But I disagreed and said: "A person of his age must have many stories. To be honest, he is one of the few such wise people I have ever met. As a person in the shopping mall, someone as wise and elegant as him
Not many. Xia Lan, do you admit this? Not to mention him, even I have been married twice. It is not important. What is important is that the woman he likes now is you. As a woman, I think
Speaking of which, this is enough."
She looked at me, "Really? Feng Xiao, I didn't expect you to be a chauvinist! Feng Xiao, but do you know? Every woman wants someone to love her, but is just being loved enough? Yes.
For a woman, loving her is sometimes just empty talk. Only by marrying her can you show your true sincerity. Love is between you and me. No one is right or wrong, and marriage is about responsibility. How can we treat it like a child's play?
'I love you' is a sweet word, and it doesn't matter if you say it ten thousand times. 'Marry me' is a solemn promise and cannot be said casually. The former is light and the latter is heavy. If you are looking for women everywhere, don't talk about marriage easily.
Marriage is, at most, a matter of love; if you frequently threaten to marry someone but always fail to do so in the end, you must be a bad guy.
Talented men are very carefree. It is easy for them to say "I love you" to women. They blurt it out just to please, but they never hint that there will be a future. Marriage scammers take advantage of this gap. They put "I will marry you" into
'' are three words spoken the loudest, making every woman's heart burst with joy. A married man makes a close friend, is infatuated with her beauty, and appreciates her intelligence. He tells her everything he knows, and he spends his credit cards generously.
When the love is strong, a man keeps saying that the other person is the love of his life, but he doesn't really want to be with her forever.
Loving is one thing, marrying is another. It’s okay to send nine hundred and ninety-nine roses, but when a lover mentions getting married, he will either take the opportunity to run away. If you love her but can’t marry her, love her.
But can't get married. I'm afraid most women are not willing to accept this situation. Whether a man just wants to fall in love without getting married, is pursuing romance and evading responsibilities, or he really has a soft spot for you but just lacks psychological preparation. Anyway,
He just refused to say the most beautiful words. So when a woman heard it occasionally, she was completely knocked down. I once knew a boy who had neither character nor talent, but his girlfriend who lived with him was from a well-off family.
With his outstanding appearance, everyone wondered how these two people got together. Later, the boy proudly revealed that the secret to getting his girlfriend was "I love you" and "I will give everything for you."
It's ridiculous when you think about it carefully. The two of them are just freshmen in their first and second year of college. Their career prospects are all question marks. They can say such big words, but girls will believe them.
I also have a friend who was in love with her boyfriend for a long time, from studying to working. I don’t know whether the relationship faded over time, or the longer we got along, the more conflicts there were, and they almost ended up together. Girls often complain to us about their boyfriend’s faults.
, she wondered how much love there was left between the two, and whether they were together just out of habit. She couldn't make up her mind to break up, but she felt that this relationship had no future. Until one day when the two of them went out on the street and passed by a jewelry store, her boyfriend suddenly asked
She, would you like to go in and look at DEBEERS's ring, and then tell her that you want to marry her? She pretended to be reserved and put on airs, but she was very happy. After that, for many days in a row, the girl's face was clear, and she was very interested in her boyfriend.
The dissatisfaction has long been wiped out. There is no need to talk nonsense when asking for forgiveness from your lover, as long as you are willing to marry her and go home. In American movies, you can often see similar plots: the heroine and the hero have gone through ups and downs, separated and reunited several times, and are about to break up.
edge.
When they met again, the heroine scolded the other party for being unkind and unreasonable, and she cried, punched and kicked her. The hero just kept silent with guilt on his face and let the fists rain down. Finally, he couldn't resist anymore and suddenly took out a big diamond ring.
Kneeling down to propose marriage, the beautiful woman screamed with joy and threw herself into the arms of the dead man. Her little pink fists started beating happily again. In a woman's heart, a man's willingness to marry her is the greatest compliment and respect for her.
So the three most beautiful words in the world are not 'I love you', but 'marry me.'"
Her words made me blush and feel ashamed, but I remembered that I had never said anything like "I love you" to her. But what she just said still made me feel ashamed. If it were true
To be honest, I am not even as good as those who flatter her and say "I love you", because in the past I completely and simply avoided such a question.
But I agree with what she said, and it also made me understand what she really thinks as a woman, and other women may think the same way.
However, I felt that what she just said was not exactly the same as the question I talked about before, and her words also made me feel a little confused. I immediately asked her: "You mean, because Lin Yi
He hasn't proposed to you until now, so you doubt whether his feelings for you are true?"
But she shook her head, "After all, we haven't known each other for a long time, so even if he proposes, I may not agree immediately. He has never said the three words 'I love you' to me. After all, he and I both
I am no longer a young man, and these three words cannot be said casually. But I was thinking in my heart, he is not even willing to tell me his past, how can this mean that his feelings for me are true? He
Whether you tell me or not is one thing, and whether I accept it or not is another matter. I think back when I was dating you, didn’t you tell me all about your past? I also told you about myself.
