1375: Is love or self-esteem more important (still 2)
Wen Kai has not yet told Gan Tao that his cousin is a "fish against the current".
So Wen Ying helped bring things to Wen Kai, and the brother and sister had to secretly meet each other behind Gan Tao's back, which gave them the excitement of being thieves.
"Brother Kai, don't you really want to wait until you two get married?"
Wen Ying joked, "Let's not talk about whether my future cousin-in-law will beat you up when she knows the truth. If we are caught secretly meeting like this, how are you going to explain it?"
Wen Kai knelt down and begged Wen Ying to let her go!
"Let's wait until I finish meeting the parents first."
"Well, you choose the right time. Brother Kai, come on!"
Wen Ying smiled and helped Wen Kai cheer up.
A new life is waiting for Wen Kai!
Wen Kai held the heavy gift box in his hand, feeling warm in his heart.
He will try to get Gan Tao's parents to approve.
Not only is he working hard on his own, but he also has the support of his whole family.
Wen Kai carried the gift box back to the dormitory, and his roommates joked that Wen Kai had made such a big fuss.
"You've only been dating your girlfriend for a short time, right?"
"It's such a big fight, how can I get my certificate as soon as I graduate..."
"When you go to your girlfriend's house, you have to look at her and rush to work to confirm your status. Locals in the capital don't like to find people from out of town. Brother, please bear with me. My hairy son-in-law will have to go through this test."
Today is Friday, Leng Jun is not in the dormitory as usual, and the roommates have no worries about talking.
Regardless of whether the experience imparted by his roommates was useful or not, Wen Kai listened with a smile and thanked everyone for their advice.
In the dormitory where Wen Kai is located, Wen Kai is not from the worst family.
The boys from the poorest families came from mountainous areas. No one had ever been admitted to such a good university before they were admitted to Shouhang. In the eyes of the family, boys are like golden phoenixes flying out of poverty, and they will have great success in the future.
Profit.
The boy doesn’t say it with his mouth, but he thinks so in his heart.
With this idea in mind, I arrived at the first flight to check in. I felt the wealth gap between the students in the city and the students in the city, and the boys gradually became silent.
When Wen Kai first entered college, he was close to this roommate from the mountainous area. Later, Wenkai often went out with Leng Jun and became an intern in a large company through Leng Jun. The roommate from the mountainous area became estranged from Wenkai.
The boy felt that he and Wen Kai were not the same person.
If your family conditions are not good, shouldn’t you devote yourself to studying more?
Wen Kai actually chose a development path of flattering others!
Hearing the other roommates complimenting Wen Kai for finding a good girlfriend, the boys secretly frowned: Cousin Leng Jun looks like a cute eldest lady, but in private she must be unruly and pretentious, and only someone like Wen Kai can tolerate it.
The discussion in the dormitory is getting more and more intense. Boys usually rarely participate in dormitory discussions, so tonight they couldn't help but ask:
"What if the girl's parents don't approve of you? Do you think feelings or self-esteem are more important?"
The excitement in the dormitory was pressed on the pause button.
The roommates were all encouraging about Wen Kai's upcoming visit to his girlfriend's house. This guy usually cherishes his words like gold, but he makes a big deal out of it when he speaks!
When he first entered college, Wen Kai didn't know how to respond to such pointed questions.
From the experience of freshman year to now, this kind of scene is nothing to Wen Kai!
"Emotions and self-esteem are not mutually exclusive. To be honest, the first time I met Gan Tao's parents, it was normal for them not to recognize me. The company has to have an internship period when hiring a new employee, let alone one who was raised in the palm of his hand.
My daughter has a boyfriend, but without doing more research, how can I know if the boyfriend my daughter is dating is reliable? If they like me very much as soon as they meet, I will suspect that they don't care enough about Gan Tao... I won't hide it.
You said that I am ready to fight a protracted war!"
Wen Kai's attitude was so good that there was applause in the dormitory.
"Brother is awesome!"
"Open-minded, open-minded."
“With this kind of mentality, half the battle is won first!”
The boy smiled and said, "I wish you win this protracted battle as soon as possible."
He was obviously very simple when he first entered school, but after hanging out with a rich second generation like Leng Jun for a long time, Wen Kai became very naughty.
protracted war?
It’s just that I have been a lowly kid for a long time to please my girlfriend’s family!
Wen Kai's roommates each had their own opinions, and Gan Tao's parents were also very concerned about meeting Wen Kai. That night, Gan Tao's parents and Leng Jun's parents got together and warned Gan Tao and Leng Jun repeatedly.
"Whoever comes to the house tomorrow, please be honest."
"How you get along on weekdays is your business. You are not allowed to rush in tomorrow!"
"Yes, we want to see how he will respond."
