1373: Eliminate potential crises, meet parents in advance
Some people may find Chen Ru's idea strange.
Shouldn’t my daughter be happy if she can find a boyfriend like Xie Qian in the future?
Xie Qian is not only a super academic, he also comes from a superior family, with very good personal conditions and family background. Not only will his slightly scheming parents not stop him, but they will also secretly push their daughter to date Xie Qian, taking advantage of Xie Qian's unfinished business.
The utilitarian transformation from a boy to an adult, using the emotional foundation laid during his boyhood to hold Xie Qian tightly... Others would do this, but Chen Ru would never do it!
This is related to Chen Ru's character.
Chen Ru is so strong.
"So strong" can usually be equated with "high-spirited".
If Wen Ying were very good, Chen Ru would be proud of her daughter.
Wen Yingruo didn't work hard and just found a very good boyfriend through various small means. Chen Ru didn't feel like she had anything to be proud of!
Care and cleverness can only take advantage of the moment, but cannot maintain a lifetime of success.
If the gap between the two parties is too far, the superior party will always have the upper hand. When dating, you should give way to the superior party at all times, and you should always be wary of the superior party suggesting a breakup.
What about the not-so-excellent side?
After breaking up, it is almost impossible to use your excellent ex as the standard to find a new partner who is as good as your ex. That's why there is a saying, "You can't meet someone who is too amazing when you are young, otherwise you will never forget it for the rest of your life."
Xie Qian sat opposite Chen Ru. Chen Ru was on guard. For a moment, even Chen Ru, who was as strong as Chen Ru, backed down - asking Xie Qian to encourage Wen Ying to go abroad was a wrong idea. She really wanted to go with Xie Qian.
Study abroad, let Wen Ying get along with such an outstanding boy in a foreign country, it would be strange if Wen Ying didn't fall!
Of course it’s best if you can reach the end, but what if you can’t?
Chen Ru still didn't know the specific situation of Xie Qian's family. It was just a scratch that was exposed now, which was no longer superior.
For example, Chen Ru and his wife worked for so many years before they could buy a house in Chengdu with a loan. Xie Qian and her son were able to own a large yard in a good location. Even after Zou Weijun left Chenggong, Xie Qian, a high school student, could continue to live in that big yard with his housekeeping aunt.
, the gap between the two families is evident!
Therefore, even if Xie Qian insists and the Xie family objects, it will still be difficult for the two young people to reach the end.
Moreover, Xie Qian's appearance is so outstanding that he will attract many girls to fall in love with him. As time goes by, there is a high chance that Xie Qian will change his heart!
Before we even got down to business, Chen Ru had already thought about a lot.
Xie Qian saw that Chen Ru was still silent, so he could only break the silence.
"Aunt Chen?"
Chen Ru came back to her senses and said, "I'm sorry, I suddenly thought of something at work and was a little distracted. There are two reasons why I asked you to meet today. One is to thank you for helping Wen Ying with her studies in the past two years, and the other is to ask for advice.
You have something to do."
"Thank you" is not something you can just say.
Xie Qian has been helping Wen Ying with tutoring. If Chen Ru had to spend money to hire a powerful "tutor" like Xie Qian, it would definitely be a huge expense in the past two years.
Even if you spend a lot of money, you may not get the same results.
Chen Ru and Wen Dongrong are not rich enough, but Li Mengjiao's family is not short of money. Li Zhentao and his wife shamelessly let Li Mengjiao make up lessons at Xie Qian's house, which shows that Xie Qian's ability is better than ordinary teachers!
Of course, it would be pointless to convert Xie Qian's two years of tutoring for Wen Ying into a financial account. If Chen Ru took out a wad of money to "pay" at this time, it would really insult Xie Qian's efforts.
This is a friendship between children.
Chen Ru firmly refused to admit the pure friendship between boys and girls before, but now she can't help but admit it, because Wen Ying is not the only one who studied together at Xie Qian's house!
At least, the friendship between these young people has not gone further yet.
Chen Ru prepared a small gift for Xie Qian.
"I asked my colleagues to bring this pen back from Hong Kong. I hope you like it."
Yes, Chen Ru gave Xie Qian a pen.
