I went to toast him and said, "Old director, what you said makes sense. This is actually part of behavioral science and reflects a person's inner psychology."
He went on to say: "Yes. In addition, a person's sitting, standing and walking also convey his inner thoughts. Some people like to put their hands on their hips, whether they are standing up and moving after sitting in an office chair for a long time, or talking to friends,
They are all accustomed to putting their hands on their waists. Some people even don’t forget to put their hands on their waists when walking. They walk with their upper body leaning forward and their hands on their hips like a sprinter. These people often have a lot of success in doing things.
People with strong explosive power. In addition, people who like to put their hands on their hips when walking are generally impatient. They always want to complete their work in the shortest possible time. Such people have strong explosive power. When deciding to implement the next plan
, often with arms crossed. Also, if you walk with your head up and your chest held high, you often think highly of yourself; if you walk elegantly, you will be calm and collected in situations; if you walk slowly and hesitantly, it means weakness; if you walk leisurely, you lack enterprising spirit;
Those who jump around often have an innocent and lively personality; those who often shake their heads and shake their heads are full of confidence; those who laugh and talk are kind and humane; those who sit with their legs spread open and have a casual posture generally speak more than actions; those who sit with both legs
Those who keep their legs together and cross their hands on both sides of their thighs are more rigid; those who sit down abruptly are mostly hiding their inner uneasiness; those who sit deep in the chair are arrogant; those who stand in a rickety shape show a lack of responsibility; those who like to stand with their hands
Those who put their pockets in their pockets are very thoughtful; standing with their arms crossed represents a sense of challenge and attack; those who walk fast have a firm goal.
It is also important to observe a person's conversation. Zeng Guofan believed that everyone's voice, like the yin and yang of the five elements between heaven and earth, is also divided into clear and turbid. The clear ones are light and rise, and the turbid ones are heavy and fall.
The sound starts from the Dantian, makes a sound in the throat, changes to the tongue, changes to clear and turbid at the teeth, and finally comes out through the lips. All of this is closely coordinated with the five tones of Gong, Shang, Jiao, Zheng, and Yu. Consciousness
When you listen to a person's voice, you have to identify its uniqueness. It may not completely match the five tones, but as long as you hear the voice, you will think of this person, so you will hear his voice and know who he is, so it is not necessarily
Only by seeing his true face can we tell whether he is a genius or a mediocre person. Generally speaking, there are some rules: those who clear their throats frequently when speaking may be concealing their emotions; those who speak like a barrage of firecrackers, most of them lack scheming; those who speak slowly and logically
, have many opinions in their hearts; those who speak loudly have a rough temperament; those who often sigh are a sign of psychological fragility; those who chatter incessantly like to listen to flattery; those who are unclear in speech and slow in speech are often strong-willed; those who are good at using humor to deal with deadlocks
, think quickly; those who speak absolutely have narcissistic tendencies; those who like to use the first person have a strong desire for expression; those who often say "so you said it" usually like to take the credit; those who often say "right" are very tactful and sophisticated
; Those who often say 'this' are cautious in life; those who often say 'actually' are stubborn and willful; those who often sarcastic others are jealous; those who are good at self-deprecation are broad-minded; those who can take the initiative to apologize are more rational and generous.
; People who speak loudly on the phone are eager to express themselves; people who are unwilling to talk about themselves mostly have an inferiority complex; people who are good at complimenting are more tactful; people who often use polite language are more humble in their hearts; people who like to speak dialects have multiple emotions
; Those who speak concisely tend to have a bold temperament; those who speak illogically tend to be unorganized; those who complain often tend to be indolent; those who like to inquire about other people's secrets have a desire to control; those who often brag in front of their subordinates are often unable to adapt to their positions; those who often brag in front of subordinates often cannot adapt to their positions;
Those who gossip behind others' backs are very picky; those who are accustomed to praising others will not easily offend others; those who are overly modest often conceal their true inner thoughts; those who always like to ask questions may want to take the initiative; the corners of their mouths
Those who are upbeat are often eloquent; those who like to cover their mouths with their hands are more introverted; those who do not answer the phone in time are more self-centered; those who do not answer the phone at the right time are usually selfish; those who use their pen when answering the phone are more thoughtful and careful.
Emotions; People who start looking for notes in the middle of a phone call are more likely to be adaptable. Well... what else is there?"
I was stunned and said, "Old Director, your research is too in-depth, isn't it?"
He laughed and said, "By the way, one more thing: those who look down on leaders are mostly those who think highly of themselves."
I almost burst out laughing and said, "Old director, your last sentence is so classic."
Director Liang also laughed, "Director Feng, old director, I respect you very much."
I laughed and said, "Director Liang, can't you hear it? This is a joke made by the old director. Haha!"
While we were chatting and laughing, Director Leng called, "I have invited the two principals in charge of Peking University and Tsinghua University. What did Governor He say?"
I said: "She hasn't replied yet."
He suddenly became unhappy, "Don't you know how to call her secretary again?"
I suddenly felt embarrassed, so I hurriedly said: "I'll ask right away, I'll ask right away."
He hung up the phone immediately. I felt that he was in a bad mood. Moreover, after the old director said so much before, he seemed unable to use his theory to analyze what kind of person Director Leng was at this moment.
mental state.
But I can analyze it. It's obvious that he is already dissatisfied with me in his heart. Because he thinks that I kidnapped him and that I was arranging his work.
In fact, Director Leng is still a scholar-type leader after all, and his character contains a noble element. Of course, my suspicion about the condom has nothing to do with his noble character. I think it is within the scope of human nature.
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But I don’t know: What did I do wrong that made him feel like this?