Gan Tao pouted, and Leng Jun pulled at his cousin's sleeves desperately: "We know that we will never turn our arms outward. How about this, let's give Wen a showdown tomorrow and let him know that Lord Ma has three eyes, and he will definitely treat Taotao in the future.
Cherish it even more!"
Gan Tao's eyes nearly popped out.
Which side is my cousin on?
Father Leng couldn't help laughing, "Why does Lord Ma have three eyes? You describe us as monsters and monsters. We will not lack the courtesy!"
That's great.
Leng Jun was worried that his elders would show off to Wen Kai, so he secretly breathed a sigh of relief when he heard his father's assurance, but he wanted to say something ironic: "Oh, our family's quality is too high, and a poor boy like Wen Kai came to our door, and he actually
You really gave him an advantage by not setting up ten ditches and eight hurdles for him! His family situation is not good, and he might not even be able to get decent door-to-door gifts..."
Now let alone Leng's father, Leng Jun couldn't even listen to it anymore.
"What are you talking nonsense about? Our family doesn't lack that little thing, and neither does your sister's family! What's important is not that little gift, but something else."
Leng Jun was scolded, and Gan Tao slowly came back to his senses.
Oops, it turns out that my cousin is paving the way for Wen Kai!
Being interrupted like this by Leng Jun, the elders of the two families said nothing and felt very uneasy.
They had already been mentally prepared for Wenkai's poor family situation. With Leng Jun's foreshadowing, could it be that Wenkai's family situation was worse than they thought?
Especially Gan Tao's parents, they stayed up all night. The couple lay in bed discussing how to deal with it.
It will definitely not work if you break them up too forcefully, Gan Tao will have a rebellious mentality!
"What if he takes Taotao back to his hometown in the future?"
"We do not pamper Taotao just to make her suffer after she gets married!"
"The poorer the family, the more they like to scheme. Taotao is so simple, others will chew up all the bones and dregs for her."
Many things make people more panicky the more they think about it.
After spending the night in this state of mind, Wen Kai came to the door the next morning with a gift.
The things are not particularly expensive, but when a boy who is still in college meets his girlfriend's parents, it would not be embarrassing to carry such a gift wherever he goes.
The elders of the Gan and Leng families didn't understand.
Doesn’t it mean you are very poor?
Is Leng Jun talking nonsense, or is this Wen Kai pretending to be fat?
Looking at the expressions of the elders, Leng Jun's heart thumped and he tried to reconcile: "You are hemorrhaging a lot of money. Have you emptied all the private money you earned from your previous jobs?"
Wen Kai was very honest, "I didn't spend any money, and I still had some money left to treat Taotao to dinner. I bought half of these things myself, and the other half were prepared by relatives at home. I was afraid that I would be unreliable at a young age and lose my etiquette."
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Today's meeting is arranged at Leng Jun's house.
The villa area where Leng Jun's family is located is not very high-end, but the Leng family is willing to spend money on the interior decoration of the house. The living room is equipped with a full set of carved mahogany furniture, and the crystal chandelier is large and gorgeous. It is a luxury that Wen Kai has never seen before.
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The second aunt Chen Ru said that she should be generous, so Wen Kai took a generous look at the environment and sat on the mahogany sofa, nervous inside but trying to stay calm on the face.
Gan Tao was afraid that Wen Kai would be nervous. One moment he asked Wen Kai if he wanted to eat fruit, and the next moment he asked Wen Kai to drink water, which made Wen Kai's eyes dazzle.
Leng's mother dragged Gan Tao away, and Leng's father finally found a chance to talk to Wen Kai about serious matters.
While chatting, they asked about Wen Kai's family. When Leng's father asked what his parents did for a living, Wen Kai's eyes were clear: "I used to work in a factory in my hometown. I quit my job two years ago and started selling fruit."
Quit your job and sell fruit?
When you hear it this way, you are not as poor as you thought.
Leng's father understood it as "going overseas to start a business", and his first reaction was that Wen Kai's parents were very courageous and dared to resign and start a business at such an age.
When asked about the scale of the business, Wen Kai said that he opened a store in front of the Chengdu Provincial Hospital. Father Leng frowned: "Is it for retail?"
"Well, we only do retail. The business in the store is very good. My parents are too busy and have hired someone to help."
Father Leng thought it was wholesale at first, but he didn’t expect it to be retail.
It is easy to expand the business by doing wholesale, but by doing retail, you can really only make ends meet, and you will not be able to survive even if you starve to death. In this way, the Wen family is not particularly poor, and belongs to the level of food and clothing for ordinary people.
Of course, the conditions are far worse than those of the Leng family, and also far worse than those of the Gan family.
Leng's father, General Wen Kai, looked down from head to toe. His clothes were of inexpensive brands, he was very clean, and he was very generous.
This boy still has advantages, no wonder Taotao likes him.
But for boys with such advantages, if you look at the major colleges and universities, there will be a lot of them. It is impossible to say whether they will be successful in the future!