I was actually very confused and confused about this conversation, because this matter really suddenly found a time point. This time point is really difficult for me, because I really didn't know him 10 years ago.
It is very difficult to explain this problem, very, very difficult, and very sad. This really means that I have encountered a very big bottleneck and a greater confusion.
If I only follow this understanding, will I be the girl in my heart?
Which girl would it have been 10 years ago? Am I another girl? So who would appear like this?
Will I become a substitute for another person, or am I no longer his only one, there was another one before me.
So for this, I think this matter is really difficult to solve. If we really look at it from this perspective, I think this matter may be a relatively painful process for the entire enterprise.
Anna seemed to realize the seriousness of this problem, or she suddenly felt that the problem was a bit abrupt. She could only hug me and subconsciously comfort me.
"Miss Cat, don't worry too much. These things are really not particularly sad. In fact, this is just a joke. Even if you say it, you won't feel special. If you have any doubts, he is rejecting me in a way.
It’s a very tactful way to reject me, so you don’t need to think too much about this matter, and you don’t need to understand these things too much.”
I gave him a bright smile and I hope you tell her that I don't particularly care about your question.
In fact, relatively speaking, it is very influential here. If you follow the rhythm of how the whole thing is handled, it should not affect your mood.
If we go by the rhythm of the whole matter, I think the matter has been handled very well. If it is really necessary to deal with some details, I think it would be better if I asked the parties face to face.
I smiled and said to Anna.
"It's really not a big deal. In fact, it doesn't matter at all which year we met. What we should cherish now is each other's current life more. So, who knows who he met 10 years ago? Who knows?"
You cannot control your previous life, this is a life choice and a free right for everyone."
Anna felt a sense of relief, maybe she thought I was in a good state now, so she felt like she was relaxed.
"Actually, it's not a big deal. If you are really like this, your idea is the best, because as you just said, who can grasp what happened 10 years ago must be at a certain stage of someone's life.
Appeared all the time?"
"Life will be at different stages of life. This phenomenon means that what each of us does in this process cannot interfere or affect others,"
"So what we have to do now is to cherish each other's best life now. I feel 100% confirmed that I actually like you very much. This is an undoubted plan. We don't want to be in this kind of situation."
Too much fussing over small details.”
"Can you give me another brilliant thing to make me feel that you think it is a very beautiful thing, so that I can feel a very integrated life. Hello, I believe you can do this, and you will definitely
Being able to do this is something I have confirmed throughout the entire process.”
Regarding this, I really just tried my best to look at Anna with a bright smile.
I still have some bad feelings deep down in my heart, because after so many years, I have completely new trust in him, or in other words, complete dependence on him.
OK, I don’t want to dwell too much on this matter now, because what I have to do now is still the most important thing at the moment. If I have to dwell on this kind of thing, wouldn’t it become the timidity of my mother-in-law?
Also talking about my little daughter-in-law.
It's not my style, and of course you won't be my original intention.
Some things should be particularly funny, and the whole thing should be done perfectly, so that this thing can reach a natural level. This is what I should do. As long as I accept to complete this thing, then as long as I have a sense of responsibility to complete this thing
Putting it off until it's perfect is the most important thing, rather than just doing it perfunctorily.
About half an hour passed quickly.
Because at this time we continue to do more of our things. In this regard, I now have to calm down and learn more professional knowledge from her.
Regarding this point, I actually don’t know how to confirm it, and I don’t know how to let it go, but I know what method I should use and what understanding I should use in this process to do it better.
, but I think more things should be better understood according to the current understanding.
Anna has now restored her memory to talk about how to train me. I don’t know what she thinks, but now her entire focus is on training.
It seems that everything that happened in our chat just now does not exist, or that this kind of content is not particularly important. What is important is how we arrange and arrange the things that are happening now and doing them seriously.
I finally know that this matter means a result and an important dialogue. I will go back and deal with this matter as soon as possible. If it is dealt with, it may be better. If it is not dealt with, then the whole thing will be better.
You will encounter a very big change.
Anna said: "Miss Cat, you are actually a very smart girl, and the difficulty of learning this kind of thing is not particularly cumbersome for you. Of course, it takes time to learn, because this is professional knowledge after all, and all this time is needed.
Slowly settle it down, use time and combine it with theory, so that you can fully master the mantissa."
I nodded and tried my best to take notes in this regard, because she said it in as much detail as possible.
Anna said: "There is also theoretical knowledge about this piece. We should probably know it after going through it today. We should understand what is called in and out, what is called inclusion and what is called sum. You only need to know these three specific data, these three
How did they obtain the data, how did it evolve, and what kind of result would their day's data produce?"
