She came to clink glasses with me, "There is also a manic type after drinking. Such people become angry after drinking, dislike everyone, get angry at everyone, throw plates and bowls, use knives and guns, and are manic and restless.
.This type of person is introverted, usually taciturn, lives a very unsatisfactory life, has a strong self-esteem, and is afraid that others will look down upon him. After drinking, his dissatisfaction pours out like a flood. Such people always live a life like this.
Unsatisfactory, I always feel that I am at the end of the road and have no confidence in the future. In short, because people’s personalities, thoughts and experiences are different, their drunken behaviors are also different. Some people have one type of one, and some people have both.
There are several of them. For example, as you just said, the previous ones are a bit like you. Maybe some people are not among the above. As long as you are careful, you can judge his character and understand his experience through his behavior.
."
I nodded, "What you said seems to make sense. And I think what you said is very similar to the knowledge of psychology. In fact, what a drunk person expresses may be the truest thing in his subconscious meaning. So.
, I think it’s very scientific.”
She smiled and said: "Yes. Now I am intensifying my study. In addition to learning relevant policies and regulations for organizational work, I also need to learn to observe people. I even have to read books like "Ma Yi Shen Xiang"
Woolen cloth."
I was suddenly stunned, ""Ma Yi Shen Xiang"? Isn't that a fortune-telling book? You are in the organization department, how can you learn such superstitious things?"
She smiled and said: "Actually, that thing is not completely superstitious. It is a regular thing. It should also be consistent with statistics. I think, "Ma Yi Shen Xiang" should be based on the analysis of many individuals.
We came to some conclusions after observation. So we can use it as a way to recognize and understand people."
It was the first time I heard about such a thing, and it was the first time I came into contact with the most substantive things in organizational work. I used to think that departments like the Organization Department were very mysterious, but now, I think it is even more mysterious.
In addition, I also like this way of talking, because our way of talking can restore us to the harmony we once had. Including me asking for a drink is also for this purpose, because alcohol has such a function, and...
..I'm worried about smelling her bad breath again.
We no longer have embarrassment and restraint, nor do we remain silent.
Soon, the bottle of wine was finished by both of us. She asked me: "Feng Xiao, do you still want to drink?"
I shook my head, "Sister, let's stop drinking. Let's go to bed early."
Immediately, I went to look at her.
Of course she understood what I meant, and her face immediately turned red, "Feng Xiao, don't you dislike me anymore?"
I said to her softly: "Sister, I found that I was wrong. Some things are impossible to forget. In fact, I am the same kind of person who has a hard life like you."
She also sighed and said quietly: "Yes. In fact, I often think, what about a woman like me at the department level? What about the executive deputy director of the Organization Department of the Provincial Party Committee? In fact, in the end, she is still a
Poor women may not be as happy as ordinary female workers in those factories."
I said: "Sister, in the final analysis it is just a state of mind. The most important thing for us is that we cannot let go of our state of mind, and we can no longer let it go. This is our tragedy."
She nodded, "Feng Xiao, what you said is so good. It is true. In fact, people of our level are nothing. They are not even a speck of dust in front of the state machine. Duanmu Xiong...he doesn't
Were he also a dignified department-level cadre? What was the result? He died like that, like a mosquito in the lake outside my villa. There was not even a ripple after his death. This is the real tragedy. So sometimes
I just thought: Forget it, let’s just find someone of similar age to get married. Maybe then I won’t be lonely anymore. But, I’m not willing to give in. What you just said is right, it’s not that I can’t let it go.
But I can’t put it down anymore. It’s so sad.”
I was also very sad, "Sister, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have talked about such a topic. Let's stop talking and go to bed early."
But she shook her head and said: "Feng Xiao, let's talk for a while. I want to talk to you more. I think we should communicate more. What do you think?"
I nodded, "Sister, is Hong Ya really not coming back?"
She nodded, "This girl has a knot in her heart that she can't open." She then looked at me and said, "You know. But I am also responsible. She contacted me recently, and I told her that you already have a new one.
She has a girlfriend and is getting married soon. She said that she had known this day would come and she no longer thinks about it. She also said that she no longer wants to do business and plans to sell all her assets and start a business.
Travel around the world until you get old and then find a place to settle down. I think this is good. Since people have come to this world, they should see every corner of this world, and they should go there many times.
Go see the most beautiful places so that you can live up to your life. Moreover, I also believe that she can find a true relationship of her own in this process. In fact, many people want that kind of life.
But how many people can really do it? This not only requires financial support, but also requires the absence of family and emotional ties. Hong Ya, she has such conditions, which can not but be said to be a blessing."
After listening to her words, I suddenly became fascinated, "Sister, actually I also really hope to be like her."
She nodded and said: "Yes. That's why I said it was a blessing. Why don't I want to? But can you and I do it? Career, parents, you and children. All of these hinder us from being like
She is so carefree. I have sold her villa for her and all her other properties. But I advised her to keep the supermarket. If she comes back, at least she will still have a piece of property.
here."
I said: "Sister, you and she both still have some money for the project in my hometown. I'll ask Jiangnan Group to transfer it to you right away, okay?"
She shook her head, "In the end, the money is still yours. Let's forget it. Feng Xiao, don't you think? That money is very dangerous, and it is almost difficult to get it back."
I was very surprised, "Sister, why did you say that?"
She said: "Lin Yi is too ambitious. Since he has taken over your company, he has no plans to return it to you. But he will return your principal to you. His purpose is to increase
The total assets of Jiangnan Group are to be listed in the future. Feng Xiao, you must be mentally prepared. If Jiangnan Group can be listed in the future, you will definitely make a lot of money, but if it cannot be listed, you will lose a lot."
I seem to understand, "Investing is inherently risky. That's okay."
She looked at me and smiled, "Feng Xiao, do you know what I like about you? I just like that you don't take money so seriously. So I let you become the dean because I don't think the risk is big, at least you won't
Go greedy."
I said, "Sister, don't worry, I won't make that kind of mistake. And I will definitely achieve results at work and never embarrass you."
She nodded, "I asked Director Zou of the Health Department, and he also praised you."
I felt a little embarrassed and said, "Sister, I'm really grateful to you. There's something I have to tell you, Shangguan Qin..."
However, I was interrupted by her before I finished speaking, "Feng Xiao, stop talking, I already know it. Lin Yi knows the rules in this regard. He called me. He told me, I will definitely
Don't let Shangguanqin's incident affect your development."
I was suddenly surprised: This Lin Yi, which song was he singing?
But she continued: "Actually, I am disgusted with him because he is trying to control more people through you. I have warned him more than once and told him not to go too far. Feng Xiao, you, why can't you see so many things?
What to wear?"
I don't know what specific thing she was talking about, but I think it's probably Shangguanqin's thing, "Sister, no, there's nothing I can do about it."
She sighed softly: "Yes. Unless it's...forget it, I'm tired. Feng Xiao, I'm going to take a bath. You can help me rub my back."
The way she looked at me was full of tenderness, and my heart immediately trembled. (To be continued)