"I have never liked wearing baggy clothes since I was a child. Baggy clothes make me look bulky and lackluster. But until the high school entrance examination, the clothes in my wardrobe will always have a certain style. Because you said it is not easy for parents to make money, and children don't want to wear them.
Competing with others on food, clothing, and grades, I accept it; I have always envied other girls with long hair and pigtails since I was a child. I like their colorful headbands, but I have always had to cut my hair like a student, because it would be wasteful to have long hair in pigtails.
Your time, you said that good girls don’t think about dressing up every day, simplicity is the best quality, I believe it... I have a lot of things I want, many times, I have tried to tell you my preferences, I am not
A greedy person, if you are willing to meet my small requests even just once, I wouldn't be so eager for 'freedom' today!"
The first paragraph of Wen Ying's letter made Chen Ru frown.
Chen Ru had to admit that after the high school entrance examination, Wen Ying chose the clothes herself and went to the hairdresser to get a haircut that suited Wen Ying better. She was youthful and beautiful and not particularly ostentatious.
Chen Ru tried to interfere, but Wen Ying didn't listen. In addition, selling crayfish at a stall brought Wen Ying income. Chen Ru didn't have to pay for it herself. Chen Ru couldn't control what Wen Ying wore or didn't wear. As time went by,
, Chen Ru gradually got used to Wen Ying's current dressing style.
Now it seems that the changes in clothing and hairstyle did not make Wen Ying bad.
But does this mean that Chen Ru’s previous harsh discipline was wrong?
Chen Ru doesn’t think so!
Children don't have any judgment.
Chen Ru doesn't even think that children have aesthetics.
Does it matter what clothes you wear and what hairstyle you have? If you think about dressing up every day, it’s impossible to get into the key exams in Chengdu Province!
As if she guessed what Chen Ru would think, Wen Ying changed the topic in her letter:
"You may think these are small things, but every little thing is not important to my growth. You have seen my current 'daringness', but you don't know why I have transformed. For a long time, I have not changed at all.
I am not bold, I am very timid, I dare not express my preferences at home, and I am a pleaser personality outside. In my understanding, only by pleasing others without any bottom line, others will be friends with me - you should be very
It’s hard to imagine that I was a completely marginalized person in school. I was yelled at by the girls in school. I needed to provide them with pocket money before they would pay attention to me! It’s very ridiculous now that I think about it. Why should I spend money?
Money to buy friends? But at the time, I didn’t think it was funny at all. I was lucky enough that someone was willing to be my friend, so how could I complain?”
These lines of handwriting are a bit sloppy, and Chen Ru can guess how uneasy Wen Ying felt when she wrote this paragraph.
Wen Ying's description was already very restrained and reserved.
Why doesn't Song Shao want to talk to Wen Ying?
Because Wen Ying is too soft and humble, Song Shao thinks she is not worthy of help.
Shouting around, giving pocket money, and reading Wen Ying's private personal diary in front of everyone, this is actually campus bullying!
Chen Ru continued to read down, holding the letter harder and harder.
The girls Wen Ying was talking about must be Yue Shanni and Fang Hui!
Wen Ying was already in high school, and Yue Shanni still chased and asked Wen Ying about "borrowing money". It was said that Shu Lu instigated the matter, but why didn't Shu Lu instigate others?
It must be because Yue Shanni often bullied Wen Ying in the past. Shu Lu thought that looking for Yue Shanni could deter Wen Ying——
Chen Ru was anxious and angry.
Chen Ru always felt that Wen Ying had a pretty good three years in junior high school. Although her grades were not top-notch, she was still among the top ten in the class. Every time she went to a parent-teacher meeting, teachers from various subjects said that Wen Ying was "good", but she wasn't like that.
Students who are naughty and mischievous and need teachers to worry about...these teachers are so unreliable. Parents send their children to school, and the children are bullied at school, and the teachers don't notice at all?
Chen Ru tried her best to think back.
During a parent-teacher meeting, Wen Ying's teacher Kang seemed to have reminded Chen Ru to pay more attention to Wen Ying, saying that a child who is too well-behaved may not necessarily be a good thing. Parents should encourage their children to say "no" bravely and let their children
Have the courage to refuse unreasonable demands.
So what does Teacher Kang actually know and is reminding himself?
Then why not just say it!
Chen Ru's brows were furrowed, and her heart felt like it was being fried in hot oil.
After hurriedly reading the rest of the content, Chen Ru opened the door with force.
Wen Dongrong instantly jumped up from the sofa and showed a flattering smile: "Would you like some fruit?"
Eat, eat, eat, just know how to eat!
Chen Ru's eyes were on fire, "Do you know that Wen Ying was bullied by her classmates at school?"
Wen Dongrong looked confused: "Who bullied her? Who else can bully her?"
——Heixin Mian can walk among a group of adults without suffering any disadvantages. Is there still a classmate in the school who can bully Heixin Mian?
Wen Dongrong couldn't believe it.
Chen Ru suppressed her anger and said, "I'm talking about junior high school!"
"Junior high school? In junior high school, weren't you in charge of her studies? You don't even know about things, how do I know..."
The more Wen Dongrong spoke, the softer his voice became.
Obviously Wen Dongrong also thought about that trip to the police station. The disputes between students were so intense that the police were called. Three feet of ice did not last in a day!
"Of course you don't know. You don't care about your biological son, and your love is left to the little white-eyed wolf named Shu!"
Chen Ru is expressing her anger.
But even if he knew that Chen Ru was expressing his anger, Wen Dongrong couldn't think of words to refute.
It's ridiculous to think about it now. Wen Dongrong and Chen Ru were indeed not big shots in Chengdu. In their small hometown, the couple had decent jobs and a certain amount of network energy.
With such family conditions, it may not be possible to raise a proud daughter like Qin Jiao, but it is not difficult to raise a child who is confident and generous. As a result, Wen Ying had a low self-esteem and was timid. She was bullied by classmates at school and did not dare to go home and tell her parents.
This is too unreasonable!
Wen Ying is indeed very assertive now and can make tens of millions of investments, but after all, Wen Ying was not so assertive before. When she had low self-esteem and was timid, her parents were derelict in their duties!
Wen Ying said in her letter that she "dare not speak out." This was not something that happened in a day or two. She did not dare to speak out about her preferences, and she did not dare to ask her parents for help...because she knew it would be useless if she told her, and she would not get help!
Chen Ru sat slumped on the sofa.
She scolded Wen Dongrong for caring about Shu Lu, scolded Wen Dongrong for being incompetent, and Chen Ru herself was also not competent enough.
A good parent would not let his daughter be bullied at school.
Competent parents will not let their daughters feel inferior and weak.
Wen Dongrong felt very uncomfortable.
He said Wen Ying was a black-hearted man every day. It was a matter between father and daughter. How could he be bullied by outsiders?
The couple looked at each other in silence, and the living room was silent. Wen Dongrong even took out a cigarette that he had not smoked for a long time.
The cigarette was lit, and Wen Dongrong held it in his hand but did not smoke. Amidst the smoke, his voice was heavy:
"What has happened cannot be repeated, we all have to look forward..."