Xie Jinghu's work has never had anything to do with "atmosphere".
They obviously wanted to hand Xie Qian over to Jiaxin Film and Television in order to slow down Xie Qian's energy in exchange for Xie Qian delaying the exercise of his 'Kumho' shareholder rights, but they also wanted to disgust Xie Qian, and they were trying to figure out the terms of the agreement with Xie Qian's lawyer bit by bit.
During the month-long wrangling, the lawyers were all angered by Xie Jinghu's capriciousness, but Xie Qian was not angry at all.
As long as Xie Qian was not angry, Xie Jinghu would be the one who was angry. Thinking that Xie Jinghu might lose a few days from his life every time he got angry, Xie Qian felt that this deal was a good deal.
Later, Xie Jinghu finally stopped wasting time and signed a gambling agreement. The main reason was that no matter how hard he tried, Xie Qian was not affected. Another reason was related to Zou Weijun's plan.
Zou Weijun called Mrs. Xie and gave Mrs. Xie hope.
The old lady still wanted her son and daughter-in-law to reconcile as before, so she lectured Xie Jinghu and asked Xie Jinghu to sincerely apologize to Zou Weijun and work hard to repair the relationship.
"Women outside can accompany you through joys and sorrows. It's better for husband and wife to be the original couple. If you don't want to get divorced, apologize to Wei Jun now. Overseas... if it doesn't work, just give him money to cut it off."
To give Xie Jinghu's mistress a sum of money really goes against old lady Xie's principles.
But if you don’t give money, the other party will not be easy to get rid of. She said that the woman chose to be her lover because she loved Xie Jinghu. The old lady didn’t believe it at all!
If money could be used to cut off this relationship and allow Xie Jinghu to return to his family, the old lady would have no choice but to endure her nausea.
Of course Xie Jinghu doesn’t want a divorce.
He obviously didn't listen to his mother's advice.
A sum of money is cut off?
I already have two children, how can I stop them!
Xie Jinghu could only change the subject, "Did you hear it right? Wei Jun said she was going back to Beijing for the holidays?"
"You heard me right, it's the New Year's Eve banquet at the end of the year and she will definitely attend it. Counting the days, it's only a few months away."
I can’t even understand Zou Weijun’s subtext. The old lady can’t raise four sons.
Xie Jinghu was doubtful.
He has never doubted his charm, and has always believed that Zou Weijun can't live without him.
However, the indifference shown by Zou Weijun after arriving in Chengdu made Xie Jinghu feel that Zou Weijun would have to put on airs for at least a few more years.
Xie Jinghu had seen similar things happen before. Several of his friends also had families outside their homes. At first, their wives also made all kinds of troubles. After finding that it was useless, they could only accept coexistence with the "small family" outside.
No one from the first wife filed for divorce!
So Xie Jinghu knew that Zou Weijun would compromise sooner or later, but it surprised Xie Jinghu to compromise so early.
If you have any doubts, you should take the initiative to find out. It has been almost two years since Xie Jinghu called Zou Weijun for the first time.
The moment the call was connected and Xie Jinghu heard Zou Weijun's voice, he didn't know what to say.
"If you are fine, I will hang up."
Zou Weijun's voice was cold and he hung up the phone quickly. Xie Jinghu smiled instead of getting angry.
Zou Weijun chose to give in, but he didn’t completely let go!
This is Zou Weijun’s character.
If Zou Weijun spoke softly to him, Xie Jinghu would feel upset.
Since Zou Weijun bowed his head first, Xie Jinghu couldn't be silent at all. Signing the gambling agreement was Xie Jinghu's concession.
Xie Qian was not aware of Xie Jinghu's "affectionate expression", and even Zou Weijun didn't take it seriously.
Although he had made a lot of psychological preparations, the moment he actually received Xie Jinghu's call and heard Xie Jinghu's voice, negative emotions still surrounded Zou Weijun like a tide.
Zou Weijun doesn't need to be aloof.
