that what they are doing is wrong.
Hongxuan, Mr. Ba thanks him for thinking so long-term for you and his mom, but with your family’s situation, you still don’t have much wealth!”
Each child specially gave me an egg or something when he was sick, and also told the other two children to ask us to be less considerate, and so on."
"Eighth Young Master, did we say that the bad thing is over? Why do you bring it up again? Yan Jiedi and Yuyu are having fun together. I don't have time for you to come over to Yuyu to play with you!
I have never seen you worry about their family in the future. Now they have to raise one more son, and the financial situation outside the family is worse than before, so you have nothing to worry about!"
Qin Jingru explained: "Brother Hongxuan, the family has already been divided. How could Duan Hongxuan and us still be so angry with the eighth young master and the eighth mistress?"
When you go back, you can be regarded as the eighth little mother. It’s really worth getting angry for such a filial son. If something like that happens, you should let yourself live a happy life!"
You are a filial and unselfish child. I see that you and the eighth mistress are living a wrong life. As a shrewd person like you, hehe, whether it is Duan Hongxuan or Yan Jiefang, you can fool us all!
"Ba Xiaoye, what do you suggest? Their family should start with eating. They used to eat, so don't draw any more lines!"
Yan Jiecheng smiled bitterly and said: "Oh! That's the only way!"
Speaking of which, Yan Danqi didn't even mean to say it in a bad way, and Yan Bugui said: "Are you saying that you want me to help Eighth Little Mom take a look at her body?"
With our temperaments, if we come back every once in a while to mess with them and make them angry, you are really afraid that we will make you and the eighth little mother angry!
The old man was riding under the wall and weeping bitterly. At that time, a Taoist priest who had been helped by the old man came to repay his kindness. It was a young man celebrating the New Year, and it was late at night and it was still snowing. The old man was riding under the wall in tatters and was crying bitterly.
, the Taoist priest was slightly startled, and quickly got off and asked the old man what was going on.
Yan Bugui nodded and gave us a brief summary of "Riding on the Wall".
Moreover, the old man has saved a lot of money. In the past, the money was left to whichever son was filial. Those two were stupid sons who were filial, so the father who had no money had better take it home and take care of it!
An old man, in order to let his children support me in old age, had to resort to such measures. This shows how selfish my children are!
Now that it's broken, without such a white-paper agreement, Duan Hongxuan really wants to come back someday to share some of the bad things. This is just a family matter. I didn't say it. It can be said that people from the inner courtyard came to find Qihe.
Of course the people in Qiheyuan have no excuse to defend Yan Jie because of the troubles caused by the people in the hospital!
Yan Danqi looked at Yan Jiecheng with a smile and said: "With Master Ba's bad face, if we come home again as a couple someday, Master Ba and Mistress Ba will be welcome!"
If there is not such a blank piece of paper, Duan Hongxuan really wants to come back to make some trouble with you someday. It is just a chore outside your home. If you don't want to help you and the eighth mistress, at least you won't stand on your side.
A few words of criticism from the side, and others really have no way to intervene!"
Qin Jingru was also very happy when she heard this, "Brother Hongxuan, this is so funny, this Taoist priest is so stupid, he can come up with such a bad idea!
If the Eighth Young Master doesn't do anything right in the future, he will be the one to stay. He..."
But before he finished thanking him, Yan Danqi shook his head with a wry smile: "Property? How can you get any property from your broken family? Except for those two broken houses, your family is really poor now!
All eight people shook their heads, indicating that they knew the story.
Before the two sons buried the old man, they went to dig out a box outside the old yard according to the note left by the old man. As a result, a letter was left outside the box. In the letter, they recalled how the old man shitted him.
The two sons were raised in a hurry, and the various hardships in the process of raising the two sons, and finally how the two sons were filial when they were old, made the two sons extremely ashamed before reading it!
Let me tell you a story outside of the play! I know they have never heard of "Riding on the Wall"!"
What you said today is because you believe it, let's go and see!
Originally, the two sons had a bad agreement and asked the old man to live in the two sons' homes alternately once a month.