Now, I don't want to think about this matter carefully. The most important thing now is to complete this task. As long as the matter can be successful in the end, I will apologize to him in the future.
I immediately left the table and went outside to call Secretary He.
As soon as the call was connected, I heard Secretary He smile and say to me: "I was just talking about calling you. What a coincidence, you called me."
I asked hurriedly: "Has Governor He made a decision? Will she come to Beijing?"
When I asked this question, I immediately smiled bitterly in my heart: Why are you still so anxious about doing things? It seems that knowing some truths is useless, and being calm is the result of practice.
"I was just telling you about this matter." Secretary He said to me with a smile.
"Governor He has decided to come, right?" I asked. I wasn't impatient this time, this was an expression of my inner expectation.
Secretary He smiled and said: "Yes, Governor He has decided to come to Beijing. But she said she might have to arrive tomorrow."
I said: "The leader is busy, which is understandable. But if we arrive tomorrow, we will be too tired. Now that she has decided, I will ask the office to book a flight for her right away. By the way, Secretary He, how many people are there in Governor He and his party?"
Did she like to stay in hotels or our Beijing Office?"
Secretary He said: "Just stay in the hotel. In addition, if there is someone from your unit to accompany her, she will come alone. If not, I will accompany her to Beijing."
I immediately laughed and said, "Secretary He, the key is not here. The key is whether you want to come to Beijing or not. That is the most important thing."
She also laughed, and then said to me in a low voice: "Director Feng, if you have someone to accompany you, I will just have two days of rest at home."
I couldn't help laughing, "I understand. Don't worry, I will arrange for someone to accompany Governor He to Beijing right away."
Her voice was still very small, "Thank you, thank you so much."
I immediately called Shanglong Bank and said, "Director Shang, I really need to trouble you to make a trip this time."
She smiled and said: "Okay. Director Feng, you have given your orders."
I said: "At present, our affairs have basically been settled. Tomorrow night we will have a banquet with Minister Dou of the Ministry of Education, as well as the leaders of Tsinghua and Peking University. Governor Huang and Governor He of our province will also attend tomorrow
Dinner. Governor Huang happens to be in Beijing. Your task is to accompany Governor He and Director Leng to Beijing. Within today, you ask our office to buy the tickets for Director Leng and Governor He. Tomorrow morning is the best. Buy them.
Please let me know when you have your flight tickets, and I will pick you up at the Capital Airport tomorrow."
She promised repeatedly, "Okay, I will make arrangements right away." Then she said: "Director Feng, you must have had a hard time this time, right? You have handled such a big thing so quickly. I want to do it again in the future.
No one will gossip about you anymore."
I was stunned for a moment, "Talk about me? Who is gossiping about me? What kind of gossip are they talking about me?"
Maybe she realized that she had let slip, "Haha! It's nothing."
At this time, I didn’t want to go into details with her. I thought I would ask her slowly after she arrived in Beijing.
After I returned to the dining table and sat down, I breathed a long sigh of relief and said, "Now everything is ready. All we need is the east wind."
The old director asked me: "Have you contacted everyone?"
I nodded and immediately went to Director Liang and said, "Tomorrow we will go to the airport to pick up Governor He and Director Leng. Maybe we have to borrow the commercial vehicle from the Beijing Office."
Director Liang said: "Please ask Wu Shuang to transfer another car. What do you think?"
I smiled and said: "Of course that would be better."
Director Liang immediately put down his chopsticks and said, "Director Feng, I will go to the Beijing Office now to finalize tomorrow's car and the menu. I will ask you to take a look at the menu when I get back."
I asked him: "Have you eaten yet?"
He nodded, "If there is nothing else, I will leave now."
I said: "Okay. By the way, let me express my gratitude to Director Wu."
After Director Liang left, the old director suddenly became speechless. He was drinking alone there. I asked him in surprise: "Old director, what do you seem to have on your mind?"
He asked me: "Director Feng, there is something I have never been able to ask you. But I have thought about it for a long time and feel that I should ask you before I feel relieved."
I hurriedly said: "You can ask."
After he drank a glass of wine, he pondered for a moment and then asked me: "How did you manage to do the work at Director Dou's place? Did it cost a lot of money?"
I didn’t understand why he asked me this question, but I still answered him, “It’s Director Liang’s classmate, Director Wu, who introduced me to Director Dou’s son. Director Dou dotes on his son very much.”
He is a precious son. I just treated him to a meal, which cost about 100,000 yuan. It was eaten at the Liaison Office in Beijing, and there was an invoice." At this point, I seemed to understand what his worries were, so I continued.
He said quietly: "Old director, this is not a lot of money, right? In Beijing, a meal that costs more than 100,000 yuan is not the most luxurious thing, right? I also thought about it at the time. If I can't do it in time, this money
It’s up to me to do it myself.”
"Oh." He looked thoughtful, "This Director Wu is not an ordinary woman. She helps you so much. She must also want you to help her with something, right? Haha! I really shouldn't ask this question.
Well. Xiao Feng, actually what I’m worried about is not this matter, but other things that will happen next.”
I looked at him in shock, "Oh? What else happens next? Can you tell me?"
He came to see me and said, "Director Feng, when I was in the provincial recruitment office, the position of deputy director has always been vacant. I heard that the superiors are considering this establishment issue recently, which means that the superiors may arrange it for you soon.
A deputy director. Now that you are the leader, the higher-ups will definitely seek your opinion on the selection of this deputy director."
I shook my head and said, "I know about this. But, what does this have to do with Wu Shuang? Moreover, the superiors may not necessarily ask for my opinion when arranging cadres." (To be continued)