433: How Can You Have a Parasite Mentality! (1 more)
The person in charge of the printing factory was puzzled that such a temperamental woman could actually quarrel.
Although swearing doesn't contain a single curse word, it can still make people feel ashamed.
Zou Weijun couldn't help but laugh when he talked about it.
"The expression of the workshop director at the printing factory was in disbelief after I scolded him. Seeing that I usually spoke nicely and was new to the publishing department, he thought I was being fooled!"
Zou Weijun got into the mood and actually told all about the quarrel.
The excitement in Xie Qian's heart was difficult to express in words.
Encouraging his mother to go out to work is indeed the right thing to do.
It's been a long time since my mother was in such high spirits.
Not to mention arguing with unfamiliar people, during the period when her depression was at its most severe, Zou Weijun didn't even care about what she ate every day, had no preferences, and was unwilling to talk to others.
Now, I'm actually quarreling with people from the printing factory!
The quarrel is just a superficial appearance. If Zou Weijun doesn't care about work, he won't quarrel with others over mistakes at work. In essence, Zou Weijun has other things besides Xie Jinghu that he cares about.
Wen Ying also noticed Zou Weijun's change.
When we met for the first time, although Zou Weijun was well-dressed and impeccable in temperament, his eyes were empty, like a perfect dummy, with only a body and no soul.
When it comes to Xie Qian's matter, Zou Weijun's mood fluctuates slightly.
After hearing Ying tell her "nightmare", Zou Weijun's mood fluctuated the most.
Now that we met for the second time, there was something different in Zou Weijun's body.
Zou Weijun felt a little embarrassed when she saw Xie Qian and Wen Ying staring at her. Quarreling was not something worthy of praise. How could she say it in front of the two children?
"It was true that I was impulsive at the time. Actually, now that I think about it, if we don't have that argument and communicate calmly from the beginning, things will be handled faster. You two must not imitate me."
Arguing won't solve the problem.
How many fights did she and Xie Jinghu have?
Instead of solving the problem, the conflict between her and Xie Jinghu deepened.
When Zou Weijun thought of Xie Jinghu, he immediately stopped talking about sex and became depressed.
Wen Ying knew that patients with depression change moods quickly, and it was normal for Zou Weijun to suddenly lose interest in sex. Wen Ying pretended not to notice and said with a smile:
"Although quarreling is not good, sometimes it is an efficient way to communicate. My parents and I never quarreled before. They always ignored my ideas. After passing the high school entrance examination this year, I tried to fight and quarreled with them.
We were both unhappy at the time, but we are closer now than before."
Smell Ying does not count as lying.
In her previous life, she didn't dare to argue or fight for anything. Chen Ru and Wen Dongrong naturally exercised high-pressure control over her.
Wen Ying's independent consciousness slowly awakened in college, and it did not happen under the eyes of Chen Ru and Wen Dongrong. After Wen Ying graduated from college, she refused to listen to her parents' arrangements and gave up going back to her hometown to take the public examination. Her parents couldn't accept it at all.
Now Wen Ying began to "awaken" after taking the high school entrance examination. Chen Ru and Wen Dongrong thought that her rebellious phase was coming at first, and they thought about how to persuade her. After struggling for a while, they could only accept the fact: their well-behaved daughter had changed, and they wanted to
Either accept Wen Ying as she is now and find a new way of getting along as a family of three, or else they will dislike each other and be in a state of turmoil all day long.
When Wen Ying revealed her family scandal, Zou Weijun's attention was diverted.
"Will you still quarrel with your parents?"
Wen Ying has a round face, smiles a lot and looks very friendly.
Zou Weijun felt that if she had a daughter, she would be just like Wen Ying.
Girls don’t need to be pretty, they are so cute with their soft, round faces!
Wen Ying is not a cute little girl, she is a girl from Chengdu, just like the small peppers in Chengdu. They look so unintimidating that they can be grown as bonsai. Only when you take a bite do you realize how spicy they are.
"Of course we have to argue. Sometimes I win, sometimes they win. Let's make it 50-50!"
Wen Ying's statement was relatively modest, and Zou Weijun was already amused by this statement.
Zou Weijun didn't expect that the quarrel Wen Ying mentioned was really a quarrel. He only thought that Wen Ying's parents were open-minded and could get along with their children. Such a family atmosphere was really good.
Xie Qian has not made many demands on his family since he was a child. He has not high requirements for material life. He prepares and wears whatever he wants... Has this child been wronged before but didn't say it? Zou Weijun felt sour in his heart. He didn't realize it before.
Once the things mentioned are spread out and talked about, those small details that were ignored before will come out.
"Aunt Zou, besides correcting errors in sample books, what else do you do in the publishing department?"
Wen Ying asked questions one after another, giving Zou Weijun no time to lose focus.
Xie Qian added, "Wen Ying likes to write articles for magazines in her spare time. She is really curious about the work of the publishing department."
Zou Weijun was very happy: "You still have such a hobby? I also wrote articles for magazines when I was young. Prose and modern poetry were popular at that time."
If I hadn't married young, I might have become a writer or poet.
Now that I think about it, those youthful days were so carefree!
Zou Weijun sat next to Wen Ying and talked about what he had been busy with recently. He wanted to publish a set of popular science books. He was directly contacted by the Provincial Department of Education. There were natural sciences and the physical and mental health of boys and girls. Zou Weijun could participate, that is
Because she has a sixteen-year-old son.
This series of popular science books is aimed at middle school students.
"Students of your age are full of curiosity about everything. The more your teachers and parents object to what you are doing, the more you want to do it secretly. In this case, it is better to put some issues out in the open."
Zou Weijun personally feels that this set of books is very meaningful.
Although the sales volume of books after they are launched may not be as good as those of youth literature, they shoulder more social responsibilities. The business of state-owned publishing groups is not all based on profit.
Zou Weijun said, and asked Wen Ying and Xie Qian: "Tell me, what kind of popular science books would you be willing to read?"
Although sales are not required, since a lot of manpower and material resources are spent on doing this, if more people are willing to look through it, it is better than gathering dust in the corner of the bookstore.
Wen Ying wanted to speak but stopped.
Xie Qian turned to look at her, "My mother is not that kind of hypocritical person, she really wants to ask for advice, because we are the potential readers of this series of books... Personally, I don't like books that are too preachy.
Many things in the world have a certain rationality since they exist. The various problems we are facing now were encountered by our parents when they were young. A little more understanding is better than complete denial."
Puppy love is definitely not good.
Most students have puppy love that they cannot control and will affect their studies.
But if we strictly guard against stubbornness, won’t students fall in love prematurely?
No, they will move from the ground to the underground and engage in spy wars with teachers and parents.
Zou Weijun was thoughtful.
It should be more interesting than didactic.
No matter how good the content is, if the format of presentation is very boring, students may not be willing to read it.
Wen Ying thought for a while. If Zou Weijun wanted to find a sense of accomplishment in his career and divert his attention through his career, he should be better than others in his career and quickly get ahead in the editing and publishing department.
"Xie Qian is right. The content is very important and determines whether I want to read a book. But the urge to open a book cannot be separated from the marketing of the book itself!"