As time goes by, Boom gradually understands why he is unhappy, because he always expects a result.
When reading a book, I hope it will make me profound; when I eat, I hope it will last me until the next day; when writing handwritten notes, I hope it will replace the parchment; when I expect good things from others, I hope they will be treated well; in the quiet of the night, I hope that they will be treated well.
Pay attention to comfort; embark on a new journey, and look forward to gaining a fulfilling and rich experience.
If these preset expectations are realized, Boom can breathe a sigh of relief. If not, he will feel sorry for himself. But when he was a child, he was the same person who spent an afternoon watching ants move... When one day, we unloaded
After getting rid of all the desires in your heart, you may be able to reunite with your other self who was really happy and rediscover the gorgeous scenery.
Some people who have been at the bottom of society have very different ways of thinking, acting styles, values, and strong family backgrounds. People who have been carefully guided by mentors since childhood and have stable jobs are very different. They can even be said to be worlds apart. To put it bluntly, the mentality of the other person
We are seeking development, but our mentality is still seeking survival. What we are playing with each other is not a game at all.
After the trunk of a tree is cut off, new shoots will sprout near the roots. Similarly, after suffering from illness or being mentally destroyed, the human mind often returns to the spring-like budding period, or to a childhood full of daydreams, as if it was still alive.
It's like finding new hope there and reconnecting the torn lifeline.
However, although those branches sprouting from the roots are dense, succulent and grow rapidly, that kind of life is just an appearance, because it will never grow into a real tree again.
Time flies like water, and it is gone forever. The scenery we have seen may be come back, but the people who have passed away will never look back. No matter how much we think about it, some people and certain things exist only by chance.
I was wandering in the dream, and the rest of the time was just a vague impression.
Many love affairs in the world are actually lies told by time, but we are willing to persist in those lies without regrets, even recalling them for the rest of our lives.
Boom was originally a person with extremely low self-esteem, because low self-esteem was his attitude towards things that he could not control. And many years later, he also discovered that hiding his low self-esteem, avoiding jealousy, and pretending to be self-esteem were the things he did most in his life.
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In the end, Boom discovered that striving to do difficult things that were impossible in the past is a better way to deal with low self-esteem. Emphasizing self-esteem and dignity is just to cover up low self-esteem, just like vanity is to cover up failure.
Others will not care about the mistakes we have made. The mistakes we have made are not what others are really interested in. Instead, we will be laughed at, ridiculed, and ridiculed for it.
Others will only see how we are living now, and will only care about whether we can share the path to wealth. If they cannot benefit from us, they will scold us for our poor character, and finally deliberately alienate us. This is how realistic people are.
There are advancements and retreats in life, and you can't lose your mood even if you lose. Instead of envying others, it is better to be yourself. Superficial envy, boring comparisons, and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day long. Blind comparisons will not help you.
It will bring happiness, but only trouble; it will not bring happiness, but only pain.
After a few years, a person will find that the so-called road is just a decoration, a game for those who wander around in circles in the world.
It never deviates from its true purpose. If you don’t believe it, ask those people who are always walking in a hurry on the road. Have they found their destination? No! Otherwise, they would not wander around endlessly on the road.
Boom feels that life is full of forks in the road. When he stands in front of a new fork in the road, at that moment, what decision should he make? Speed through? Or step back and wait?
Boom's feet would stop for a moment, and then he would start to examine, and usually there would be no pedestrians at the fork in the road at this time. Boom was probably that kind of person, who did not have the courage to rush over, but would still be moved by the hearts of those who bravely stepped out.
Envy.
There are many things that Boom thinks will be fine as long as he works hard, but in fact they will be proved to be illusions in the end. Even if I work hard, I will still miss what I should miss, and I will still lose what I should lose.
Using excuses like not working hard enough or other excuses is actually just to cover up a weaker fact, as if we can see the waves but can’t catch any of them.
If we want to be down-to-earth, we must first be down-to-earth ourselves; if we want to meet someone we appreciate, then we have to equip ourselves with the qualities to be appreciated by others. If we want to cherish those hard-won friendships, then
The first thing you need to do is to be able to walk side by side with the other person.
Become the person you like first, and then meet someone you don’t need to please. This is Boom’s attitude towards his companions, and it is also his attitude towards everyone.
Boom discovered that a particularly comfortable relationship does not require being tired of being together all the time, or always saying some disgusting love words. Just like Rikka, most people can't organize their language well, and talk incessantly; just like Ke
Christine would not deliberately accommodate herself, but would habitually talk in the arrogant tone of the elves. Because Boom felt the response from her companions, which was the purest sense of stability.
Apart from that, Boom had only experienced that feeling in the frozen continent. However, Boom rejected the Viking King's kindness, at least he had no intention of working for a certain force.
What is fairness and equality? In this world, whenever one person thinks it is fair, it must be based on what others think is unfair.
When we can't survive, equality means having enough food and clothing like others. When we have enough food and clothing, equality means having the same dignity as others. When we have dignity, we will be so idle that it hurts.
I feel that I am superior to others, and I am willing to do something more than others.
In the end, when we can’t see the coffin without crying, we will feel that the original self is the best, and we will chatter endlessly about everything we already have.
Nothing in the world is harder than speaking your mind, and nothing is easier than flattery. Speaking your truth, even if only one percent of the tone is false, will immediately create dissonance, and subsequently
It's a quarrel.
And flattery, even if the tone is false from beginning to end, can still make people happy, and it will not be unpleasant to listen to. Even if the pleasure is a bit disgusting, it still feels pleasant. And no matter how disgusting the flattery is, there is at least some of it.
Half of it feels real.
Boom never thought that the Pava Federation would be so crazy. In order to plunder the space magic circle, he would fight to the death with a few outsiders, and even be seriously injured. Boom had a very bad feeling, as if he was being
An invisible vortex pulls at me, and apart from twisting my body to make myself more comfortable, there is no possibility of escaping.
He will not form an alliance with any force, because he has no interest in getting involved in the battle for power. However, things are unpredictable, and it is always right to think ahead. The frozen continent may be the best choice.
"If you really have to choose, the only choice is the tundra continent." The black wings blocked the moonlight, and Boom showed great unwillingness in his eyes, but in the end it twisted into calmness. As long as his companions can be safe and sound, then Boom will
No matter how reluctant he is, he will gladly accept it.