Don't confess casually. Confessing too early will only make the other person think you are frivolous, or that your love comes too easily, which may lead to her not cherishing it too much.
In this case, even if the two of you eventually establish a relationship, the relationship will be relatively unstable.
Therefore, it is best to wait until the time is right before confessing naturally.
In addition, don’t always praise the other person without any reason, and don’t always cater to the other person’s needs.
You feel that you are releasing love to the other person, and what the other person feels is your purpose.
If you do this, the other person will feel that they are under pressure, and at the same time they will start to wonder whether they should accept you.
11. What to do if the date is cold?
The reasons for a cold start generally include choosing the wrong scene or not finding the topic.
The scenes I selected today are all relatively interactive, so you don’t have to worry about being left in a cold spot because of the scenes.
So to avoid a cold moment, the only problem is to find a topic.
It is very important to find topics. Remember not to take the initiative to discuss unhappy things during a date.
Of course, if a girl comes to you to complain, then listen patiently and don't think about giving her a solution. Comfort and companionship are the most important. Of course, there are some girls who just like you to listen. Try to say something interesting.
Making people happy is a skill.
So how to find a topic?
The chat topics during the date can be found based on the dating scene, and it is best to be relevant to what you have done or plan to do today.
For example, after eating, you can discuss how it tasted, and then extend it to how to cook these dishes or the characteristics of other stores.
For example, after watching a movie, you can talk about the plot, how you felt after watching the movie, and then extend it to content related to the same series or other movies.
For example, after going to Au Lac Valley and experiencing various attractions, you can talk about your experiences with different attractions.
12. Physical contact and holding hands
Speaking of which, during this date schedule, you will have many opportunities to have physical contact with her and hold hands.
For example, after she finishes eating, you can pass the tissue to her. When passing the tissue, you can "accidentally" touch her hand, and then see how she reacts.
As for holding hands, I asked you to say "I want to hold your hand on the weekend" to her before when we were chatting. You should have done it, right?
This is a hint method in advance, which can give her a mental preparation. Until the date, she may be imagining the scene of you holding hands in her heart, and she will also think about the situation in which you will hold hands, and she will be held hands.
What to do?
Next, you can pretend that you "accidentally" or "accidentally" held her hand.
There are many such opportunities on this date.
For example, when you are walking side by side with her, you can touch her intentionally with your hand. If she does not avoid it, you can hold her hand.
Be careful not to stare at her all the time during this process, otherwise she may reject you out of shyness.
You can look straight ahead and pretend you're not paying attention.
You can also naturally hold her hand and cross the road with her when you are rushing to cross the road. This will make her feel full of security and instantly warm up to you.
Of course, you can also design a mini-game that requires holding hands. After the game is over, pretend you forgot to let go.
If you feel that the two of you are close enough, you can be more generous, reach out your hand like a gentleman, and invite her to hold hands together.
If you don't dare to do the above things or haven't found a suitable opportunity to do it, you can send me a message and I will call you.
Then you pretended to be serious about talking to me on the phone, and then "accidentally" held her hand.
Finally, aren’t you going to a haunted house today?
This is a great opportunity. When she is scared, you can hold her hand or even hug her to provide her with a sense of security.
The premise is, don’t be afraid yourself.
After reading this point, Xiao Zijian has already begun to imagine the scene when he holds Lin Xiuxiu.
He felt that there were so many ways, so holding hands this time would definitely work, but he began to be a little entangled in which method was more suitable.
Just when Xiao Zijian was fascinated and began to fantasize, a pleasant voice interrupted his reverie.
"Zijian, what are you looking at?"
Xiao Zijian came back to his senses and found that a girl had appeared in front of him out of nowhere. She was the person he met on a blind date, Lin Xiuxiu.
She dressed very simply and naturally today. She was wearing a white T-shirt on her upper body and shorts on her lower body. She looked very cute and exuded a girlish atmosphere.
Xiao Zijian was not surprised that she could find this seat, because he had told her the specific location before.
What surprised him was that the other party arrived five minutes early.
Seeing the other person walking towards the seat opposite, Xiao Zijian immediately thought of the contents of the dating tips here.
He at least got up, walked in front of Lin Xiuxiu, and blocked her way.
Then, under her somewhat puzzled look, he pulled the chair back a little, and then raised his hand in greeting.
Then he said: "Xiuxiu, you are here, please sit down."
Seeing his actions and hearing his words, the confusion in Lin Xiuxiu's eyes melted away, and a smile emerged instead.
She nodded in greeting, curved the corners of her mouth slightly, walked to her seat, sat down, and said, "I'm sorry to keep you waiting."
"No, no, it's because I'm too, ah, no, I mean, I just arrived." Xiao Zijian replied immediately.
Perhaps because he hadn't recovered from the "fright" just now, he almost even used the wrong lines he had just prepared.
Seeing that Xiao Zijian seemed to have forgotten to go back and sit down, Lin Xiuxiu urged: "Haha, don't stand all the time. Go back and sit down."
Xiao Zijian returned to his seat and sat down. The contents of the dating tips came to mind again.
So he followed the script and said: "Xiuxiu, the clothes you are wearing today suit you very well. You look very cute."
After Lin Xiuxiu heard what he said, the smile on her face became even stronger. She asked, "Zijian, why are you so good at talking today?"
When Xiao Zijian heard what she said, he paused and said, "Uh, do you have it? I don't have it. This dress is really pretty."
Lin Xiuxiu did not continue this topic, but reminded: "Oh, the weather is a bit hot today, I feel a bit thirsty."
After hearing her words, Xiao Zijian realized that the two of him were here for afternoon tea.
He immediately said: "Xiuxiu, wait a moment, I'll call the waiter over. How about ordering the cold brew osmanthus and oolong cake we mentioned last time?"
PS: Thank you Bao Bao Smile for your monthly ticket.