Xie Qian knew the brand of the pen. It was definitely a luxury for ordinary students, but Xie Qian had several pens of the same brand at home.
Xie Qian didn't even pay attention to it before. When he bought a pen, he paid more attention to its usefulness rather than the price. From this point of view, Chen Ru's concerns were not entirely unreasonable. Xie Qian's family conditions were far different from Wen Ying's.
Okay, brand is not the point!
The key point is that this is a pen given to him by the hamster's mother. It cannot be simply measured by the price and brand... Aunt Chen is truly the mother of the hamster. Both mother and daughter adhere to the practical idea of giving gifts to others. Hamsters love giving away.
I bought a lot of pens when I went to Macau!
Thinking that mother and daughter had the same gift-giving ideas, Xie Qian's eyebrows softened: "Thank you, Aunt Chen, I like this gift very much."
Xie Qian had an intuition that Chen Ru only gave him a pen, not Song Shao.
A unique gift, Xie Qian likes this definition!
Xie Qian was so restrained that he couldn't help but gently caress the pen in the gift box.
The young man sitting opposite him showed his liking for the gift, and Chen Ru felt much lighter. After careful consideration, she finally expressed her intention:
"I want to ask you if you have any thoughts about studying abroad. It may be a bit rash for me to ask this suddenly, but I really think it would be a pity to study in a university in China with your ability!"
Xie Qian paused while stroking the pen.
"Aunt Chen, you don't want to ask me if I want to study abroad, right?"
The person who most wanted Xie Qian to study abroad was undoubtedly Xie Jinghu.
The rest of the Xie family, including Zou Weijun, never interfered with Xie Qian's decisions. Everyone respected Xie Qian's ideas and choices, and believed that Xie Qian could be responsible for his own choices!
For a moment, Xie Qian started to engage in conspiracy theories again, wondering if Xie Jinghu was causing trouble.
The next second, Xie Qian denied his suspicion.
Xie Jinghu cannot bribe Chen Ru.
If Chen Ru could be bribed, Wen Ying could just throw money at her. How could she often get into tense situations with her own mother?
So what does it mean for Chen Ru to care about whether he will study abroad?
You can only interfere with Wen Ying in the name of caring about him——
In just a short moment, Xie Qian had already figured out Chen Ru's purpose.
Chen Ru stopped talking in circles: "You guessed it right, I asked you if you want to study abroad, because I want Wen Ying to study abroad too. I don't know if you recognize Editor Song's daughter Song Chan. After hearing that she was admitted to Yale,
I'm just thinking about this. Song Chan can be admitted to Yale, why can't Wen Ying give it a try?"
"Have you ever asked Wen Ying herself?"
Hamsters don't want to go abroad.
From the moment Xie Qian met Wen Ying, Wen Ying showed her love for the Magic City, and Xie Qian also made plans to apply for the university there.
University, logistics company, film and television company, Xie Qian made so many arrangements in advance.
If Wen Ying now changes her mind and wants to study abroad, Xie Qian will have to think about who to take over the many arrangements in Magic City.
Of course, it is not impossible to go abroad with Wen Ying. Changing plans will be troublesome, but it is not impossible.
Chen Ru loves to think things over, and Xie Qian is equally willing to give in.
In such a short period of time, I am already thinking about who to hand over the foundation of the Magic City!
Chen Ru frowned slightly: "Of course I asked her, and she said she was unwilling to go abroad. I can't understand her thoughts! You are classmates and good friends. Can you help aunt persuade her?"
Say yes quickly!
There was a voice shouting in Xie Qian's heart.
Even if Wen Ying still doesn't want to go abroad in the end, Xie Qian can tell Chen Ru that he has tried his best.
As long as he agrees to Chen Ru now, he will be the most reliable "Wen Ying's friend" in Chen Ru's heart. Song Shao, He Zhen are not as good as him!
But this is a lie.
It's not good to lie to Chen Ru, it's even worse to go against one's own heart, and it's the worst to force Wen Ying.
Xie Qian pushed the pen back to Chen Ru:
"Aunt Chen, I'm sorry, I can't persuade Wen Ying, and I don't want to."
