We have lost the shy enthusiasm of youth, leaving only indifference. We have lost the innocence of the past and become more mature. The faces that were originally immature and youthful now have traces of the passage of time. Youth is gone, and we have changed. In fact, everyone has a few people who cannot be forgotten. We always think about it when we are bored, think about it when eating alone, think about it when walking in the alley at night, and think about it when looking at the moonlight. Later, we gradually discovered that those people would not change our lives no matter whether they were by our side or not. We still eat, sleep, and play. We still want to be friends. At this time, we will understand that some people themselves
I will never forget it in this life, but it will not affect my normal life.
Boom used to be very afraid of offending others and would give in to everything he could, but he didn't get the corresponding respect. Later, Boom began to change. He would leave when others were late. He would never force something if he didn't want to do it. He would look down at the cockroaches in silence and only care about his own feelings.
.Then he found that not only was he valued, but he was also happier.
On the contrary, Boom once had a familiar playmate who stopped complaining and feeling sorry for himself more than ten years ago and began to work hard to change himself. But until Boom left the King of Ogu City, the other person's material life and mental state
There is no substantial improvement.
Living an active life and changing yourself is actually just pretending. Pretending to be positive and optimistic, pretending to be interested in doing these boring things, pretending to be calm and rational, pretending to be interested in what you do.
I want to look directly at the unknown future, but I still can't forget the past that I think is precious; I want to choose to escape from reality, but I don't have the capital to survive; I want to change the future, but I am always helpless.
Some things cannot be changed without hard work. A robe that can be bought easily with a few silver coins will never be as attractive as a dress that starts at a hundred gold coins.
As we grow older, many social needs that we once had have gradually faded away. We no longer interact with the literature of the ancient magic era, nor do we explore any philosophy. Our three views are basically stable, and we understand the relationship between people.
It's hard to even communicate, let alone make any changes.
Therefore, we rarely participate in violent debates. After knowing ourselves, we no longer need confidants. The only core need for social interaction is to say bad things about others behind their backs.
Living an active life and changing yourself are actually just pretending. Pretending to be positive and optimistic, pretending to be interested in doing these boring things, pretending to be calm and rational, pretending to be interested in what you do.
Even if we are nobles, we must pretend to be superior to our servants, but in fact many servants are more thoughtful and motivated than ourselves. When one day we suddenly no longer need to pretend, we will most likely lose our original status.
status.
It's like reading is not responsible for changing your destiny, it is only responsible for squandering your youth. Talent determines what we are, but it cannot determine who we will become. We will not change anything, but we can choose what kind of life we want.
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All the things and people that I like for a long time have the power to change me. No matter how reasonable words are, they can only help those who are willing to listen. If a famous saying can change a person's life, then everyone in the world will
Live a happy life and the world becomes a better place.
People who succeed because of a famous saying will succeed sooner or later no matter what environment they are placed in. Words themselves are powerless, but they will bring power to those who are willing to listen.
There is a kind of loneliness when you change yourself in order not to disappoint someone. During the process of change, we hope that this person will know your dedication and efforts. But after you have really changed, when you face this person again, you will feel
I no longer want to mention my original intention to change.
Later on, I liked it but didn't say I liked it, and pretended not to be angry when I was angry. There were more and more days when the wind was against the wind. Even if it was ridiculous, I would treat it seriously. Even if I was happy, I would pretend to be happy and not celebrate. I finally understood how stupid I was.
I still want to listen to the old songs, and my quill has not been replaced after using it for a long time. I don’t want to be alone, but I am used to being alone. I will no longer deliberately expect it, but only cherish the beauty of the present.
Some people will always be engraved in their memory. Even if they forget the other person’s voice, the other person’s smile, and the other person’s face, the feeling they have every time they think of the other person will never change. p>
There is no need to tell everything you know, that would be inappropriate. Besides, people don’t like people around them who know more than they do, and that will make them very annoyed.
No matter what we say is correct, we can't change those people. Unless they want to learn it themselves, there is nothing we can do. Therefore, we either shut up or use their language to communicate.
Any behavior we seek for comfort will not make us grow: a hangover, a trip, or even a long chat with a friend. Because all these things do is make us feel safe and good.
Growth is actually a particularly difficult introspection, because we must abandon all the beautiful words we say to others and ourselves, and face our own incompetence and unavailability. Even if we are knocked down by resentment, anger and jealousy over and over again, then we will understand how to grow.
After all, you need to change yourself.
Many people are naive. Once they fall in love, they want to spend their whole lives together. When they make friends, they want to stay together for the rest of their lives. Although they sometimes pretend to let everything take its course, they don't want to let any good things change in their hearts.
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For a person who has no foresight in relationships, the biggest hope is that all relationships can be sincere and long-lasting. But never completely trust this world, because it will hide many secrets from us, and then choose the right one.
The timing hit us at our thorns.
Everyone has two selves. One is the true self, and the other is the self that one wants to be. The latter always gives people a dog-like impression, no matter how people package and modify it.
After everyone has been busy for a week, helplessly and exhaustedly playing their true selves, they have to find a place to let their other selves out for a walk on the weekend. This requires an object and a place with an audience.
That place is naturally a bar, because there is no way we can vent our emotions too much there. After all, there are many similar and familiar bards there.
As for the partner, you need to choose carefully. It is best to find someone who has a good understanding and needs that match your own. After such a performance, both people's goals are achieved, which is an excellent way to release stress.
Pretending to be smart can make you stand out for a while, avoid punishment, hide the truth for a while, and forget all exaggeration. But as age and the people you choose change, one day we will find that those so-called pretending to be smart are all ignorant.
Self-deception and the ultimate shame in life.
Unfairness is bound to exist. This is an obvious fact. It is futile to appeal to others. So I still said nothing about the real thing and endured it silently. I continued to play a funny role.
, there is no longer any choice.
Boom looked at the frozen continent in the distance, but in the end he never took a step forward. He seemed to have made a mistake, because the world would not change because of him, and he could only try his best to adapt to it.
Boom felt that he seemed to have made a wrong decision, otherwise the Pava Federation would not know those secrets, let alone suddenly take action. Boom felt that he was like an animal that fell into a trap, and would either be slaughtered by the opponent, or