I nodded.
"I know what this means, right? It means that after the data evolves every day, then check it with the accountant. If there is a problem at any time, it may be a problem in which link, right? If this
If any problem arises, we will discuss it again and I will check whether it is correct?"
Anna patted my hand very happily and laughed loudly.
"Yeah good job! That's how I understand it. If you check that thing carefully, you will find that they have no problem at all, and you will find that every time their data is very stable, you can even use a
It may be better to use drawing data to describe it. By then you will be able to find the dynamics of all the information. Then the entire information will not be as complicated as you imagined. You can make choices based on this curve.
Find out if you can make more money with your business!"
It seems to be a really confusing thing to me, but I don't want to miss his thing, because I know that this thing still needs to be practiced slowly, understood slowly, and learned slowly.
This requires a process, and I need this process to reach this situation.
For this statement, I think this matter can be understood according to normal understanding. If it is understood abnormally, then this matter will be difficult to operate, but I believe that for this kind of thing in the future, I really don’t need to worry too much.
You care about me a lot, but you just want to look at the account books.
I'm a little absent-minded now, because it's really because of this conversation with Anna just now, how could I relax so easily, because this caused me a lot of confusion, this is really important to me
There was a pretty big problem. If we look at the normal situation, then this incident really made me more sincere.
Ah, Anna can see my thoughts, or understand my current emotional fluctuations, maybe she can understand.
Anna said: "Miss Cat, you really don't need to think so much about it, and you don't need to worry so much. Because many things in this matter will happen naturally. Things that are destined to be yours will eventually be yours. If they are not yours, they will not be."
Yours, in our Chinese terms, are they destined to meet each other thousands of miles away? If they are not destined to meet, they are not acquainted. If there are really so many things, according to these understandings, then in fact, you don’t have to think so much at all. This kind of thing does not matter to anyone.
This is a normal thing. Don’t regard it as a psychological burden. If the financial burden is on you, you will feel very stressed in the process.”
I forced her to smile.
Anna continued, because he felt that this matter might be because she was the first to come out, so if you think about my emotions, she might finally find it acceptable, or she might have more ideas and might want to do something with me.
More comfort.
"Miss Cat, you really don't need to worry about these things. You have to know that the gentleman loves you very, very much. There is no doubt about it. He once gave up some of the generous living benefits overseas for you. He actually likes you very much.
It’s a way of life in the West, but he went all the way back to his country just because he liked the girl. Do you know? I once asked him this question?”
"Yes, I once asked him this. I asked him why he didn't want to go back to China. He told me that there was a girl who she could never give up. She was the child of her whole life. I believe that this girl will definitely become
Her happiest source..."
I finally raised my head and looked at her. There was something I had always wanted to ask, but now I finally blurted it out and asked her directly, because this sentence was already hidden deep in my heart.
I asked: "Then let me ask you, if it was you, why didn't you tell me that he liked a girl from 10 years ago and he likes you now? If that was the case, what kind of reaction would you have?
What does it feel like?”
Anna was beaten again for my question. Is it possible? It seems that she is also a perfect girl, and she is an emotional mysophobia when it comes to love and relationships.
Because Anna really thought about it, I asked the question just now.
Then she carefully considered every word and told me her thoughts and understanding very carefully.
"If I were in your situation, I would stand in your position. When I heard the news, my first reaction would be sad. That's for sure, because every girl always thinks that she
A man, his husband, loves himself most, no matter in the past or in the future, this is unquestionable, but this is the first reaction of us girls."
"It can be understood as the suitability of our girls or as a sense of responsibility of our girls. No matter what, this is the most real reaction. So from my understanding, your emotions, I think this
This emotion is normal, and actually it’s not a particularly big problem.”
"If this is the case like what you said, then I might ask my husband, I want to ask about this matter 10 years ago, because for me, I might be able to completely
Ignoring his question, maybe treating it as just a joke, but deep down in my heart, I may still have the idea to ask, and maybe I can ask more clearly, because this always feels like a lump in my throat.
A bone spur."
"However, if this bone spur is not pulled out, it is actually best to have some regrets, or these things will always affect the relationship and trust between the two parties. Over time, this thing will slowly turn into a poison.
The same, slowly evaporating over time..."
"If you are very confused about this issue, or are not very clear about it, I suggest you ask Mr. That question. Maybe this question can clear the air for you..."
"It's better for you to go here and guess at a loss. Maybe it would be better to ask honestly. Of course, this is my suggestion. I don't know if you like this method, because I don't like to hide.
Tucked in."
I finally nodded, actually these things are what I want to say.
No matter what, it's best to understand the truth.