Seeing the news about Xiao Zijian, Ye Mengqiu praised it, and then asked: "Not bad, your sister Lin hasn't arrived yet, has she?"
Xiao Zijian replied: "Of course, I arrived fifteen minutes early."
Ye Mengqiu reminded: "Well, you can take this time to read the dating tips again, and remember to contact me if you have any questions."
"OK." Xiao Zijian said he had no objection.
He has no questions to ask Ye Mengqiu for the time being. The reason why he is sending a message to Ye Mengqiu now is to let the other party understand his current situation and prepare the other party for remote assistance in advance.
Xiao Zijian did not continue to chat with Ye Mengqiu, nor did he run to play in the arena.
After talking to Ye Mengqiu, he switched the game to the background and opened the note.
After opening the note, you can see that the top one is the "Dating Tips" he recently edited.
Dating tips include preparation before the date, things to note during the date and things to do at the end of the date.
Preparation before the date, including the excuse and words for the date, the dress and dress for the date, the date location and program arrangement, the date schedule, etc.
Finally, it is also recommended that boys should arrive at the date fifteen minutes in advance to avoid the other party arriving early, causing the illusion that you are late, which will lower your evaluation in the other party's mind.
He had already read these contents and was prepared, so he did not read them again.
Things to note when dating include the following important points:
1. Pay attention to some small details
After the girls arrive, they can help the lady pull up the chair.
If a girl says "I'm sorry, I've been waiting for a long time" because of your early arrival, then she should stupidly say "No, I just waited for a while" or "It's okay, it only takes xx minutes". This kind of answer will lower the evaluation.
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The standard answer is "No, I just arrived too." If the relationship between the two is relatively good, you can give a more casual answer. You can say "No, no, I wanted to see you so much, so I came earlier." You can also respond based on the actual situation.
The situation is free to play.
Although this is not the first time he has watched it, Xiao Zijian still can't help but think about it when he sees it like this, when will Little Ye Ye learn to lie and be smooth-tongued?
2. After meeting, you must give a positive comment on the girl’s dress
Try not to say things like "You are so beautiful today" to prevent the other party from thinking too much and mistakenly thinking that you think she is not beautiful at ordinary times. It would be better to say "The dress you are wearing today suits you very well and looks very sexy."
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Of course, you can also start with some small details, such as trinkets, hairstyles, backpacks, etc. In short, just praise them.
3. Pay attention to your own eyes and the eyes of others
Learn to control the sight of your "eyes". It is enough to look at the other person's neck and above, so as not to cause the other person to lose their sense of security and think that you are just greedy for her body.
At the same time, you should also pay attention to the other person's gaze. If the other person does not look away 2-3 seconds after you finish speaking, it means that the other person is interested in the topic.
If she looks away or lets out a sigh of relief as soon as you finish speaking, it means that she is not interested in the topic, or is not interested in you.
4. Establish a tacit understanding and increase interaction
If you want a girl to appreciate you, developing a sense of humor is a good choice.
But when you encounter a serious topic, or one that cannot be responded to frivolously, you need to be a listener and let the other person explain the specific topic in more depth and make the content more specific before answering.
In this way, you can find more directions and labels for the other party's questions, then you can master more information, and your answers can be more detailed, and the other party will feel that you are more attentive.
If there is no topic yet, you should take the initiative to create one. You can share and interact through the surrounding environment, temperature feelings, the other party's clothes and your own clothes, etc., to establish some tasteful communication topics.
When you are on a date, your tone of voice should be relaxed, and your tone should not be formal, as if you are in a business negotiation.
It sounds reasonable, but I still find it difficult.
After reading this article, Xiao Zijian couldn't help but complain. In the end, he had to find the topic himself.
5. About paying orders
As long as we don't become friends between you and me, no matter how good the relationship is, most girls don't like boys paying for treats all the time. This will make them find out that you have ulterior motives for her. Although it is true that you have intentions, but
Don't be too explicit.
For example, when you invite the other party to watch a movie, it would be better to use the method "I invite you to watch a movie, you treat me to a meal, or you buy Coca-Cola popcorn".
Doing this can reduce a girl's psychological burden and eliminate her sense of resistance (some girls really feel that being treated by someone they don't know well is a particularly awkward thing.
6. About small gifts
If you are confident in your own vision, you can buy some small gifts for girls, such as some trinkets, and give them with the words "I think they suit you very well/I think they look good on you, so I will give them to you as xxx gifts".
Be sure to buy it first and then give it away, so that she has a higher chance of accepting it. After all, there is no need to return it.
After receiving the gift, she will remember it and there is a chance that she will receive a gift in return.
Gifts? I hate giving gifts the most. It would be bad if I buy the wrong one.
Xiao Zijian didn't think he had a good eye for choosing gifts, so he decided to wait until he knew the other person liked it before considering giving gifts.
7. Pay attention to the art of speaking
When choosing a dining location, if you want to choose a restaurant with lower per capita consumption.
Remember not to directly say "the items in this store are cheap". If you say this, the other party may think that you care too much about the price.
You can recommend this restaurant in terms of taste, specialties and signature dishes.
If you don't know that store, you can also say it another way, such as "the food in this store tastes good and is affordable", which is more euphemistic.
8. Table manners
Be sure to pay attention to your table manners when eating. Although you won't chew carefully, you shouldn't be too casual.
Also, after eating, keep the dining table as tidy as possible. This will not only look elegant, but also make the service staff comfortable, and the evaluation will be improved.
In addition, when ordering, be careful not to eat vegetables with a strong smell, such as garlic and leeks.
9. Leave a good impression and act confident
During the date, always maintain a good image of yourself, do not litter, and do not do other things that will reduce your impression points.
Be more confident and believe that you can bring a pleasant date to the other person and a good impression on yourself.
However, remember not to over-express yourself and don't keep talking about your work or other trivial matters unless the other person is very interested.