I can't hide my surprise when I hear the cherry blossoms.
In his previous life, Lao Wen had always stayed in his hometown in the county.
I have been transferred to work in Chengdu in this life, which is better than in the previous life. But according to Lao Wen, I actually have new opportunities now——
It makes the leader want to take him with him when he is transferred. This shows that Lao Wen's work ability has been recognized by the leader. If he is transferred to other provinces with the leader, he will be the right-hand man trusted by the leader!
Lao Wen is only 43 years old this year. He still has a lot of room for improvement in his career. He has always been a fan of officials. When he encountered such a good opportunity, he did not agree to it. Instead, he frowned.
Wen Ying was really surprised: "Where did the leader ask you to follow?"
Wen Dongrong sighed: "Going to Jinling is a hundred and eighty thousand miles away from Rongcheng. I don't want to go."
Wen Ying didn't believe it at all. "I really don't want to go. What are you so worried about? I won't even mention it when I come back!"
——You can see that I still want to go!
Wen Dongrong glared hard at this black-hearted little cotton-padded jacket whose dignity and reputation were so ruined.
"What do you know……"
As he spoke, he looked at the study door.
Tigress entered the study and never came out. I wonder if she heard what he said?
Of course Wen Dongrong wants to go to Jinling!
When he was young, he was unwilling to marry the leader's daughter, so he sat on the bench for several years. Later, he was re-employed due to his pen skills. After all, he wasted a few good years.
If those few years had not been delayed, he would definitely have gone higher.
Now that things have turned around and he has met a big leader who appreciates him, Wen Dongrong knows how rare this opportunity is.
If he misses this time, he may regret it for the rest of his life!
When the leader talked to Wen Dongrong, he didn't respond immediately because he was worried about what his wife Chen Ru would think.
Chen Ru now is not the Chen Ru before.
In the past, Chen Ru just went to work and didn't have much career pursuits. Now that Wen Dongrong has the opportunity to work in another province, Chen Ru can follow... Now Chen Ru's career is developing very well, why should she accommodate Wen Dongrong?
Rong ran away to other places?
Wen Dongrong had already tasted what it was like for a couple to be separated in two places, and he didn't want to taste it a second time.
So Wen Dongrong was very confused.
On the one hand, he was reluctant to give up this opportunity, and on the other hand, he didn't want to be separated from the tigress at home.
Wen Ying looked her father up and down and said, "Dad, you have indeed changed a lot."
Being entangled means that Lao Wen is not as selfish as before. He no longer regards his own career pursuit as the first goal in life and knows how to consider the feelings of his family.
This is a big deal.
Wen Ying proposed to hold an impromptu family meeting to discuss whether Wen Dongrong should follow the leader to work in Jinling.
"Let's analyze the pros and cons first, and then make a decision by voting~"
Wen Ying's suggestion was the best way at the moment. Wen Dongrong nodded slowly. Wen Ying invited Chen Ru out of the study. Chen Ru didn't say a word and was obviously undecided.
Do you want to stop it?
Chen Ru knew that if she objected strongly, Wen Dongrong would definitely give up this opportunity.
Chen Ru does have many reasons to be right.
Following the leader to Jinling, Wen Dongrong got the opportunity, but the city of Jinling was not only unfamiliar to Wen Dongrong, but the leader was also unfamiliar.
No one is sure how long the leader will last there and whether the work can be carried out smoothly!
Only if the leadership is excellent, Wen Dongrong will have a platform to display his abilities. If the leadership is not good, Wen Dongrong will not be able to move up or down.
It was easy to go there, but not easy to come back. Even if I could go back to Chengdu, would there still be a place for Wen Dongrong in my current unit?
"Every choice is a gamble, a gamble on luck and a gamble on your future. No one can decide for you."
Wen Ying couldn't tell from Chen Ru's tone whether Chen Ru agreed or opposed. Chen Ru's tone was too bland.
Wen Dongrong turned his attention to Heixinmian.
Although she was unwilling to admit it, Wen Ying had proven to her parents that she was capable of decision-making and execution through her excellent performance in the past three years. At this critical moment, Wen Dongrong subconsciously wanted to seek Wen Ying's opinion.
Wen Ying would not make decisions for Wen Dongrong, "I have the right to vote, but my mother has the right to veto. Whether your career develops well or poorly whether you stay in Chengdu or go to Jinling, you are my father.
The blood relationship between the two is endless. But you and my mother are different. After all, parents and children can only accompany you for a certain journey. My mother is your long-term partner... When you go to work in Jinling, it will affect you.
Relationship with my mother."
Wen Ying has never been married.
But Wen Ying knows that many couples will face Wen Dongrong's current situation.
When your partner has better development opportunities, should your partner support and help you?
Chen Ru is willing to support Lao Wen. That is Lao Wen's luck. He has been blessed for ten lifetimes to marry such a reasonable and good wife like Chen Ru!