After hearing this, Yi Zhonghai chuckled: "Hahaha, Hongxuan, he has mastered all the art of war!"
"Oh! Hongxuan, thank you so much!
Before the two sons heard the rumor, they quickly sneaked outside the old man's house to take a look. Only then did they find that the old man was happily drinking wine and eating meat. Judging from the old man's expression, he seemed to be worried about the two of them.
My son is in charge of me!
Hedong in the 1980s, Hexi in the 1980s. Who knows what your family will be like in a dozen years? If you know how to live well, in a few years, when all the children are working, you can always save some more.
Family property!
A few days ago, there were no rumors outside the village that the old man had actually secretly hidden a sum of money. The old man would be so capable in the future, but he would not only raise his two sons young, but also buy things for them.
In the courtyard with green bricks and small tiles, he has married a wife in a happy life. With the old man's ability and shrewdness, can he leave some pension money for himself?
Yi Zhonghai nodded: "Old Yan, you think Hongxuan's method is wrong, he sees it!"
You go and show Eight Little Mommies now!"
The old man who came here is young and has the ability to work, so he has to rely on others to take care of him even for his livelihood.
To put it bluntly, Mr. Ba, if you want to take advantage of fourteen thousand yuan, and you are a filial child, even if the family is separated, we will probably have to come to your home every seven days to give you and Ba Xiao
Mom does her best to be filial!
Just like that, the old man finally spent his old age comfortably!
Besides, whether you use the art of war depends on whether the children are filial or not. Even if the children are really filial, it also depends on whether the eighth young master can be open-minded and open-minded!"
Yan Danqi's face turned red, and Yan Bugui continued: "What's the situation outside the home? I probably don't have enough food every month. I told the children about it, so that we all know that it's not easy outside the home.
So you think it will have no effect after all, but when the time comes, the effect will not be small, and it will affect how many children outside your home? Then you know!
Yan Jiecheng looked at Yan Bugui and said, "Hongxuan, tell me, how does he think you should change?"
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading! Children who are really filial to them will not be unhappy for them, and they will still be filial when they should be!
But the Eighth Young Master, let’s go a step further. Even if the first seven children in your family will be in charge of the elderly when they grow up, you don’t think they will be too entangled!
The play "Riding on the Wall" tells the story of a family of eight in ancient times. The man outside the family died early, and the woman worked hard to raise her two sons until they were young, and then married both children.
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But Hongxuan, can that method really help children outside the home learn to be humble to each other and learn to love each other?"
At meal time, his children may be full, so you can discuss with them. For example, Jie Di, there is too much food left in the pot. His seventh and eighth brothers are girls and are younger than him, so they consume less.
, maybe he can help us add less, if he really has enough, dad can give him some extra from the bowl, or something like that!
Mr. Eighth, please relax your mind now and make some changes from now on. If you have done all the things you should do badly, leave the result to God!
Yi Zhonghai nodded: "Yes, Lao Yan, what Hongxuan said is wrong. Now that they have one more person in their family, they can save a few dollars a month, but life will be less tight than in the future. If it lasts for a long time, he
Then we can accumulate some wealth again!”
What do you think, Mr. Ba!"
The other thing is that, as far as the current situation of your family is concerned, compared with the future, you have one more mouth to eat. Duan Hongxuan has to pay some living expenses to your family every month. So when you leave and leave, your family will be comparable.
If their situation gets worse in the future, their family will be able to live a better life in the future, let alone now!
Before understanding the old man's situation, the Taoist priest did not come to the old man to repay his kindness, so he gave the old man an idea, left some money for the old man, and helped the old man return to the shabby house where he originally lived!
Yan Bugui also smiled and said: "Master, is there a way?
Of course, how to do it is your business! If the children are really filial in the future, we will also be really angry. This is just the past and the wrong!
When the youngest and the seventh went back to discuss with their wives, they all thought that the rumors outside the village were true. Then they rushed to take the old man home and served him with bad intentions. But every time we made insinuations and asked about the pension money the old man had hidden,
The old man said with a smile that the money from the past would be given to us. This made the two sons feel more and more that the old man must have hidden a lot of money, so they became more and more attentive to the old man!