Things in the past. This is the basis for two people to understand each other, don’t you think? Feng Xiao, originally I didn’t want to mention the past things between us in front of you, because I know that we are no longer possible. To be honest, now
I truly discovered that you are not very responsible for women..."
I suddenly felt even more embarrassed, "I..."
She ignored my embarrassment and continued: "But my relationship with you is different from my relationship with him, because you are younger than him, and I was very passionate about you at the time. We had a relationship first."
Through physical fusion, I can also know how passionate you are for me and how deep your feelings are for me. I am a woman, so I tend to be more emotional. I can completely know your inner heart from your fascination with my body.
What is the emotion? Maybe I didn’t fully understand it at the time, so I thought of establishing a marriage relationship with you, because my idea at the time was very simple, that is: you can make my body greatly satisfied. If you treat me
It would have been perfect if there was more sincerity. But later I realized that I was wrong and that I had too much hope for your feelings for me. Feng Xiao, in fact, you are a man who wraps up his emotions very tightly.
Just like you said yourself, you are afraid. But Lin Yi is different. He is much older than me. Maybe he will not give me much physical satisfaction in the future. And because of this, I have no emotional support for him.
He is more demanding and more demanding. But now, he doesn't even want to tell me his past. You said, how can I completely let go of myself and let all my feelings be devoted to him? What if I
If this relationship fails again, wouldn’t my life be even more miserable?”
I don't know what Lin Yi thinks on this issue, but I can analyze the matter from his perspective. I said: "Maybe he cares about you too much, so he is worried that you can't accept him.
In the past. But one thing I know is that his love for you is real. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to be like him."
She sighed softly, "Maybe. But I can also think this way: He is so rich, it is not difficult to do this. I am a person in the entertainment industry, do things like this still happen less often? Those
In order to pursue a certain young and beautiful female star, the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people, not to mention sending flowers, just high-end luxury sports cars, one after another? But in the end, the ending of those beautiful female stars was different.
Begin with chaos and finally give up?”
I hurriedly said: "He is different. He is a mature man, and he does things prudently and very steadily. In our Jiangnan, no one has ever heard of any scandals about him."
She said quietly: "Maybe. But I am a woman who has been deeply emotionally hurt. There are some issues I have to think about."
I took a look at the beautiful jade necklace around her neck, and then asked her: "Did he give you this necklace?"
She was startled for a moment, then nodded.
I understood immediately, "Xia Lan, since you have accepted such a precious thing, it means that you have accepted him from the bottom of your heart. I feel that I know you better, because I know you
She is not the kind of woman who is particularly greedy for material things. But now I don’t understand, since you have accepted him, why are you still doubting him? Why on earth is this? "
She shook her head slightly and said, "Because I heard a piece of news recently. This news makes me so scared."
I seemed to understand it all at once, but I still asked her, "What's the news? Can you tell me?"
At this time, her face suddenly turned pale. She said: "I heard that he had a child with a young girl before me, and then the girl died, and her death was said to be murder. I
I also heard that his ex-wife has always been dissatisfied with him finding another woman, so some people suspect that his ex-wife ordered someone to do it. Feng Xiao, you must know this matter, can you tell me if it is true? "
Sure enough, I thought to myself. But I felt a little strange, "Who told you this?"
But she shook her head and said: "I, Xia Lan, am not that kind of young and ignorant girl. I am already so old. If I am going to marry him, I have to investigate him, right? Now, I
I have to think about a question in my mind: If I really marry him, will I die like that girl in the future?"
I thought about it and said: "That thing is true. I know that girl, and the police also suspect that she died of murder. However, if it is said that his ex-wife did it, there is no evidence.
But Xia Lan, I think you should take the initiative to talk to him about this matter instead of letting him take the initiative to tell you. Have you thought about it? Maybe it’s because he is also afraid, so he doesn’t dare to tell you.
What about this matter? What is he afraid of? In the final analysis, he is still afraid of losing you. Do you think so? "
She came and looked at me, "Will he tell me?"
I said: "If he really likes you, then he will definitely tell you. What do you think?"
She thought for a while, then smiled at me, "Thank you, Feng Xiao."
At this moment, I suddenly remembered the principles that Governor Huang told me, but I had already violated them. Now I realize how difficult it is not to violate those principles, because
The relationship between me and Lin Yi is so special, and the inextricable connections between it make it impossible for me to avoid certain issues.
And what I didn’t expect was that this conversation between Xia Lan and I would have such a huge impact on my future. Later I thought that the relationship between Lin Yi and I was really like a spider web.
When one thread is touched, the entire web will tremble.
Later, Xia Lan took the initiative to leave here because she got what she wanted to know from me, including what she should do next.
I personally sent her to Lin Yi's stretched Lincoln who had been waiting below. I found that there were several people in black suits waiting around the car.
The driver was Xiao Li, of course I knew him. I looked at him suspiciously, and he said, "These people are sent by the boss to protect Miss Xia."
This explains everything: it seems that Lin Yi really likes this woman from the bottom of his heart. (To be continued)