Just not wanting Xie Jinghu to notice her cowardice and cowardice exhausted all her energy. If she said a few more words, she would show her cowardice!
Absolutely not.
Zou Weijun has also read a lot of books, and often has to deal with some commercial negotiations, and knows how passive it is to let the opponent discover the trump card.
The more she says, the more she will make mistakes, so she can only say less!
After hanging up the phone with Xie Jinghu, Zou Weijun took the initiative to see his psychiatrist.
The doctor previously judged that her depression had been cured and she was clinically a mentally healthy person... In this case, why couldn't she face Xie Jinghu in a normal manner? Zou Weijun could not accept that she still had feelings for Xie Jinghu.
After listening to Zou Weijun’s confession, the psychiatrist still maintained his previous diagnosis:
"Ms. Zou, please believe in my professionalism. You have escaped from depression. Your current mental state is even stronger than that of some people who are not sick. I think people around you, Ms. Zou, can best appreciate this change.
Of course, Ms. Zou, it is good for you to be so vigilant about your negative emotions. Discovering negative emotions in time, being willing to talk about them, and actively facing and dealing with them are all good habits! Ms. Zou, you don’t need to worry too much.
"Every one of us will encounter unhappy things in life. Negative emotions include not only fear and avoidance, but also anger and anger, etc. It is important to find a suitable outlet."
Life is not a fairy tale.
National leaders and the world's richest man have their own worries. It is obviously impossible for Zou Weijun to have no worries at all.
In life, work, and even family, there are too many situations that can cause a woman to have negative emotions!
Some women choose to swallow their anger and suffer the anger of their bosses, colleagues, husbands, and even the bad tempers of their children. Women who can tolerate it will either cause big problems with their bodies due to anger, or they will be like
Zou Weijun also suffered from depression before.
Of course it's not good to always quarrel, but compared to being sulky alone, the psychiatrist still encourages Zou Weijun to quarrel more.
Negative emotions need outlets!
Others made Zou Weijun angry, why couldn't Zou Weijun fight back?
Appropriate quarrels are beneficial to Zou Weijun's physical and mental health.
The psychiatrist suggested that Zou Weijun could be a little more aggressive. When you meet someone who is unreasonable, you should not reason with them. It would be more pleasant to deal with them as you like.
It is not shameful to still have feelings for your cheating husband.
Love and hate are not two opposites. Sometimes these two emotions are intertwined. The psychiatrist does not necessarily advise Zou Weijun to divorce. But as the party who was cheated and hurt, Zou Weijun will still hold it back sooner or later if he does not let it out.
Something went wrong.
With this breath of catharsis, Zou Weijun can completely let go of the hurt and start a new life!
The couple has been married for almost 20 years. Without love or family ties, it is so easy to let go. As long as Zou Weijun's heart is strong enough, the negative influence Xie Jinghu has brought to her will eventually fade away.
The whole process, not just a day or two, may take longer than Zou Weijun's treatment for depression. After all, it is necessary to separate a partner who has occupied his little life for twenty years. This is not easy.
In order to persuade Zou Weijun, the psychiatrist came up with a well-known saying: "Let alone people who have lived together for so long, even if they keep a dog for a long time, they can't let go."
Zou Weijun was indeed relieved, and even had a sudden realization. He stood up and thanked:
"Thank you doctor, I seem to understand. I will no longer punish myself for other people's mistakes. Whoever does something wrong should be punished."
It's not her fault that she still has feelings for Xie Jinghu, and it's not a shame either.
It's Xie Jinghu's fault that he failed her. Xie Jinghu is a dog, she is a human being, and she has normal human emotions.
As the doctor said, she needs a channel to vent her negative emotions!
A cheating dog, Zou Weijun can scold him whenever he wants, and deal with it whenever he wants. There is no need to be patient or have any psychological burden!
Zou Weijun turned around and walked away while carrying her bag and clicking on her high heels. The psychiatrist touched her nose.
——Ms. Zou’s understanding seems to be somewhat different from his original intention.
——He definitely did not encourage Ms. Zou to take revenge!