Generally, as long as the parents are present, they will try to persuade them. If not, everyone can take a swipe, but the child must calm down.
If it had been left in the past, Li Mu would definitely have done the same thing.
But in the past two years, he discovered that this approach was wrong.
Because in a modern society that does not respect violence, once people encounter such things, too many people will choose to ignore others asking for help.
The emergence of such a problem is caused by two important factors.
First: Worry about getting involved in right and wrong.
Second: Doing good deeds may not necessarily lead to good results.
So most of the time, when people are attacked by others, they must first learn to save themselves.
If you want to save yourself, the premise is that you cannot wipe out all the hands-on genes in your children when they are young. You should reserve some of them. This is not to let the children learn to solve problems with their hands, but to change their character when they are hit.
Being soft and weak will not form a subjective consciousness that will only hold your head and fall to the ground.
Li Mu naturally does not want his son to encounter such a thing in the future.
But life is not as malleable as growth, because life is full of unknowns.
In this unknown journey, it is impossible to meet everyone who is a gentleman. It is very likely that you will meet a few people who are looking for trouble. Such people are like unchained wild dogs. They will rush in and hurt others for no reason.<
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Maybe the probability is low.
Only one in tens of thousands.
And because of the small probability of one in tens of thousands, it is not worth it to outsiders to retain the child's hands-on genes. They think that he will teach Ran Ran bad things. However, according to Li Mu's observations over the years, people who are generally looking for trouble
Young people are very arrogant and confident. On the other hand, those honest children have soft personalities and can only swallow their anger even when they are hurt.
Li Mu doesn't like fighting.
I also hate fighting very much.
But as a parent, he should find a balance between these two personalities that is suitable for teaching his son.
"We don't make trouble, but if you take the initiative to make trouble with me, then I can also make trouble with you."
This is what Li Mu really wants.
He doesn't like his son to be bullied in the future. He just knows how to hold his head and fall to the ground. If he can't be beaten, don't be frightened and his legs will become weak. At least he can run!
Therefore, Li Mu neither approves nor objects to his son learning to behave like a little girl, because he has never seen that little girl being bullied.
How difficult is his ex-wife!? Xiao Xiaozhi is still submissive, which proves that children with strong hands-on skills can at least protect their legitimate interests from infringement.
In modern society, the definition of concession is no longer to leave room for oneself, but to give others the opportunity to approach oneself.
However
Ranran and Yiyi Heng's son still haven't gotten along yet.
Zhang Lan pulled the two little guys away from each other.
"Are any of you parents like this?"
Zhang Lan scolded Li Mu and Zhou Yiheng, "If the children make trouble, don't pay attention."
Li Mu smiled awkwardly, got up and walked into the kitchen to help.
"Of course, I bet five dollars that you can't beat my son"
Zhou Yiheng went back and forth to fan the flames and said, "Son, I bet you ten dollars that you can't beat Ranran."
"Cut"
Ranran snorted disdainfully.
He pulled little Si Ning to sit on the sofa, then grabbed the remote control from Yi Heng's phone and found "Pleasant Goat and Big Big Wolf" that both Si Ning and she loved to watch.
In the kitchen.
Zhou Yiheng's wife Tian Wenli is cooking. It can be seen that she doesn't know about Zhou Yiheng's mental infidelity yet, but this is normal, just like some good people, many people around her know what profession she once engaged in, and even some
Several people also took care of her business, but the person involved was kept in the dark.
I saw my wife keeping the house in order.
I mistakenly thought she was a good wife.
Seeing her smile so purely, I naively thought she had no story.
"Brother-in-law"
Tian Wenli turned around and greeted Li Mu.
"Yeah"
Li Mu responded with a smile.
Zhou Yiheng’s wife is a woman who lives at home.
Generally speaking, women who live at home have three major characteristics: average-to-lower appearance, average figure, and docile personality. The conclusion that can be drawn is not a random summary by Li Mu, but is supported by big data. p>
Because beautiful women are subject to many temptations from the outside world in society, they also have a clear positioning of themselves, and are often unwilling to do things like cooking, washing clothes, and raising children.
Like Yu Hui and Qin Muxue.
If they didn’t have a pretty face, how could they dare to pursue a higher level of life?
Although the result was not ideal, they dared to divorce. Duji and her beautiful face and figure were replaced by an ordinary woman. Her husband's monthly salary was more than 10,000 yuan, leaving only a few hundred yuan for herself.
To serve his uncle, he is afraid that he will have two children, so a man wants to think better. First, he should stay away from beautiful women.
In the living room.
Zhang Lan glanced at her daughter who was eating an apple.
Mother and daughter walked into the bedroom one after the other.
"Mom, why are you sneaking around!?"
Teacher Zhou said doubtfully.
She thought her mother was going to ask about her brother and Wu Qing. She was just about to say a few words, but her mother actually thrust a bank card into her hand. Teacher Zhou was stunned, completely confused.
Mom, what does this mean?
"There are fifty thousand in the card"
Zhang Lan deliberately lowered his voice and said, "Don't let your brother know."
"Mom"
Teacher Zhou was moved and helpless, and said, "I'm already married, and we have money."
"It's your business if you have money, it's my business if I give it to you"
Zhang Lan patted the back of his daughter's hand and whispered, "Take it, buy whatever you want to buy yourself. Try not to ask Li Mu for money, even if she is your husband. Once a woman asks for money from her husband, the family
Status is completely different from not asking for money. If you don't take his money, he will always respect you."
Teacher Zhou’s breath is slightly sour.
Her mother is doing this now because of her first failed marriage.
She was worried that her daughter's spending of Li Mu's money would make him look down on her daughter.
This mentality should not appear in modern parents who marry their daughters, but her parents are still doing this. They are doing their best to avoid conflicts between their second-married daughter and her husband over money.
Take a deep breath.
Teacher Zhou suppressed the urge to cry, put her arms around her mother's neck, and whispered back, "Mom, you and Dad don't have to worry about me anymore. Li Mu is very good to me, and I believe he will always be good to me. I believe in you."
My daughter, she just chose wrong once, and now she has found the correct answer."
"Yo"
Zhou Hengtan came in with a head.
Immediately.
He saw his sister holding a bank card in her hand.
Without guessing, he knew that his mother was doing her old habit again. She liked to secretly give some money to his sister when she had nothing to do. Zhou Yiheng snatched the bank card from his sister and said angrily, "Mom, what do you want me to give you in the future?"
Are you taking care of yourself in old age, or is it my sister!? I wanted to change my car, so I asked you to borrow 20,000 yuan, and you scolded me for an hour. Why did you come to my sister's place, and you just gave it away for free? What!? A boy who has good wealth also divides his money among others.
!?”
"Give the card to your sister"
Zhang Lan stared at his son and said, "Get out of here"
"OK"
Zhou Yiheng said so.
Without any movement on his hands, he turned around and walked out of the bedroom and asked, "Dad, tell me the truth, who are my biological parents!? I want to go find my relatives."