Chen Ru doesn't support it, which is reasonable.
The decision-making power lies not only in the hands of Chen Ru, but also in the hands of Wen Dongrong.
If Wen Dongrong insists on following his leader to Jinling and working hard for his career, then he will have to bear the risk of the couple being separated. Wen Dongrong cannot take all the benefits by himself!
Chen Ru let him choose, and Wen Ying also let him choose. Both his wife and daughter gave him respect, but Wen Dongrong was confused.
Wen Dongrong, who had quit smoking for a long time, ran to the kitchen and turned on the range hood. He squatted in the kitchen and smoked two cigarettes alone. When he returned to the living room, he had already made up his mind.
"I will reject the leader's kindness tomorrow and choose to stay in Chengdu."
What's more important, career or family?
How should personal ideals and men's responsibilities be weighed?
At this moment, Wen Dongrong made his choice.
He doesn't know if he will regret it in the future, but right now, he can't afford the risk of family discord!
Chen Ru's tone was still calm, "Have you made up your mind? I really respect your choice. You can't give up going to Jinling today and blame me for holding you back in the future."
"I'm not that kind of person."
Maybe it used to be, but it's not anymore.
Wen Dongrong suppressed his disappointment and regret, patted the armrest of the sofa, and asked Wen Ying to take out the admission notice from Aurora University and read it.
"I didn't even see clearly just now!"
Chen Ru sneered, "You are still in the mood to appreciate the admission notice. If I were you, I would definitely feel uncomfortable to death... You have already made your choice. Now it is my turn to express my opinion. I support you in going to Jinling."
This is truly a turn of events.
Chen Ru's reasonableness confused Wen Dongrong.
He subconsciously denied it: "If I leave, it could be as short as one or two years, or as long as three to five years. Can't we live apart for a long time?"
There was a smile in Wen Ying's eyes.
In the past three years, Lao Wen has not only learned to be a "father", but also learned to be a qualified "husband".
If Lao Wen asked his wife to give up her job and follow him as soon as Lao Wen opened his mouth, not only would Manager Chen not agree to Lao Wen going to Jinling, but he would also blow Lao Wen's head.
Just because Lao Wen didn't mention it, Manager Chen was very reasonable.
Sure enough, Chen Ru snorted coldly, "Don't think too far ahead now. I'll give you one year. If you successfully work in Jinling for one year, I will also change my job to Jinling!"
"You, are you willing-"
Wen Dongrong was surprised.
Chen Ru certainly has no worries about finding a job in Jinling.
With ability, academic qualifications, and many years of banking work experience, Chen Ru would still be hungry if she went to a first-tier city like Beijing or Shanghai, not to mention Jinling!
But it was one thing to find a job. Wen Dongrong felt heartbroken for Chen Ru when she gave up her career situation in Chengdu.
After going to Jinling, Chen Ru may not be able to get the current income. The existing big customers will not follow Chen Ru, and Chen Ru will have to start over again!
Wen Dongrong thought of Chen Ru's efforts to stay up late and read at night, and felt that he really shouldn't take this matter home and talk about it.
"Forget it, it's a pity that you gave up your job and went to Jinling. I just thought about it seriously. Mom is getting older, and I also want to be closer to her. If there is any trouble, I can take care of her in time. There are also two families, the eldest brother and the third brother, follow me.
We moved to Chengdu, and I always have to take care of them..."
Chen Ru supported Wen Dongrong in going to Jinling, but Wen Dongrong himself backed down and started making various excuses.
Chen Ru chuckled: "Who told you that I was going to give up my job? You think so! Mom is older, but she is used to living with her elder brother. If she has a headache or fever, her elder brother and sister-in-law will send her to see a doctor immediately.
, how has it ever bothered a busy person like you? It’s even more funny to talk about taking care of the eldest brother and third brother’s family. I think both of them are on the right track, and they can live a good life with or without your care.”
Before Wen Dongrong could find a new excuse, Chen Ru raised her eyebrows: "Wen, you have made so many excuses, are you afraid?"
Wen Dongrong frowned, "Oh, what do I have to be afraid of!"
"That's a lot. You are afraid that you are not capable enough and will not be able to seize the opportunity when it comes. With your usual arrogance, you will not admit your failure even to death. You can blame me in the future. And
Grandma Wen Ying, eldest brother, sister-in-law, third brother and sister-in-law, we are all stumbling blocks that hinder your progress——"
Wen Dongrong immediately jumped up and retorted, "Whoever is afraid is the son of a bitch!"
The couple had a quarrel after all.
However, the purpose of the quarrel was not to prevent Wen Dongrong from going to work in Jinling, but to stimulate Wen Dongrong to obey his inner choice.
Wen Ying looked at Manager Chen and then at Lao Wen, feeling that she was redundant.
——Oh, I didn’t expect that I could still eat the old dog food distributed by my parents!
